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[TunaParticipant 6]

I’m 28 and always been a bit of a lone wolf. I first heard of MGTOW recently when it was mentioned on HoneyBadgerRadio, which is also something I just recently came across. Actually to be honest the entire concept of “Men’s Rights” was something I didn’t even know existed. I’m new to MGTOW but well versed in the lifestyle; this seems to be a common theme among many new members here from what I can tell.

I guess I’m expected to give a testimonial or reason why I’ve been drawn here, so here goes: I’ve never been a people person. I have a hard time trusting people, at the top of that list are women. If you would have asked me a few years ago why I am this way, I would have shrugged my shoulders and told you that I have no idea. However recently I did some soul searching on my own and started putting things together. My first bad experience with women would have to be my relationship with my mother, or lack thereof. I don’t know very much about her or my past, but from what I gathered she was married and had two sons. I was the result of her fling with an alcoholic that eventually destroyed her marriage. I was then abandoned as a baby and then adopted by an infertile family.

Marriage was always something I felt was an obligation that I had to accomplish, not because it was something I wanted, but because I felt it was the cost of a great debt I owed to my adoptive family (I am their only male heir). As a man, I felt as though it was my duty to get married and have kids. I have a vast amount of respect for my adoptive mother, as she strove to fulfill her role as a mother despite her biological incapability to produce her own children, a stark contrast to my real mother whom I resent. Her ultimate wish is for me to live happily ever after with a woman I love and give her the grandchildren she always wanted. The sad reality is that it will likely never happen. Its simply too much risk, and it forces me to consider the worst case scenario and my deepest fear: creating another me. I don’t ever want to be responsible for my future children to have to deal with the feelings I struggle with everyday.  I feel that would be my greatest failure as a father, and a human being.

My last serious relationship was 7-8 years ago. It was miserable and perhaps another story for later. I was, at the time, what you would describe as your average blue piller. Between then and now I’ve come to terms with the world I live in. I recently gave dating one last shot to “test the waters” and see if things had gotten better since I last tried. I lined up something from some woman who had contacted me on PlentyofFish. She was below average looking, preferred that I picked her up and drove her home (One and a half hour drive), and she showed up 30 minutes late. During our time together her only interests seemed to revolve around how little money she had and how I could help her out. On our first date I was asked if I could afford to rent an apartment for her so she could move out of her parents basement, the fact that she was already married (but separated), and If I could build a computer for her (I work as a computer technician). She proceeded to liberally spend as much of my money as she could at the diner we were eating at before I took her home. Needless to say it was a long silent ride back. She said she didn’t think it would work out between us because I didn’t seem assertive enough and I didn’t talk very much, I agreed it would be best not to see each other again. I took off and drove another hour and half back to my house and deleted my account with prejudice. I look forward to spending another 7 years relationshipless.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

I understand how you feel.  I am done with women forever after by painful divorce.  Woman are not an advantage to men, they are a disadvantage, an obstacle to achieving your dreams.  I made million dollar independent film, just when I was about to release the film my ex said, “PICK ME OR PICK THE MOVIE” at that time I picked her, instead of releasing my dream movie project.  I am finally focusing on releasing my film “The Indian American Movie” next year.  You can find the movie trailer on youtube.  It’s not worth compromising your dreams  for a woman.  Woman only care about what they want, they never care about what this man wants.  You are better of paying for sex if you have to, I recommend transcending sex, so you don’t need sex to be happy.  Thanks for sharing Tuna.  Ray Bandaku

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hey Tuna. loved your intro.

I always like to respond to all of them , and I/m late getting back. Welcome and thank you for joining. I know you had no intention of making anyone laugh… but I had to LOL at the part about the girl wanting YOUR MONEY for help to move out of her parents basement. I wish I could frame that sentence and show it to anyone who thinks MGTOW are a bunch of “loser basement dwellers” when the women who pretend to “reject” men are actually the loser basement dwellers.

I’m quite confident you will find that just as hilarious.
In fact, I hope it alleviates your concern somewhat to know that it’s NOT YOU, it’s HER.

She lives in her parents basement, and wants to treat you like a wallet…
then she thinks she is “rejecting” the person she wants money from???

  “I don’t think it will work out because you’re not assertive enough”.

  “No sugarbush, it’s not gonna work out because I f~~~ing said so. Now get the f~~~ out of my car and walk. Assertive enough bitch?”

It’s a comedy waiting to be made into a movie.

Your instincts were dead right. You identified the wrong girl before disaster happened.

In all other ways, thanks for your openness. That pressure is not easy. I understand it, because I am the eldest and was looked at for grandchildren, but thankfully my brother knocked a chick up twice and he lifted the obligation. 2 Daughters. Yikes.

He actually pointed me to this video:
/video/dad-life/

“I look “nice”.
I got dozens of dollars
and that’s right…
it goes straight to my daughters
and my wife….”.

That’s what you can look forward to if you let a woman treat you like a wallet.

We hope to read more from you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[jambearParticipant 282]

Welcome Tuna,

I can relate to your situation a little bit. I am the only son in my family of 5 children and we are a traditional Mexican family. If you know anything about the culture then it is important for the son to have a family and continue the name. Needless to say I am under some intense pressure to get married and all that jazz but I have the heart of a MGTOW, so it is out of the question. Hopefully artificial wombs come into play and we do not have to worry about woman anymore but who knows.

Hopefully your date did not make a huge dent into your wallet. Please tell me that hour and a half drive was for both ways at least and not one way because, ouch either way. I am glad woman are beginning to show their colors like this. The more and more they give up all pretenses of gold-digging behavior the more men will wake up and begin to go MGTOW.

@RayBandaku

I you-tubed your movie and it looks interesting. Arraigned marriage for the modern age, I never thought about it so it will be cool to get a look into the world.

 

[TunaParticipant 6]

Yes I agree, comedic gold. Perhaps you gents would appreciate another quick story involving recent events.

I have a friend who I stay in good contact with. I know her through work as she was our original secretary before she found position at a better job. She is good company, thin, good looking, sociable… a little bit on the naive side though. Basically, yes she is a woman but she isn’t an entitled bitch. Anyway, she has always had this fascination with me because she knows I don’t date but I never tell her why, she just knows I’m not into people. Lately she has been trying to play match maker with me and is adamant about hooking me up with one of her friends, its cute, but I always decline.

Regardless she has been trying her best to ‘groom’ me over for her friend. A topic that she likes to bring up most often is my smoking habit. Now, I enjoy a cigarette every once and awhile. It helps keep people away from me and it always gives me a plausible excuse to bail on people I don’t feel like talking to, but I am by no means a chain smoker: the answer is always no, I’m not quitting. Anyway, she knows that I recently went on a few dates and always asks me how they go, I simply told her that I deleted my account and I’m avoiding women because most of them my age are starting to get the baby rabies. She gave a laugh and asked “What? Don’t you get baby rabies?” I mentioned she was naive, but yeah, she is really really naive. So I explained to her that I am a guy and guys don’t get baby rabies, that women have a biological clock that goes off because they have a limit to how many eggs they produce in their lifetime, and then menopause. Men’s sperm will loose a bit of their mobility the older they get, but generally never stop producing them until death. I told her that its more likely I’d start having boner problems in my 50’s but for now, everything is quite healthy downstairs. She laughed again and said, “So, you are going to wait until you are an old man until you have kids?” I replied, “I don’t know, maybe. But at least I have that option.”

I’m not sure I could do any justice explaining her reaction when she suddenly realized that yes, women do have a short shelf-life and men do not. I can only hope she passes that little factoid on to her friend 🙂

 

 

[jambearParticipant 282]

That is a clean one-two combo right to the baby maker and your friend is down for the count, will she be able to pull herself off the mat or lose the match? Tune in after these commercials and find out.

That is a great story though Tuna, it is better that people hear the truth rather than finding out about the truth when it is to late to do anything about it..

[McQueenParticipant 77]

The intros here are very interesting. Welcome Tuna. Thanks for sharing.

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