Hey everyone

[Johnny BaratheonParticipant 1]

Hey everyone, I had heard a bit about this community in the past, but only really came here to have a read of the posts a couple of days ago, whilst reading these I found that I could identify with many of the issues of the men here.  I guess I could say that I have been going my own way for a few months now, I am 30 years old, got into the pickup scene during my early twenties which gave me bit more confidence with women, I never really mastered the cold approach though, instead getting a job working in a nightclub and relying on my social proof to get girls.  I did get a few girls and have a couple of relationships from my time working in hospitality, but nowhere near as much as the time I spent in that environment, it only averaged out to having sex with about 5 girls a year, which is an extremely low success rate considering I was in a party environment for 2 or sometimes 3 days a week.

To cut a long story short, I finally grew sick of the nightclub scene, of c~~~ teasing girls and their stupid c~~~ blocking friends.  I have been f~~~ed over a few times by females have had depression because of this.  Sadly I dedicated much of my time to gaining validation from females with most of my hobbies centred around improving myself so I could get a girlfriend, doing things such as Toastmasters, reading about bulls~~~ NLP techniques and doing stupid affirmations.

I cannot say that I have given up dating permanently, if the right woman comes along I would like to pursue a relationship with her, but gone are the days in which I would constantly chase women on online dating websites and speed dating.  I will not chase women for sex anymore, I have realised that it is much easier to just pay for it, where I live prostitution laws and pretty relaxed.  The way I see it, you can get money back, but you can never regain time.  When I look back I feel a bit bitter and angry at the amount of time I spent chasing girls just because I was horny and wanted to get my dick wet, I also feel p~~~ed off thinking about all the crap that I have been through trying to find someone to settle down with.  I realised the hard way that life is not like a Hollywood movie in which the average man gets his princess, things end badly and men often get screwed over.

At the moment I am pretty happy with things in my life, I have a decent paying job, go to the gym regularly, and go scuba diving regularly.  I plan on moving to Europe next January, something I am really looking forward to as the city I live in and have lived in for my entire life is pretty uncultured and provincial.

Looking forward to chatting to a few people.

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Welcome Johnny,

Glad you found us. As you may know many of the guys here can relate to your shunning of the night club and dating scene. I can tell you myself, if you move to Europe, you will find culture and adventure, however, the women are the same, just a little more reserved about their true nature. I’ve been here for almost a year and have had my share of fun. With that said, welcome to the Fold.

P.S. As a tip from one guy to another ( I’M NOT ADMIN), might I suggest if you have any questions or want to start a new thread, try utilizing the search bar (magnifying glass) in the top right corner. You’ll find it’s pretty spot on with whatever you’re trying to find, or want to know about. If you can’t find it there, it probably doesn’t exist, and feel free to post otherwise. Again welcome and hope to see you in the forums.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[LonerBonerParticipant 358]

Welcome!

Also a new member so spending alot of time reading stuff in the forum. Makes me more confident everyday that i should stay single. I alredy have kids so no point for me to get involved again.

Also started to ignore women, feels good. At some point i will get horny but for now ill get by with porn. To pay for sex is a really bad idea in Sweden, the land of feminists.

Keep clam i'm dyslexic.

[Anonymous 42]

You made the right choice! Johnny noBARseine! Focus on yourself and vigorously try to catch up on all the lost time! Focus on your brain reprogramming that needs to be done! You’re better off spitting out those last vestiges of hope you have in finding a unicorn! It’ll be your Achilles heel! The VAST majority of westernized women have nothing to offer but a savage degrading of your spirit with emotional and financial ruin. With all the carnage I’ve witnessed throughout my life, My assessment is that you’re hoping to find a diamond in the city dump! In search for that diamond you’re likely to come out stained and stinking of trash! IMHO. but anyway, WELCOME! glade you made it out of the night-CLUB-YOURSELF scene!

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! The more, the merrier!

Full disclosure: Merriment is exactly what I am up to right at this moment.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[GunslingerParticipant 242]

Hello Johnny…Welcome and thanks for sharing your story.

Loved your quote about Hollywood and men getting their princesses. they spin these tales of men getting their princesses or vice versa. What they don’t show is, 5 years down the road the bitch takes him for everything he has and goes off to find her “bad boy prince. She’s now tired of the good guy she thought she wanted.

So take in all the information you can from this site…The red pills go down so nice. In just the past few weeks I’ve been here, it’s helped me realize I’ll never marry again.

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