Just thought i’d introduce myself and tell a lil about my story. I’ve never told anyone this before
I’m young, in my 20s, about to graduate with a good degree in finance from a decent school. Being in college has shown me the true nature of my generations females. In school I have met some of the most superficial, vapid, entitled women I have ever seen, and i’m done.
In highschool i always tried to be the nice guy, never said anything mean to girls, chivalry and all that s~~~. WHen i was a junior I met “C”. C was pretty, seemed nice. Little did I know what i was getting myself into. We started “dating” tho she never called it that, to her we were “hanging out” and we were friends. The night she told me she didnt wanna be gf and bf, at the end of the night she pushed me up against my car and starting making out with me and groping my dick. From then on, we would hook up, but only when she wanted too. I always paid for our dates, of course and she never offered. One time, she literally stuck her hand down my pants, and pulled my dick out. After about a minute or two she decided she didnt want to do anything. So there I am, sitting in a car, dick out, blued balled, and when I asked her at least to finish what she started, I get called a sexist and a womanizer. i’ll let you guys decide if that was sexual or abuse or whatever.
C was truly, really crazy. She would call me at night crying, thats it, wouldnt say anything when i answered the phone. claims she would “accidentaly call me”. Once she TEXTED me while i was at my best friends house and told me she was sitting on the dock at some family members lake house (middle of winter) and that she was going to just jump in and kill herself. When i frantically tried calling her, and had a breakdown in front of my best friend, she didnt pick up. FInally she called me back and I had to “talk her down”. To this day i dont know if she was testing me or was serious.
Another time she called me at about 12:30 on a school night and told me she was going to move away to another state…..unless I convinced her not to……over the phone. that same night I got a call from a guy who was in our class that she was “friends” with. He called nearly in tears asking what I said to her that would make her move away. I believe she told us both the same thing to see what we would do and who would be more upset and do more to “keep” her. Finally i got fed up with all the bulls~~~, and I asked her if she was seeing other guys. I knew she probably had been, but she confirmed it. I cut our date short that night and haven’t spoken to her since.
My next high school gf, E, was a class A gold digger. Sure she would let me f~~~ her…after a nice long date with dessert and appetizers and a movie. She would constantly ask me to buy her things, and make up a reason. “its for our 2 month anniversary, why wont you buy me a $200 pandora bracelet”. Meanwhile she made almost 40% more than me. For valentines day I took her out on a nice date and gave her a $75 necklace. She gave me an empty glass coca cola bottle filled with red and pink beads with a bow on it. I let E know as I was getting ready to graduate, i would be moving away to school after the summer and we would probably break up when I left. I guess she thought she could change my plans, but when the time came, I told her we’re breaking up, I get called an asshole, once again I’m called a womanizer (years later, she told me I treated her better than any guy before or since). ABout 3 weeks after that, i get a call from E. “I missed my period” thats not possible, we used plan b (even when it probably wasnt necessary cuz hey, she wasnt paying, I was) go get a pregnancy test “I cant for 3 days because my friend has to drive me”. Worst 3 days of my life, i was in constant debilitating stomach clenching fear. Of course, i heard back from her eventually, but only after she made me promise that I would stay with her if she was pregnant. Turns out she wasnt pregnant, thank god, and i think she faked the whole thing.
Since then i’ve kept my distance. Ive had a few girlfriends, nothing serious, and I realized I hated every one of them at some point during the relationship. I’ve seen friends ripped apart by girls who they gave everything too. My freshman year roomate (it was a large suite-style room) had his dead beat girlfriend living with us in the dorm. SHe would sit around all day and play WoW and smoke ciggarrettes. She eventually moved back into his parents house with him, until they finally broke up when my friend woke up and realized how much she was dragging him down. Another friend of mine had a daughter with a girl. Shortly after she was born, he found out she had been cheating the whole time. Luckily he got custody, but he still pays her alimony (although she probably makes more as a RN) out of his small income as a mechanic, while supporting the kid.
My uncle got divorced recently, he made about 100k a year and his wife made around 120k. Now he lost the house, has limited rights to the kids, and HE pays HER $62,000 a year PLUS child support. Oh and he sold his business for $3.4M, and she got $1.7M of that straight up. Recently a kid at my old high school was accused of rape. It a private school and he got kicked out. Turns out she was lying and got caught admitting it. She still goes there, he got out of juvi a little early.
Now, i dont even worry about it. Why should i waste time and money trying to court some vapid, entitled, liberal arts major just to have my b~~~~ ripped off in a divorce when she decides she can do better. Why should i even try and have a one night stand when the girl can decide she regrets it the next day, cry rape, and my career, life, reputation, everything is ruined forever, even if shes proven wrong. Maybe i’ll just have every chick sign a disclaimer release form and get written confirmed consent before I even touch her. Why should i try to be an upstanding citizen, treat women and children nicely and protect them when the media portrays me as a violent, uncontrollable, animal who’s about to go rape women and diddle kids all day long. Either that or a fat, dumb, out of touch, subservient “TV dad” like you see in every show on television. F~~~ it all, I say.
Thanks for reading guys, sorry its so long. I know probably no one really cares about my story, but it felt good to write it.
JediTim 5 years, 2 months ago.
