Hey Guys…Good to meet y’all – thanks for being here!
Turning 47. Never married/engaged. Nailed plenty of chicks…getting tired of ’em…binging on MGTOW vids…
Early 20’s – moved here in a tent, played on the street, built up a pretty cool little career over time – teaching, touring regional colleges, a rock band, recording, etc…
In my 30’s – spent 7 years in Israel, looked for a nice Jewish girl and did music. Amazing experience. Incredible place.
Post Israel @ 40: re-started a musician career in the US – lived in my van, a friends finished basement, an office building, and now a (ranch house-sized) recording studio – converted from a warehouse – which is awesome and comfy – great for business, a touch remote socially, and very affordable (it IS a warehouse) – I pay what a 1 bedroom apartment averages in town for this killer huge space – saving money, buying gear…
Found MGTOW a couple months ago. A dating site I’d used in Israel connected me w/a cute divorced mom of 2 here…She made it *clear* she was marriage bound. I hadn’t thought about marriage forever, googled it, and found MGTOW.
When I told her I was skeptical of marriage, she cracked. “I have guys on OKCupid offering to be my f*ckbuddy ’til I find my husband.” LOL. She’d JUST bought a house – the payments will be over her head when her alimony runs out, in 2 years. Seeking chump to insert into picture. Nice.
A lot of Jewish American chicks I know in their late 30’s are hitting the wall hard and suffer from big doses of feminism.
I recently facebook chatted w/an old flame from Israel in NYC who was so offended by my (awesome) advice to her as she told me her dating woes, that she cut off all contact. Thanks MGTOW. 🙂
Last ~4 years I re-dated a (single mom) gf from college long distance (100 miles). It evolved into a commitment and then when I broke up w/her, she was up for keeping it casual if we could stay together, which was cool, as I evolved a chick rotation. Whenever she felt like she was going to lose me, she’d ramp up the sex, but lately it had morphed into just phone friends. She was recently in town (very rare) and didn’t try to connect w/me (a first). After getting her to fess up to losing interest in sex (early menopause + a C-section injury) I gently cut waaay back on contact with her. We’re “friends” – but it’ll be a rare check-in. Damn cute girl, too bad.
These chicks were at least my phone friends. But frankly my guy friends are better conversationalists. I’m feeling a touch more lonely/isolated even than usual – but quite stable. I’m also stoked by what I’ve been able to accomplish lately…
My career is growing – I earn ~$50-$120/hr part time – as a producer, instructor & performer so I can work on my creative music projects. This month I had 2 solo gigs – one private, one corporate – neither was uber fun, but each paid a little under 2 grand (they take ~15-20 hours A to Z) and move me towards loftier artistic goals…sure, I’m far from wealthy, but as an artist I’m grateful to be making forward motion and have all I need…
Recently a distant family member contacted me – he produced some minor national r&b/rap hits and needs my niche skills. Its loads of work, on spec (can easily go nowhere), but he’s had so many major label releases, I’m going for it…can’t help but think what some PR saying I’m on the new track w/rapper so + so might accomplish w/local college chicks, lol. But truly its a career move.
Also about to get back to my own artist career – songwriting, recording, etc…
Lately I’ve had some minor health issues that make me lean towards the studio vs traveling. A bit challenged on weight. I lost it, then put it on, dammit!
Last month I noticed a decline in my sex drive, and for a few weeks, I was getting headaches when I would almost orgasm. !Ouch!
I’m coming back to health again, thank G-d, but it was crazy timing – finding MGTOW and Tom Leykis, ditching chicks that were trying to get me to nail them w/o condoms, etc + the temporary sexual decline all at once – whoa…
I still troll tinder a bit…I’m still up for a nice Jewish girl – but it would have to be seriously on my terms and having a family does not seem to be likely. And I’m cool w/whatever at this point…I think MGTOW is helpful in that respect.
Well, I wanted to reach out and say hey. If you read this far, wow, thanks, and you’re insane 🙂 and nice to meet ya.
joetech 3 years, 4 months ago.
