Helping out the ex

[GrizzlyParticipant 42]

I was at a client’s house today and as I left I tried to figure out another time to come back. She said “If I can’t make it I’ll get my ex husband to let you in (rolls her eyes). Ugh, I know he’ll do it.”

Not only did this dude lose his house and kids but he’s still doing chores for an ungrateful, arrogant woman. I don’t know the guy or their whole story but because of my experiences her offering his help without even asking him caught my attention. I would assume he does stuff for her still.

Anyone here still help your ex out with stuff like that? I just can’t imagine stopping what I’m doing during the day to help her out by letting a dude into her house…

[Anonymous 54]

I was nice to my mentally ill x for years.Decades.She pretended to be my freind, and I fell for it.

The worlds most ungullable guy, and I got played.That will allways haunt me.

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Anonymous wrote:

I was nice to my mentally ill x for years.Decades.She pretended to be my freind, and I fell for it.

The worlds most ungullaby guy, and I got played.That will allways haunt me.

Everyone gets played I had a bad situation live in girlfriend when I decieded to leave lease expired, things settled down she was being all nice I helped this ungrateful bitch move for like 2 days. Then when I was moving my stuff she was nowhere to be found.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[Anonymous 5]

Of course they have no problem trying to find out if you would help move her stuff.but of course she’s not going to help you . she too good to get dirty moving things for you.

[Anonymous 3]

Grizzly wrote:

I just can’t imagine stopping what I’m doing during the day to help her out by letting a dude into her house…

That proves who has the best intentions at heart and who is an exploiting, manipulative, insensitive, destructive, c~~~…

And the weird thing, it is men that get shammed for being exploited.

[~BSParticipant 3266]

not unless it’s mutual helping (as a friend or family member would do). I only have one ex like that.

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in your situation above, I’d only do it if I was on good terms, and she’d be willing or has done the same for me, when called upon for a favor. If it’s all 1 way, then f~~~ that.

"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

You grow up being trained to do what you say, and your gonna keep your word. Then in the real world you realize 50% of the world doesn’t play by the rules you were taught I think that made me red rage the most when I first came to terms with it. Like your whole upbringing was a fuking lie.

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[GrizzlyParticipant 42]

~BS wrote:

not unless it’s mutual helping (as a friend or family member would do). I only have one ex like that.

I hear you on this. I definitely don’t have this type of relationship with my ex but I realize some people might be on good terms with them. I wouldn’t mind helping my ex, but it would have to be beneficial to me or my boy at this point (thanks to the discovering the red pill).

[53ClicksUpParticipant 1345]

I have two Ex’s…Wife number 1 is a pleasant person and we help each other out with stuff all the time. No drama there and we remain friends. Wife #2 however was crazier than a s~~~ house rat, with full blown NPD and psychopathic behaviors. When I pulled the plug on that 3 marriage and moved out, I vowed to myself that I would never….ever speak to her again, much less help her out with anything. It was easy to do too, because I also figured two more “Constant Laws of the Universe” at the time. The two laws are: 1) You can’t fix stupid…….and 2) There’s no f~~~ing way to fix crazy either.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

The ex will request this and that as if it’s her god given right. I don’t respond because I’m not going to get involved anymore. It’s a slippery slope and ends at the bottom with shaming and manipulation. Requesting things is her lure and it’s only meant to give her the advantage (or some time to bait a sucker on your time). Just you try and make a request and see what happens. You’ll get the picture real quick.

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Buller100Participant 2189]

No after divorce kept well clear, when you see what they are like who cares about them ?

I guess its different if you have children,

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