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First I’d like to say that I love my sister and we have some good memories. It might look like I hate her, but I don’t. She has been a great window for me to look into the ‘female world.’ I see myself staying close to her for as long as were alive because I’m a family man ya know? But damn, I’m grateful for having a sister because you really get a firsthand look at how retarded girls are.
Sometimes I’d get stuck going shopping with my mom and sister and my mom would buy her everything she asked for and then if my mom said no to one thing my sister would throw a fit. The whole day would be ruined. It happened countless times. Side note: Having to shop with my mom and sister while growing up has done serious brain damage. I know males can act this way too, but think about it… Those males usually grow up with single mothers who TAKE THEM SHOPPING. That’s where the brain damage is being done! AHA! I just figured that out while typing on the spot. That’s a whole other post I could do.
Anyway,
My sister drops out of college to go to rehab even though she wasn’t doing drugs or drinking that much. She got WASTED one night and it freaked my family out so we sent her to rehab. I’d like to point out that she actually begged to go and came up with the idea herself.Dad sent her to an expensive rehab in California that was like staying at a resort. She met a guy there and they started f~~~ing. Guess what? His family didn’t live far from my family and so they thought it was a sign to get married. My sister marries this rehab retard and then fast forward 4 years and she’s a single mom with full custody of the two kids who are 3 and 2. Now she lives off my dad and has an apartment close to mine. We hang out about once a week, even though she’s a girl which makes her retarded, I still love her.
One reason we are close is because her girl friends and my guy friends are all a big group and we hang out. Now that I’m red pilled, these are always great learning experiences. Like this last time, the dudes and I had a restaurant picked out to eat at and a time. Then we go to my sister’s apartment to meet with the girls and they take 45 MOTHER F~~~ING MINUTES changing our plans a million times and arguing about all the details and GUESS WHAT?
We went back to the original plan but 45 minutes later. The girls were so proud of themselves, I don’t know why, but they were. Having a sister lets you really see the dark side of women at a young age, but it’s easy to think your sister is just the spawn of satan and not all women are like that. It takes years of being let down to realize that all women ARE like that.
My question is: What do you guys do about your sisters? Part of me can’t stand being around her or her friends at all, now that I’m red pilled. Part of me wants to stop hanging out with my sister, but that goes against my family values so it isn’t an option.
I have a really hard time not calling her out on her constant bull s~~~, but when I do we can’t get along. Her friends, who I used to like, are also starting to really p~~~ me off. It’s like the red pill makes all girls look absolutely retarded! Being around them is a chore and a bore. But my sister and her friends are nosey in my life and want to hang out about once a week. So what do I do?
"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches
You have to let her learn on her own for the most part. If she comes to you for advice, you owe it to her to be honest. Otherwise, it’s best you keep your advice to yourself.
I would hang out with her alone instead of when she’s around her friends. That will give you some quality time and avoid some frustration on your end.
I would hang out with her alone instead of when she’s around her friends. That will give you some quality time and avoid some frustration on your end.
That’s a really good point. Looking back I just realized she acts really stupid around her friends -so does my mom. My goes FULL retard around her friends and acts so fake I want to vomit
"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches
so does my mom
Yup, same here. I always enjoy conversations with my Mom in private. I never speak with her while she’s around other women. I don’t have a sister but if I did, it would be the same.
Anonymous6So let me get this strait, your sister went to a rehab that she really didn’t need and she f~~~ed her life up worse by going there? Is that a good summation? She got knocked up by a junkie Chad?
By the way just keep your mouth shut and really think about the type of interaction that you have with these people. Ummm, and I’m just asking here, what type of brain damage are you talking about? Like cross dressing kind of s~~~?
Many moons ago, my younger sister (by 3 years) had a female friend named Jamie. They would spend weeks together.
Sleepovers. Swimming. Movies. Girl talk.Then suddenly, no Jamie.
I asked my sister why? So found out the reason is she now “Hates Jamie.”A few weeks later, Jamie is back.
Sleepovers. Swimming. Movies. Girl talk.
Besties for a few weeks then, you guessed it, my sister “Hates Jamie” again. This went on for months.
My mom told her to stop being friends because it’s ridiculous.I asked my mom: “Why does sister keep being friends and then enemies with Jamie.”
Mom said: “Because that’s the way girls are.”
Red Pill moment I won’t forget. HAHAHAHA
If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.
Dude, what the hell.
You know the answer.
You are willingly submitting yourself to unnecessary female drama and then bitching about it here. You know what to do. You are not really a retard. Do you just need others to tell you?
I am not saying cut it off 100%. Small doses, one on one, for a short time with a simple preplanned, clear goals.
Cut out people who p~~~ you off. The others are not important.
Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.
So let me get this strait, your sister went to a rehab that she really didn’t need and she f~~~ed her life up worse by going there? Is that a good summation? She got knocked up by a junkie Chad?
By the way just keep your mouth shut and really think about the type of interaction that you have with these people. Ummm, and I’m just asking here, what type of brain damage are you talking about? Like cross dressing kind of s~~~?
Regarding your first paragraph, that sums things up nicely.
When I say brain damage I mean growing up I was always a big mangina.
"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches
Anonymous6So let me get this strait, your sister went to a rehab that she really didn’t need and she f~~~ed her life up worse by going there? Is that a good summation? She got knocked up by a junkie Chad?
By the way just keep your mouth shut and really think about the type of interaction that you have with these people. Ummm, and I’m just asking here, what type of brain damage are you talking about? Like cross dressing kind of s~~~?
Regarding your first paragraph, that sums things up nicely.
When I say brain damage I mean growing up I was always a big mangina.
Yep that’s what happens. I hope that you now eat raw meat and lift heavy objects while growling and grunting.
Dude, what the hell.
You know the answer.
You are willingly submitting yourself to unnecessary female drama and then bitching about it here. You know what to do. You are not really a retard. Do you just need others to tell you?
I am not saying cut it off 100%. Small doses, one on one, for a short time with a simple preplanned thing, clear goals.
Cut out people who p~~~ you off. The others are not important.
true
"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches
She has been a great window for me to look into the ‘female world. But damn, I’m grateful for having a sister because you really get a firsthand look at how retarded girls are.
I agree with this, and have generally noticed men without sisters tend to be more white knights, too easily distracted by women, fall apart around them, are “nervous” talking to (or approaching) them, and can be almost handicapped in a way.
I went to private boarding school which was like living and growing up with 300 sisters (and brothers) 24/7/365. This is an exposure that most men simply don’t get. I got to know “women” EARLY – and very intimately.
Where other men tend (like some of my friends ) to “romanticize” women as angels, I might regard them as my “bratty little sister” and have no problem treating them as such.
They actually behave differently around women. I don’t.
My question is: What do you guys do about your sisters? Part of me can’t stand being around her or her friends at all, now that I’m red pilled.
I pulled away from my very large social circle over time. Even women in my family. I have very low tolerance for any female influence – or attempted influence.
But if I had a sister, I would be very neutral as I am wth my very blue-pill brother, his wife, and cousin’s wife.
I have a really hard time not calling her out on her constant bull s~~~
Why.
Be amused by it. Do it with a smile. If it’s infuriating bulls~~~, you can remain silent, nod, observe . . .
So what do I do?
Internalize it. If you had a super power like seeing through clothes or reading minds, would you blab and tell everyone? No. You’d just read their minds and enjoy it.
Red pill vision is a little like that. Keep it to yourself. It’s a highly advantaged position. Nobody NEEDS to know what you know or what you’re thinking at all times. In fact, it’s better if they don’t. Leave them wondering.
I forgot who said this but I read it a long time ago . .
Here are the 2 secrets to my success.
#1. Don’t reveal everything.🙂
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PS. Welcome BuckFitches in case I didn’t say it already. You’re very well spoken and written. Easy to read.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.The 45-milute delay trick is probably because they either didn’t want to go that early, or they just wanted to assert themselves over the guys.
I’ve seen that too many times.
The thing you guys need to do, yourselves, is determine ahead of time where and when you’re all going to be somewhere, then just announce to the girls that you will meet there at the appointed time.
Couples should be encouraged to travel without their insignificant others so no guy has to wait for his sweety-pie while she changes into 15 outfits before deciding on what she’s wearing.
Don’t allow the women to bully you into doing it any other way.
Believe me, that’s the only way it’s going to work if you absolutely must include women in your plans.
Chances are, they women will all arrive late and about 15 minutes apart from each other.
Then, each time a new princess arrives, everyone is expected to jump up and greet her with hugs and pose for selfies.It’s all about making themselves the center of attention.
Hopefully, by the time the last one finally arrives, whatever they guys had planned to do will be completed and you can all just shoot the s~~~ while the girls take pictures of their food and drinks.
Is this really their idea of a fun night out?
Perhaps the guys in your squad will open their eyes to the constant manipulation they are being put through and finally go MGTOW.
Internalize it. If you had a super power like seeing through clothes or reading minds, would you blab and tell everyone? No. You’d just read their minds and enjoy it.
Red pill vision is a little like that.
That’s genius and well said.
"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches
What do you guys do about your sisters?
Mine are so awful my own mother no longer talks to them.
Part of me wants to stop hanging out with my sister, but that goes against my family values so it isn’t an option.
Define family and then define family values. For me genetic relation in no way implies family.
Being around them is a chore and a bore. But my sister and her friends are nosey in my life and want to hang out about once a week.
Sounds like their lives are so pathetic and uneventful they want to drag the single guy out. They tried playing cupid yet?
Tough stuff when you love a family member. Remember, one day you may have to move either out of the neighborhood to out of the state. What is your sister going to do then?
Best advise. Go you own way. Perhaps for you that means putting up with a ‘retarded’ sister once a week.
"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.
The 45-milute delay trick is probably because they either didn’t want to go that early, or they just wanted to assert themselves over the guys.
I’ve seen that too many times.
The thing you guys need to do, yourselves, is determine ahead of time where and when you’re all going to be somewhere, then just announce to the girls that you will meet there at the appointed time.
Couples should be encouraged to travel without their insignificant others so no one has to wait for their sweety-pie while she changes into 15 outfits before deciding one what she’s wearing.
Don’t allow the women to bully you into doing it any other way.
Believe me, that’s the only way it’s going to work if you absolutely must include women in your plans.
Chances are, they women will all arrive late and about 15 minutes apart from each other.
Then, each time a new princess arrives, everyone is expected to jump up and greet her with hugs and pose for selfies.It’s all about making themselves the center of attention.
Hopefully, by the time the last one finally arrives, whatever they guys had planned to do will be completed and you can all just shoot the s~~~ while the girls take pictures of their food and drinks.
Is this really their idea of a fun night out?
Perhaps the guys in your squad will open their eyes to the constant manipulation they are being put through and finally go MGTOW.
Dude that’s all exactly what happens. I get depressed being around all the girls taking pictures of everything and squeeling like they’ve haven’t seen their friend in years.
"Fish can’t climb trees and women can’t be trusted." -Buck Fitches
I have a circle of friends that do this all the time.
I have no tolerance for it, and now, that’s how we’ve been dealing with it.
The women now know that I’m some sort of intolerant “black sheep” guy, but they might not have caught on that I’m MGTOW.
Some of the wives an single women are uncomfortable around me because I don’t put up with misandry, and they don’t like hubbies talking alone with me,
even though they talk about them when they are in the hive.I get depressed being around all the girls taking pictures of everything and squeeling like they’ve haven’t seen their friend in years.
That’s a drag. Hanging out with them … in groups especially. I remember going out for dinner in groups of 6 or more on occasion, and when it was mostly women, it was HELL. Noisy. Rowdy. RUDE to servers. Cheap tippers. Embarrassing.
And don’t get me started on how they are when the check comes. Paying for it is a 45-minute theatrical production while they all pass the check around, debate over who had what, and who owes what, counting every dime…. bickering over a salad. Eventually I got smart and ALWAYS order a personal check in large groups / parties / birthdays.
Around women, when the check comes, it’s a buzzkill every time.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.I have an older sister who was the only girl in the family. She lorded it over the rest of us since she knew she could get away with murder because my dad would always back her. Well that only went so far. 15 years ago she and I got into it, apparently she had a problem with me not living my life the way that she felt was appropriate. Well long story short, I told her to f~~~ off. That was the last time I saw her and spoke to her. From personal experience I can say that I haven’t missed it.
Anonymous42Trade her in for a brother, that’s all I can think of???
My sister is divorced and has a 10-year-old son, who I hardly ever see and who I don’t have much of a bond with now. My sister’s divorce, which she wanted, really screwed her up (she got really bitter/angry when my ex- brother-in-law re-married soon after the divorce), then she has taken-up with this control-freak idiot and she lives out in the sticks (her logic being “he is the only man who will have me, so I have to give it a go”, when she up-rooted herself and my nephew away from my family, against my Mum/Dad/my advice). She is always using my nephew as a tool, to emotionally manipulate my Mum, for her own convenience, and my Dad eventually has to tag along. My Dad and I are always reminding my Mum of the crap that she has said/done, which has caused a lot of damage to my family, but female grand-child hormones always win against male logic. My ex- brother-in-law, who my Mum/Dad/I actually get on great with, had a nervous break-down after the divorce, and my sister and her new boy-friend kept playing silly idiots, denying my ex- brother-in-law visits to see his son, so he eventually had to go to The Family Court to get a Visitation Order, and now has “regular” access to his son (every other week-end, from what I can make out). My sister wanted the divorce and she is entirely to blame for the whole situation, brought on because of her demanding more and more money in her marriage and being a lazy b1tch, which just p1ssed-off my ex- brother-in-law, who had a tough job, which he eventually left on medical grounds; entirely understandable and God knows how he put up with my sister for so long. My sister, probably like lots of other women, just wants the man to provide everything for her, and for her to do virtually nothing in the relationship, apart from to pop a kid out (i.e. her meal-ticket); she lives on state benefits and gets Child Support for my nephew. My sister didn’t even shag-around before getting married, so God knows what other women are like who did; needless to say, it has put me off the whole Marriage/relationship thing. My sister used to be slim, moderately attractive, and happy, but now she is a land-whale b1tch.
Anyway, I generally try to keep neutral with my nightmare sister, since I cannot have a logical/fair discussion with her about anything, and she is twisted-up in her mind; but when she lies or does/says something un-fair/un-reasonable, I “call her out” on it and I pull no punches with my words – I won’t put up with any sh1t from any woman, not even my own sister. If it wasn’t for the sake of my nephew, I would have no problems with cutting my ties with my sister totally; it may come to that, eventually, since things are getting progressively worse with her and I hardly ever see my nephew as it is.
So, if you have a sister, you have my very deep sympathies…
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