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Video games are extremely engaging. They eclipse other tasks that are fulfilling, stress-reducing, and productive. I’m drawn like a moth to a flame. It’s frustrating. I wish I could stop them and watching people play them on Youtube. Once I did a 90 day detox but afterwards I went straight back to videogames. I remember commenting after the 90 days that I didn’t enjoy it when I started again.
It’s also an escape. When I was lonely before in my old province and now that I moved in with my mom and two brothers to help out it’s an escape to get away from them.
I live in a semi-rural suburb in a state I don’t like. I can move but the trade course I want to do is more expensive and I also qualify for government assistance in this state $1k/month. I know it’s wrong, but i’m frustrated by the high costs of rent and the low wages of working.
For any of you who has managed beating a technology addiction, can you give any tips?
I switched addictions. I took up chess.
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
Play more.
You are using it as an escape. You understand. Some choose worse things like alcohol. Going to the gym, etc is the same thing.
As long as you have a go forward plan to freedom. That is what matters.
Peace brothers
Reading and consistent training in a martial art.
Reading will entertain you and provide the escape you are after, and this can be a book or something new and interesting on the internet. A martial art will do the same plus put in a situation where you can socialize with people. Both have many more benefits that I will not list.
You don’t need to stop playing video games completely in my opinion, but limit it to an hour a day and to one video game. Don’t get lost in all the variety of games out there, just choose one that will help you wind down and relax. After a while then maybe find a new game, but don’t keep changing games every week.
Anonymous54Some peole have additive type personalitys.(like me). I know some people dissaprove of guys playing vidio games ,but as far as addiction goes there fairly harmless. You dont ruin you liver,crash your car,get in fights,steal to mantain your habit,ect..Every one needs an escape from life sometimes. Try and find things that work for you ,rather than against you.
Anonymous18Throw your video game away. Set it on fire. Watch it burn.
Then fill the time you used to play video games by 1) being in a different surrounding to avoid any triggers 2) make a list of things that you need to do 3) when you get craving for it, remind yourself it is the addiction leaving your body. Craving is not a sign of weakness but rather a sign that you are healing. When you are not craving you are giving in to the addiction and its harder to give up each time you try and fail.
Remember uncomfortable feelings are good for you. You are growing as a person when you deal with uneasiness.
Anonymous3Video games, the web, smartphones, TV and movies are addicting and change our minds.
Our kids are being destroyed by them. I am an engineer, so I am no saying this from a anti-technology stance.The situation is focused at the attention span, the rate of stimulation and the artificial reality that fosters addiction.
To explain this I remember the reaction of a Russian writer the first time he saw moving pictures; he said: I dont like it, because it makes real life more boring.
And this was with the early black and white movies without sound, usually very short and stupid (to our standards) like “Workers leaving the factory“.So, let us start with the attention span. Any movie is based of changing angles and scenes. The objective is to create a more dynamic and dramatic view, in opposition to our REAL LIFE VIEW where we are looking only from one perspective or angle, a continuous situation developing.
This little trick made the movies very appealing, yet filmmakers started speeding up the rate of change of angles and scenes. This makes old movies boring as hell, and new movies really interesting.
The side effect is that LIFE becomes boring as hell. You are so used to the speed of changing views, that you see life as a permanent slow motion movie.
The cutting of the movie in several scenes allows the creation of an artificial reality. In this new reality the character can spend a decade training hard to accomplish its revenge, and you only take a portion of a song to get through this decade.
In the real world a decade is a decade, and the dedication of a man training full time requires a superhuman devotion and infinite patience. And all this without the cheering soundtrack.
So, no kid in the audience is going to have the patience to endure more than an hour of martial arts practice. And after a month the give up because they are not yet at the level of Bruce Lee.
That is why most martial arts Dojos are becoming empty in my country…
The editing of the movie removes all the boring stuff, making war a really fantastic and epic adventure. In reality any veteran will say that war in 100 days of unbelievable boredom for every few hours of frightening mayhem.
The side effect is that LIFE becomes boring as hell.
The rate of stimulation provided by interactive media, like video games, the web and smartphones is a composition of the previous problems in steroids.
Everything I mentioned before had to be crafted carefully by the artists to achieve the desired result. It didn’t work the same way for everybody, because people are different.Now, it is computers that adapt the content to the individual. You supply the requirements, and the machine supplies an infinite amount of entertainment. you no longer have the time limit of a movie, you can play games and seek videos until you die of starvation. It is infinite.
And our mind is adaptable. It adapts to this new reality. It becomes the new normal.
Real world becomes the abnormal place. It is boring as hell. Yet people have to work, they have to eat, they have to take care of their house. This all becomes dry, while people try to fill all their awake time with electronic drugs.
If you want a test of this theory, just sit down against a tree and look at the birds and the clouds. Clock the time-span of your contemplation until it becomes insufferably boring.
Anonymous18Clock the time-span of your contemplation until it becomes insufferably boring.
Great post man. @op take pointers my friend. It’s so concisely explained for us all.
I have started meditation and I didn’t realize the threads in 15 minutes can feel that long.
I switched addictions.
That’s really good advice. Trying to quite is harder than finding something else.
I would look for a sport or game like D&D that requires your attendance and interaction with people. My son does this thing with models he paints, and then they have board games. It gets him out and meeting people. BTW he is 26 so it’s not just for kids and his models are really awsome. Another friend of mine in his 50s is a dungeon master and host games frequently. He even does it at comic-con as volunteer. I volunteer at beer festivals and pour beer for a few hours.If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
For any of you who has managed beating a technology addiction, can you give any tips?
“Computers: It’s a tool, not a toy”.
That’s what I tell myself.I don’t play video games. Ever.
Like watching sports, to me, it’s a waste of time.The last video game I played on a computer was “Myst / Riven / Exile” which I would call an “addiction” at the time — like I was once addicted to crossword puzzles for a short time too. Just a fleeting phase.
I don’t think of tech/computers as a “toy”. It’s a TOOL and I reserve my use only for creating , learning, research etc., and almost never for entertainment. Sure I will waste an hour on youtube a week, but that’s just to see something cool, like a documentary on aircraft carriers. Even then, it was partially related to 3D fighter jet models I was building.
The way I see it, 25 hours a day is just not enough. ( if you get my meaning )
Even when I am here posting here and there, I am AWLAYS “working” or creating something. Right now, it’s Sunday and I’m about to go for a run / walk and then a late breakfast with a friend, and then back to work again. I don’t even know what a “weekend” is. Let alone a “video game”.
Of course it’s just a guideline and I will break it, but while I am breaking it, I will lecture and discipline myself “Use it as a tool, not a toy. It’s a tool, not a toy…” so I don’t throw hours away like I did when I was a teenager and blew all of my allowance at the arcade. But when I was a teenager, I didn’t have anything better to do. If you have something better to do (and you probably do), discipline yourself to drop the games.
There are too many places in the world to go, and amazing things to see, learn, think, read and experience to play a f~~~ing video game. I’m not saying that to you. I’m saying that to me. You can listen if you want.
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If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.So, let us start with the attention span.
So true I remember someone asking Andy Giffin why he stopped doing live comedy and he said, I tell funny stories and people are too impatient now a days to wait for a punchline.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
Don’t worry about it. This is an “addiction” where help is needed.
Play more.
You are using it as an escape. You understand. Some choose worse things like alcohol. Going to the gym, etc is the same thing.
As long as you have a go forward plan to freedom. That is what matters.I don’t play video games. Ever.
Like watching sports, to me, it’s a waste of time.I couldn’t disagree more with the first quote, and resonate with the second.
I’ll tell you brother, I’m on the front lines of this. I’m kicking people out of the military on a monthly basis for this addiction, and that’s what it is. Here is what happens:
Get fat
Have an Identity that is unhealthy. You talk to these guys, and their attitude is ” dude, you have no idea who I am ” In there mind, they are top tier warriors who’s exploits are known far and wide… I just wouldn’t understand.Cant speak/ interact normally
Be honest with you, the guys who are addicted are a waste of space. Its not a joke.
Throw that s~~~ away and never look back.
When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.
As long as you have a go forward plan to freedom. That is what matters.
In the situation you described, I believe you have a bigger issue than video game addiction.
The bigger issue that you brought up is how to become independent on your own. Focus on that.
Peace brothers
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