Help: need to understand

[AirbanderParticipant 58]

Hello
This is my first post and I would like to say thank you all for great work on MGTOW

So I am totally new and I have problem understating women and the game they play. Please forgive me for my poor language skills as English is not my native language. So long story short I post ads in CL and online and I talk to few women and they all have something I don’t understand it so seeking brothers help. Here are screenshots of one of my recent text with a chick and I am not sure what is going on here.

https://drive.google.com/open?id=0B-DC2y4I-v9AbjMwZHFOYnZrLTA

She said she wants to meet and have fun but then she go quite and go silent. Almost every girl I spoke to have same reaction and I am trying to learn and improve myself but not understating cause some issues

Can someone please?

Thanks Air

[Anonymous 24]

Airbander wrote:

She said she wants to meet and have fun but then she go quite and go silent. Almost every girl I spoke to have same reaction and I am trying to learn and improve myself but not understating cause some issues

Did you send a pic of your foot long junk?
Did you tell them how rich you are?
Did you send pics of yourself, and are you six foot two and handsome?

If not, that is why they do not respond, because some other guy did one, or several of these things.

80% of women are chasing after the top 20% of men.

[BlacqueJacqueShellacqueParticipant 6890]

Hey Airbander, welcome to MGTOW. I tried to look at your google attachment and it is way too much to go through for me. I clicked on a few of the images to get an idea of what’s happening but I am unsure. Are you trying to woo (get romantic) with this girl? If so, I don’t think you understand what MGTOW is. Good luck though brother.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Welcome brother. Read most of your exchange – if me I’d steer clear. She has a boyfriend and lives with him – sounds like trouble. She looks hot but there are plenty of others who are not getting boned by their boyfriends at home. Just my opinion.

[AirbanderParticipant 58]

Hello,

i am only trying to understand the game and understand women better. and see other brothers point of view. i don’t have a goal with this girl. yes i am totally new and learning.

i don’t lie to anyone because that mess up karma and not good policy in my opinion

just want to see what you guys think of this chat i had with a girl

Thanks ?

[Anonymous 54]

If you seem too nice, they will think your boreing.
If your not rich, just ask them if they want to f~~~.
Thell think your exciteing.

[AirbanderParticipant 58]

i did ask and she went silent ? that is what i don’t get what up with silent part ?

[Anonymous 54]

Airbander wrote:

i did ask and she went silent ? that is what i don’t get what up with silent part ?

Hell I dont know!hahah

Ask another one.

Im to old to know about on line dateing I think its bizare.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Airbander wrote:

Please forgive me for my poor language skills as English is not my native language

Your English is too good to apologize for.

Airbander wrote:

Help: need to understand. Can someone please?

That conversation is best in person – only. You’re talking too much with her. The ONLY reason to chat / text with her is to arrange a meeting in person only.

This is why you have a problem “understanding”.
Avoiding communicating with women this way.
(especially if there is a language barrier)

No e-lationships. No matter how much she wants to text wth you, the idea is to meet her , and have this conversation IN PERSON.

Typing/texting has no tone of voice or body language. There is a +93% chance you will not come across as intended. To communicate most effectively, you need tone of voice and body language. You can get along PERFECTLY online, and when you meet her, your feet are asleep.

The only thing you should be texting women is a time and place to meet with her, or “my place 11PM bring da movies”.

Stop chatting/texting with women online and you won’t be “confused”.

You can explain this to her too – right to her face.

“I do NOT have e-lationships with people. Lets meet in person or not at all.” If she is not thrilled to grab her purse and spend time with you, dump her like an anchor.

The last thing you want to do is be having full conversations in text messages. Only people born in the last 20 years do that. It’s not natural. “What you said” in all of those screenshots is not as important as avoiding them. If it takes more than one screenshot, you’re texting to her too much.

Stop giving women all that time and attention.
They are already too fat on it.

… and welcome Airbander.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Just like in the real world, not everyone is attracted to everyone. Online dating is no different in that regard. What is different is that you have already established that you are interested in dating by responding to the advertisement. So now she is clearly in the position of finding reasons to exclude you. And who knows why one person rejects another person.

What you need to understand is that, given the circumstances, she could have received responses from 100 guys. She has established herself as the prize, and she gets to sift through all of the responses and determine who is the “lucky winner”. That’s a great deal of power for her. It’s probably pretty fun if you are a narcissist. If you are 1 of a 100, then there is a 99% chance you won’t be chosen. If only 2 guys respond, the best odds you ever get are 50/50.

So, you either “lose” and don’t get the prize, or you get the prize which is a narcissist that thinks it’s fun to sift through a pile of men and pick and choose how and why she is going to reject them.

The only way to win this game is if you don’t play………..

Order the good wine

[LeoYourKingParticipant 225]

Hi brother, welcome to MGTOW
I hope you stay around and learn more about the MGTOW philosophy.
About your question and the messages with the girl. I think you are too nice with her.
Women lose attraction towards men when they show weakness. Try to be more assertive to show what you want.

[Anonymous 54]

Keymaster wrote:

Airbander wrote:

Please forgive me for my poor language skills as English is not my native language

Your English is too good to apologize for.

Airbander wrote:

Help: need to understand. Can someone please?

That conversation is best in person – only. You’re talking too much with her. The ONLY reason to chat / text with her is to arrange a meeting in person only.

This is why you have a problem “understanding”.
Avoiding communicating with women this way.
(especially if there is a language barrier)

No e-lationships. No matter how much she wants to text wth you, the idea is to meet her , and have this conversation IN PERSON.

Typing/texting has no tone of voice or body language. There is a +93% chance you will not come across as intended. To communicate most effectively, you need tone of voice and body language. You can get along PERFECTLY online, and when you meet her, your feet are asleep.

The only thing you should be texting women is a time and place to meet with her, or “my place 11PM bring da movies”.

Stop chatting/texting with women online and you won’t be “confused”.

You can explain this to her too – right to her face.

“I do NOT have e-lationships with people. Lets meet in person or not at all.” If she is not thrilled to grab her purse and spend time with you, dump her like an anchor.

The last thing you want to do is be having full conversations in text messages. Only people born in the last 20 years do that. It’s not natural. “What you said” in all of those screenshots is not as important as avoiding them. If it takes more than one screenshot, you’re texting to her too much.

Stop giving women all that time and attention.
They are already too fat on it.

There it is!.How could communicateing in type work in such a personal indevour.Like you said, lets meet for lunch, we’talk then.

[AirbanderParticipant 58]

Hello

yes I hope to learn more around and learn about the MGTOW philosophy
i been focusing more on balance men with assertive and fun style where women is no longer the goal of life but she is part of fun time and once that is over i am focusing on myself and devoted to my personal success but same time being myself. MGTOW sound something i can learn and understand

thanks

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Airbander wrote:

So I am totally new and I have problem understating women and the game they play.

You don’t need to understand their game. You only need to walk away from it.

The only way to win their game is by refusing to play it.

And stay the f~~~ out of online dating. There’s nothing there for a man.

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Welcome.
Bro what you’ll need to understand, if you still want to hang out with women, they will test their SMV each and everytime you communicate with them. You were asking, why she went silent? Because she recognized, she is in control of your relation. Once women get in control, your own value (in her eyes) diminishes. So once she was sure she could “have” you anytime, she lost interest in you. In other words, she found out, you are a beta. She is still too young to look for a beta provider, she is still riding the carousel.

AWALT

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[AirbanderParticipant 58]

Muglintar wrote:

Welcome.
Bro what you’ll need to understand, if you still want to hang out with women, they will test their SMV each and everytime you communicate with them. You were asking, why she went silent? Because she recognized, she is in control of your relation. Once women get in control, your own value (in her eyes) diminishes. So once she was sure she could “have” you anytime, she lost interest in you. In other words, she found out, you are a beta. She is still too young to look for a beta provider, she is still riding the carousel.

AWALT

Good afternoon AWALT,

You seem the guy understand me properly so what you suggest me to do now ? problem is women nature won’t change

please advise

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