Hello!

[NewFunnyMoneyParticipant 54]

I’m so happy I found this website! A little about me, I’m 31 years young never married with no children and have just split with my GF of three years in the last couple of days and it has not been pretty so far. She has moved out of my house and is staying with a female friend of hers, most of her stuff is gone but a few things are still here. This was my fourth attempt a a serious multi year relationship with a view to marriage and starting a family. Not so sure that’s a good idea any more, I’ve been watching a lot of MGTOW videos both here and on youtube and I feel like my eyes are opening to a lot of things.

Anyway, thanks again on the quality website and if you have any advice for a rookie like me it would be very helpful.

Cheers,

[dafunkxxParticipant 8]

Welcome aboard skipper! If you haven’t done so already be sure to check out the growing list of other red pill blogs/sites, You can find them under the About>Manosphere option. there’s boatloads worth of great reading there for you to dive into and properly find your sea-legs again. 🙂

[VileNordParticipant 766]

<cite>@newfunnymoney said:</cite>
I’m so happy I found this website! A little about me, I’m 31 years young never married with no children and have just split with my GF of three years in the last couple of days and it has not been pretty so far. She has moved out of my house and is staying with a female friend of hers, most of her stuff is gone but a few things are still here. This was my fourth attempt a a serious multi year relationship with a view to marriage and starting a family. Not so sure that’s a good idea any more, I’ve been watching a lot of MGTOW videos both here and on youtube and I feel like my eyes are opening to a lot of things.

Anyway, thanks again on the quality website and if you have any advice for a rookie like me it would be very helpful.

Cheers,

Welcome!

The best advice for future relationships is to always put yourself ahead of her. If you don’t love yourself more than you love her, then what happens when she tries to walk all over you? What happens when she tries to sever your friendships with other men? What happens to your heart when she leaves you or betrays you?
Love yourself above all others brother! This isn’t selfishness, this is self-preservation. It is not easy to put your foot down and keep a girlfriend/wife in check. She WILL constantly test the limits of what she is allowed to get away with and it will be exhausting for you. But if you love yourself first and foremost, you will have the presence of mind to know whether or not she is worth the hassle.

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Congrats on seeing the light! When she comes to collect her things… make sure you’re not there! Be…. “out”.. like you had something important come up. And be thankful you escaped the noose. Or even better, deliver the last of her stuff to her, and try and look really devastated. Almost catatonic. Then pull the car away slowly and take yourself out for the best damn steak dinner you ever had. Or something like that…

Amazed you were able to get the camel out of the tent after 3 years without some kind of legal battle! I was in something similar and had to “feign beta” to get rid of her completely. You know, pretended like I can’t live without her. Like she was the reason I breathe. They hate that s~~~. Works great too. A couple of desperate-sounding texts to put the polish on it, and she didn’t bother me again.

So pleased you like our website. Thanks for saying so.
You were MGHOW of the day yesterday! On the homepage.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[NewFunnyMoneyParticipant 54]

Thanks gents for all the kind words and making me feel so welcome. It means a lot. I’m going to tell my tale in full on here sometime in the next couple of weeks once she is completely moved out and it should make for some decent reading. It’s been over a week since I have spoken to her now and i could not feel better about it, I find it amazing how after a while you get used to things being bad or a certain way and start to accept them as “normal”. I have rounded up all her stuff and now have it placed in a corner of the garage so I can basically lock the house up and split when she comes to grab it (no doubt with some white knight to do all the heavy lifting for her, because of course all the stuff she left was to big for her and her female friend to move or fit in her friends car).

Also I’m stunned I was MGTOW of the day! Thank you, I’m not worthy!

Be sure to look after yourselves men and I look forward to talking to you all again soon.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I’m not worthy!

Nobody gets away with saying that here. Already four thumbs up on your intro alone. Nicely done.

We look forward to hearing your progress and thank you for sharing.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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