Hello, all! Super excited to be here with my like minded brothers. I am a 30 year old from Ontario, Canada. The gynocentrism here is baffling. I don’t think I can explain my whole history in this one post but I will try to truncate details as much as possible.
As a younger lad, starting at 13. I have had quite a few LTR’s over the years and most ended when they tried to force me to commit to a marriage by forced discussions and shortly after either I would exit on my own accord or they would try to do the behind the back cheating and monkey branch to some other dude and I would always know something was up and destroy the relationship in a way they thought they were the ones who decided it. Always seemed easier that way. I have always been pretty guarded and never let myself get too hung up over s~~~ that doesn’t matter anymore and I would just move on. I was very lucky that one of my swimmers never made it to the end of the race, but I was always extremely careful and would sometimes refuse to have sex. So I have no kids, and no attachment to any female in my past. Thank god. Dodged bullets and got super lucky. I’m totally aware of that.
Fast forward to a few years ago and I had been single for awhile working at a s~~~ty job and didn’t have much money and a lot of extra time. I started making youtube videos and have made some money off youtube. That is when my ventures started. I started making and recording music and eventually met some other people in music. It took off from there. I didn’t know what would come or how I would end up here back then but it’s definetely interesting to look back on. Long story short, me and a few other guys got increasingly popular in the area and started doing shows and travelling around a bit. This is where the female attention came. You name it. Girls who would never talk to me before, ex girlfriends, friends girlfriends, to just random girls after a show coming up to me demanding we spend a night together. I would never sleep with them. I would sneak out to my car and drive home. and I would have people texting me asking me where did I go and I would lie and say I was back at my place with a chick when in reality I would just be home and having a beer relaxing.
This is where I really started to notice the change in not only the women around me but even friends as well who I never talked to anymore or friends of friends. Everyone wanted to hang out because well, I guess I was popular. I’m not a stupid guy, I knew what was happening and I didn’t like it. So I did that for a couple years then I opted out and dissapeared from the public eye. And with that, so did the women and “friends”. Who I didn’t need in my life anyways.
So now I have a good job for this area and a few good friends. I live on my own close to my work and have no interest in a girlfriend what so ever. I have worked hard to set myself up to be successful on my own with nobodies help. I have saved up money and I’m super comfortable. Girl’s are not aloud in my place unless they are my mother or sister. I have literally told friends they couldn’t come here with their girlfriends and that I don’t care. Don’t come here then. It’s too much of a risk having a female in a place with my name on it that I don’t know or don’t know what they would do.
I’ve been MGTOW for a few years now and I have never been happier!
darreljameson 3 years, 7 months ago.
