Hello there

[qw3rtyParticipant 5]

First i want to say hello to everyone.

Some facts about me:

• 25 years old
• Male
• German
• working as electrical engineer

Why did i join the community?

Well this is quite a long term development and telling every detail would go beyond the scope. Since four years i am a man who is going his own way. Before four years my ex-girlfriend(we were 3 years a couple) dumped me for no reason. When i asked her multiple times WHY. Her reply was:”i can’t explain it either.” This drove me mad and influenced my entire social life till today. I started slowly hating girls……maybe that is not the mgtow philosophy but its mine. Since then i observed girls in their social acting during an evening in a bar more often. Its ever the same with girls…try to push the ego and getting some man with more social status……and never be satisfied with the current status. Its not possible to make girls happy in long term. They get unhappy because the want more, but they can’t offer very much on their own. After 2 years when my ex dumped me…i started to f~~~ the ego push of girls up. I went into the bar and just be an asshole. When a girl talked to me disrespectful i just reply:” What u want slut?” Things like that. When i see a girlfriend cheating one of my friends…..i put my handy out and make a video of them and ask”How is it going?”

Well i stopped that asshole behavior, but deep down it is what i still feel. Well i also went to a psychologist before 2 years because i thought i am a misogynist and maybe i am, but it was just a waste of time. The female psychologist didn’t really help me.

Its not like i hate all women, but when i see the princes behavior…..like:”look, i have a tight flesh hole. praise me for just having that…” That makes me mad.

So far i didn’t have a relationship since four years and no sex. I only have male friends. Sounds sad, but these drama stuff with the most women is annoying for me. Its better for me to live alone. Sometimes you want a girl but you watch a porn and then these thoughts are gone. My only passion is my work, which is also my hobby.

Sorry for my English. I am not a native speaker.

regards qw3rty

 

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

qw3rty wrote:

When i asked her multiple times WHY. Her reply was:”i can’t explain it either.”

Translation: “I’m a spoilt bitch and I felt like dumping you.”  Or maybe even (sorry if this sounds harsh, but I wouldn’t be surprised) that she was already riding another dick…

qw3rty wrote:

try to push the ego and getting some man with more social status……and never be satisfied with the current status

You said you didn’t know why she dumped you, well there you have it. That may hurt to know that, but it’s probably the truth. Don’t let it bring you down, though. Female approval is NOT a good indicator of a man’s worth AT ALL. Having a gf/wife doesn’t mean anything about you except that you can cater to a t~~~’s needs, nothing else.

qw3rty wrote:

They get unhappy because the want more, but they can’t offer very much on their own

They indeed have nothing going on for themselves except their vagina, in most cases.

qw3rty wrote:

I only have male friends. Sounds sad,

I doubt it’ll sound sad to your fellow mgtow’s, don’t worry about that. 🙂 Male friends are less drama and more fun. Also, you can be sure that when you can talk to them, you won’t have the whole city knowing what you told them 2 hours later.

qw3rty wrote:

Sometimes you want a girl but you watch a porn and then these thoughts are gone.

“Post-cum clarity” as someone called it, that when your thoughts get clouded because you’re horny. Then you rub one out and see clearly again.
Nothing weird about that. Pretty much all males experience it, it’s just that a lot of them don’t realize it.

qw3rty wrote:

That makes me mad.

Don’t think about it, do something you like instead. They have too many blue pillers catering to them to even think about changing their behaviour. Don’t expect them to change anytime soon, just focus on improving yourself. As a mgtow I’m young too, and people in relationships seem all happy and everything (in appearance), but you’ll see how things will have changed in 10 years’ time when half of them will have divorced. You’ll be looking at them sitting on your money and free time 😉
And about the ones who didn’t get divorced, well, just because you’re still married doesn’t mean you’re happy.

By the way, don’t worry about the anger, it will go away, slowly but surely, or maybe even pretty quickly, who knows? It’s just about accepting female nature and not giving a s~~~ about it. The time you spend thinking about women is wasted time, nothing else. I think it’s Barbarossa who said that marriage is a waste of male potential, and I fully agree with him! No one besides yourself can make you happy, so go mgtow.

Cheers man!

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Welcome bro, all roads lead to freedom. I love germany btw its a beautiful place.I was stationed there way back in the day at Campbell Army Base in Heidelberg, I heard they closed it down though.

Anyway, yeah. Female therapists or psychologists or women in general can never understand male problems, theyre just to self absorbed. Its like they’re in denial to how s~~~ty they’ve all become.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Welcome;

The plight of the modern, MGTOW, male is not easy, but essential for your financial, emotional, and psychological welfare. All modern day women have to offer is the delusion of tranquility and stability, while having the power of pulling the pin at any moment. My ex-wife pulled the exact same mind-f~~~ on me. Your girlfriend did you a colossal favour; you got a taste of women’s fickle nature without long term financial liability. While extremely painful, you have first hand knowledge of the rigged game and can plan accordingly.

Focus on yourself, a concept that it has taken years for me to come to terms with. At 25, with your education, the world is yours. You have youth, time, and the ability to generate cash – use this golden opportunity to secure your future. Read the forums; they have a wealth of knowledge – I learn something new everyday.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

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