Hello MGTOW!

[arnquistParticipant 11]

I’m really excited about joining this community! I’m 29 years old and living in Japan. About a year ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years. I think she had a bit more “male wiring” than most women, so she was at least a bit more honest about why she wanted to break up, most women will dodge the question completely. She said she wanted someone more stoic, someone who she could respect. I’m convinced now that this is what most women want, but they don’t want to tell you that or they don’t know how to articulate it. Our culture has conditioned women, telling them they should be strong like men, but deep down inside they want someone to be their daddy. Our culture has conditioned men to follow the rules, relax and let someone else worry about the world’s problems. Our generation got a raw deal.

I’m not completely sworn off women, but I’ll never look at them the same way again. I’m not interested in jumping through hoops to earn their respect, the men who do that are pathetic. I plan on focusing on improving myself as much as possible for the rest of my life, without overworking myself to death or wasting my time with consumerism nonsense. If someday a woman recognizes that for the strength that it is, I might consider settling down, but it doesn’t seem likely.

I started a couple new blogs recently, if you’re interested. Just more rambling like this.

The Empathy Gap http://theempathygap.blogspot.com/ to address our lack of empathy for men.
The Goddess Complex http://thegoddescomplex.blogspot.com/ to address female privilege.

[TheBardParticipant 974]

Welcome and glad to hear you finally saw things for how they really are. I have had a similar awakening that women don’t really love men and want someone to take care of them while wanting the strong type only. Cool you are living in Japan too. Are you teaching English by chance?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

We are very happy to have you here! Thanks for joining and saying so.

One day I sat down and articulated a thought. I had been dating like a machine after moving to a new city and trying to establish a new social circle. I made a REAL effort to do this. It was never difficult for me to make friends or meet women. Then I saw how much MONEY it was costing to finance a “social life”.

$200 here… $200 there…. and in 9 months, I looked at the books and realize I was dropping +$200 every weekend just to go out, have a drink or two, parking, dinner, you know the deal. I had spend almost $12000 just “dating” and making an effort to have a social life. Now, it was working, and I quickly made some lasting connections but was it worth $12K??? Imagine what kind of top-flight guaranteed vagina you can enjoy for $12K! And I was dropping this for the merely “possibility” of getting some tail?? Insane.

So then I put it down on paper…..

A man can spend $200 in a weekend easily. If he dates a lot of women, even if he is not buying them dinner, it’s still gonna cost cash-ola to go out, and pay cover and have a drink… and then a cab home etc. That’s $800 a month. F~~~ THAT. I could finance a PORSCHE for that.

$200 every weekend is $20,000 in 2 years. Did I read that right? YES!! $TWENTY THOU$$$$AND!!! That’s when I STOPPED giving a s~~~ and feeling like I am “missing out” on something when I choose to work on a Friday night and invoice someone for that time….. instead of spending money.

Think about it gents. And we will be seeing you in a paid-off Porsche before you know it.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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