Hello, i believe i have been for awhile a mgtow

[Left siteParticipant 451]

Hello there. My name online is lordaarow or my real name is jon or Jonathan. A few months ago i descovered mgtow on youtube and looked into it. It seems to be what i have believe since years ago. There were events that led to me being this way over time.

One event I will share with you guys is from my past. This occured around 4 years ago to begin with then the later part was two years ago. So i used to be a fat kid. Not just chubby but like fat. Well at the time i had just started working towards my goal of the army which i am currently signed up for. So back to the story, so 4 years ago i was at the age of 14. At the time i liked this girl so naturally i asked her for her number. She said something that stuck with me. “I don’t give my number to people who are ugly and fat.” That led to motivating me more than just my dream of being in the army to work harder. Fast forward two years and ive lost a lot of weight and gained a lot of muscle. So at this point i have gained popularity. Then the same girl who once called me fat and ugly proceeded to ask for my number. Why? Because i was popular and had been working out for the last few years. Of course i turned her down. It was at this moment i realized that i was merely a tool for her to look good. This is not my only encounter with girls like that. There were many others which led me to want to be single and never married. It is because of the realization that most women are shallow and minipulative I have decided I will not ever be in a long term relationship. Sure i may date them a couple time, then hit it and quit it. But other than that i would not be comfortable in an exclusive relationship.

I see marriage as a loss no matter what. You have to be willing to sign away half your stuff if it doesn’t work out. Or if she gets hurt everyone looks at you wondering if you beat her. I saw this with my parents own relationship and my dad has even told me multiple times he doesnt love her the way he used to. So this shaped my idea of marriage into a loss as I understand feelings change and you shouldn’t be tied down stopping you from living life to the fullest.

The way I view life is like that of a video game.(I am a long time video gamer and fan) so let me explain. As you live life you are faced with choices: do you please yourself and have fun? Or listen to others and be miserable? So if we one day look back upon our lives and feel like we should have done more and you didnt wnjoy the journey then you are a loser. If you look back and have fond memories with friends and feel you lived to the fullest whenever you could then you are a winner.

Please if anyone has any questions for me feel free to ask. I do not fear speaking my honest opinion on topics but if you do not agree that is your choice.

[MACHOParticipant]

Hello Lord!

I will have only 1 question for you..

i believe i have been for awhile a mgtow

Wouldn’t you admit that this doesn’t sound like you are a red pill man ?

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Welcome young man!

Left site wrote:

if you do not agree that is your choice.

Trust me, we will let you know! 🙂

[HitmanParticipant]

Welcome.
I remember being 18..
Wish MGTOW was around back then, would have avoided a lot of problems.
Glad you found us brother!

[MACHOParticipant]

Left site wrote:

I do not fear speaking my honest opinion on topics but if you do not agree that is your choice

MarketWatcher wrote:

Trust me, we will let you know!

👍😎

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[MACHOParticipant]

Left site wrote:

Please if anyone has any questions for me feel free to ask.

MACHO wrote:

Hello Lord!
I will have only 1 question for you.

i believe i have been for awhile a mgtow

MACHO wrote:

Wouldn’t you admit that this doesn’t sound like you are a red pill man ?

That will be my only question I hope you will answer it!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[HitmanParticipant]

Answer the question

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

One thing I’ve really come to Appreciate about you Macho, is that you are always on your guard. You seem to have a keen sense of perception when it comes to new members. I’m trying not to get so involved nowadays, but I’m only able to do this while we have members like you who are vigilant.

Thanks

Greg

It's Time to get Wise

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Hitman wrote:

Answer the question

Not off to a good start so far…………..

Might be just a new younger guy, I’m going to give this a pass.

[Left siteParticipant 451]

Very good question. I am saying i am mgtow but i do not know if i should claim from back before i knew what mgtow was.

[Left siteParticipant 451]

Also i have followed you. I read your red pill story and it is very similar to mine on the relationship side. Sorry for any confusion my title may be causing read my response and ask more if need be.

[MutineerParticipant 1467]

Welcome,

I knew what you meant about living MGTOW without being aware there was a label for it. Some people are a little lynch happy.

"The secret to happiness is freedom... And the secret to freedom is courage." - Thucydides

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Left site wrote:

Very good question. I am saying i am mgtow but i do not know if i should claim from back before i knew what mgtow was.

Macho is right you haven’t been a MGTOW for awhile.
You have not been alive long enough to have awhile.
However, I’m okay with your answer and your intro. At 18 what redpills could you really have beyond observation. Maybe an overbearing mother, first girlfriend or watching relatives get screwed over. You’re not old enough to say you were married 15 years, with kids and divorce raped. If you were 40 and observation was your only redpill I would have an issue with that.
So the math adds up for me.
Welcome

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Left siteParticipant 451]

FrostByte wrote:

Lordaarow wrote:

Very good question. I am saying i am mgtow but i do not know if i should claim from back before i knew what mgtow was.

Macho is right you haven’t been a MGTOW for awhile.
You have not been alive long enough to have awhile.
However, I’m okay with your answer and your intro. At 18 what redpills could you really have beyond observation. Maybe an overbearing mother, first girlfriend or watching relatives get screwed over. You’re not old enough to say you were married 15 years, with kids and divorce raped. If you were 40 and observation was your only redpill I would have an issue with that.
So the math adds up for me.
Welcome

Thank you for a more brought out response. What i consider a while and what others may are different. I hope to enjoy this with all of you.

[MACHOParticipant]

Left site wrote:

Very good question. I am saying i am mgtow but i do not know if i should claim from back before i knew what mgtow was.

Thank you, welcome.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 1]

Welcome, Brother

[AntipathyParticipant 4901]

Left site wrote:

It was at this moment i realized that i was merely a tool for her to look good. This is not my only encounter with girls like that. There were many others which led me to want to be single and never married. It is because of the realization that most women are shallow and minipulative I have decided I will not ever be in a long term relationship.

Welcome aboard brother. This is the same conclusion i came to at a very young age. Womens true nature always comes out when you’re already on the ground. I never asked for girls numbers, but i recall being a young teenager with facial acne, i remember snide comments as i would walk by girls at the mall. When i got older my skin cleared up, and suddenly i was a “tall handsome guy” … but why should i appreciate or even accept their positive comments now ? They showed their true colors long ago.

The crazy thing is, they never change. They are obsessed with attention, and guys are just a tool they use to get it. If a guy isn’t of noteable status, they have no interest, because a guys status becomes THEIR status. They don’t love men, they only love to be loved by men, it’s a one way street, and i’m glad to see you found your way off it for the most part.

[Left siteParticipant 451]

Hey man thanks for the welcome. Yeah i understand what you are saying. That was just the thoughts at that time. Ive seen grown women do the same things as these girls do so you are definately right how they dont change much. Its always about who has the most sucessful husband, biggest ring, nices house and car, and all the other dumb s~~~ they go on about. Then they decide to harp on you when they say “oh do you want to get married and have kids one day?” And you reply no so they go on and on about how thats the whole purpose of life yata yata yata.

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