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My first experience and Stockholm Syndrome/cognitive dissonance reaction with an aggressive woman starts with my mother. She instilled that single moms and women in general are perfectly acceptable to be verbally and physically aggressive with men and boys. From there, as I reached adulthood, I didn’t bother with women that much out of a lot of fear. It wasn’t until recently (2-3 years ago), that I dated 3 women in a row who slapped me at least once. One of them hit me hard in front of my friends and that was the moment that not only did I dump her, but I also decided I had to re-evaluate who women are to me and how much I need to even interact with them. So, I’ve been ghosting ever since you could say.
As I explained above, I was blue pilled through my aggressive single mother raising me, with the society I lived in (very r-selected) further reinforcing that same feminist narrative. I have listened to other philosophers and activists in the MRA, MRM, and MGTOW space over the last years and that ultimately has red pilled me. I was truly starting to feel trapped until I heard the rational truth of the genders, especially based on human evolution and our biological make-up.
I’m an activist and philosopher, constantly striving to reveal truth into people’s echo chambers. I like working out and being in nature (hiking and mountain biking mostly). I’ve been in therapy for almost a year now and have come a long way in my growth to embrace my masculinity and biological role as a man.
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Welcome.
So how did the woman who slapped you react when you had her arrested for assault?
Welcome.
So how did the woman who slapped you react when you had her arrested for assault?
I didn’t do anything and neither did my friends (I’m not friends with them anymore). The fact that I didn’t have her arrested is rooted in my childhood (because of my mother). But my therapy has really helped me come to terms with no longer excusing the domestic violence women perpetrate.
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Well i’m not a therapist and I don’t charge $300 an hour but let me help you out here:
when someone steps over the line—you put them in check…period.
Next case.
Anonymous42But my therapy has really helped me come to terms with no longer excusing the domestic violence women perpetrate.
What kind of therapy and with whom? if you don’t mind me asking?
My therapy has been self induced the day I shut everything out and decided I’m gonna take the helm and repair my life’s ship and be seaworthy on my own, I’m just saying you’re your own best therapist if you put your mind to it!
Welcome to the club!
Welcome home brother.
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Glad to have you. This place is a bastion of freedom of expression.
Thanks for all the welcoming responses and feedback guys.
What kind of therapy and with whom? if you don’t mind me asking?
It’s IFS therapy with a professional male psychotherapist therapist in my area. He focuses on allowing men’s child selves to have a voice and with me, I had a lot of suppression and repression of my child self excusing women because of how I was raised. It would have taken years for me to figure this out on my own, so it was and will continue to be money well spent. I see it like this: If we have a broken leg, we go to a professional to fix it; and so should we do the same with our psychology and emotions. Self-therapy can work for sure, I just want to take the faster track to healing from my blue-pilled childhood upbringing.
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Welcome brother, I have to say if a woman hit me with intent to hurt me should we get hit back just as hard and I warn them this before they even try, usually shuts them down pretty quickly.
For therapy to be honest I have had bad results from therapists and psychologists, they really do not know what they are talking about. The best therapist is yourself and what interests you, I find. Yeah it can be hard to get these bitches out of your head, it usually is just sexual interest… simply jerk off and instantly you should feel better. Just get your butt into a good hobby you enjoy and completely cut them out of your life.
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Welcome ConsistencyTest enjoy your stay!
Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.
Greetings CT,
Kindly provide more details about your life without revealing your secret identity.
How old are you?
Education?
Work situation and career aspirations?
Living situation?
Nevertheless, your introduction is appreciated very much.
In my thirties, when I still believed in NAWALT and chased “Unicorns,” I periodically went to professional phycologists to “help put out the fires.” It was all worthwhile.
Participating in Twelve Step groups helped a lot too, especially with the PTSD.
In my twenties, I had a chip on my shoulder and too many buttons that others enjoyed pressing. Those conditioned responses were effecting me at work and when I turned thirty, I made a determined effort to removing them.
Most of the men at these meetings had been through the same s~~~ I went through and worse.
It was good to hear the honest stories of other men. The Fellowship was great.Being rigorously honest and doing a fearless moral inventory which is fundamental to Twelve Step Recovery, are masculine qualities.
Twelve step groups like ALONON and ACA work on core issues and I have gotten a lot of healing while working those programs.
Alas, most of those meetings are dominated by women, so “their meetings” are dysfunctional, even though the men who write their books are brilliant.
Woman are natural born liars and their pusillanimous/ manipulative nature is opposed to the fundamentals of Twelve Step Recovery.
The “Big Book” for ACA is awesome. Here is a link:
http://www.adultchildren.org/Psychology, Head Shrinking, and Twelve Step activities are like working on a car. They are excellent when needed. But, at some point I had to put the hood down and drive the car.
And when I got rid of the “Parasites” in my life, the need for “repairs/ improvements” was eliminated.
When my Twenty Seven year old Son was arrested on drug charges and put in jail last year, I went back to some Twelve Step meetings. But, the Womyn who dominate those meetings and the White Knights that enabled them made it impossible for me to get anything useful from my efforts to reach out.
The posters below illustrates the situation.
What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?
welcome !
enjoy the forums,
and the massive amounts of info in the archives.Just stopping in to quickly reply to questions before I have to head out.
How old are you? I’m in my 30’s
Education? 4-year degree.
Work situation and career aspirations? I’m transitioning out of my day job and starting my own business.
Living situation? Currently living by myself.
If you want to see a real life me, here you go: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z7iNJ-cf23Q
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Ct don’t post anything in rl were all ghosts here doxxing is very real. This goes for the other lurkers thinking about posting rl stuff
Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging
Ct don’t post anything in rl were all ghosts here doxxing is very real. This goes for the other lurkers thinking about posting rl stuff
Okay, thanks for the heads up, but that video is for my website. It’s not personal.
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Kk good
Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging
Anonymous1Welcome CT, keep living for yourself.
Welcome CT, keep living for yourself.
Thank you, Math.
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