Hello Gents! Good to see I can find common ground on online dating

[MrDanJD7192Participant 12]

Hello everyone again! My name is Dan and I’m 22 years old and live in Pinellas County Florida. The reason why I joined this site is because I’ve become fed up with the whole online dating atmosphere. I go to college full time and I work 3 part time jobs so since I’m going to college and most of my classes are online, its much easier for me to do online dating since I’m already online. I’ve never had a relationship before even in high school so I started to look at the beginning of last year to see If I could meet someone online. I didn’t realize though how frustrating/annoying online dating is. I didn’t think it could be that bad but was in for a rude awakening. It’s sick to me as a guy that a women doesn’t have to put any effort in when it comes to online dating and they are all so damn picky on everything and every little tiny detail. I swear they’re profiles all look the same about “I want…” or I’m this..or that” and some don’t make any sense at all or are completely bat sh*t crazy on there.

Before all of this I did manage to meet someone on Okcupid. She was a 24 year old who was a “pharmacy tech” (or so I thought) and seemed like a nice person. We both messaged each other the same time when we were looking at each other profiles which is a rarity that a girl would do such a thing on those sites. So we get to talking for about 2 weeks and then go out on a date to Chili’s. We ate and talked for about 5 hours at least and then parted ways. We then go on a few more dates and I can tell she’s really into me so I ask if she wanted to make it official and she was all happy and said yes to it. The only thing she asked was that we both delete our profiles so that we aren’t planning on seeing anyone else. I did my part and showed her and she said her did as well (This is where sh*t hits the fan later on down the road). Everything is going great or so I think  until I hurt myself at my job. I strained my sciatic nerve in my lower back and I was out for a total of a month. She felt bad and only came over about 2 times to see me in total which I didn’t think anything of it at the time since she worked late and worked far away. After I was better and wanted to hang out more I noticed that she didn’t seem so excited anymore to be out with me and all of that “spark” went away.

This is where it all goes down hill from there. We do a “double date” with my friend and his girlfriend and we got out and go eat some olive garden and then go play pool and were going to go “glow” bowling later on that night but she insisted she had to go home because she was tiered. The whole time we out she didn’t talk to me or my friend and his girlfriend and it was uncomfortable for me especially since she didn’t look like she was having fun so after I dropped her off  I went back to my house and called it a night. Later on the following week my parents went out of town for a few days so I had the whole house to myself so I invited my friend and his girlfriend over to eat some pizza and drink some beer and watch some movies. My sister and her boyfriend also came home and joined us but I asked my girlfriend if she wanted the night before and she said “No, I’m not coming over” that was it and the night before she blew me off to make apple pies and baked Zitti. I didn’t let her ruin my plans and I enjoyed my weekend but while I was there I talked to everybody about what was going on and they all said that she sounds like she’s up to something and I said I kinda had the gut feeling about it as well I do some digging and find out more.

Now here’s where hell breaks through the gates and the devil himself is revealed. I go online and make a fake Okcupid account and look at all matches in my area and guess what I find? Her profile is still up and is active and the last date she was on it was 3 days after I asked if she wanted to come over for pizza and beer with my sister and friends. So I’m like okay? obviously I’ve been lied to about being in a relationship and of course the questions start flowing through me head about how long shes been on there and stuff like that. So I instead of confronting her about it I get her back and give her the silent treatment for 3 days and it drives her over the edge and then the bomb drops when I remove her on Facebook and as soon as I did that I got some of the most nasty text messages I’ve seen in my life. Stuff I’d never say to people hahaha so I told her what I found out she was doing and said I’m done don’t even bother contacting me again and all of this crap so she starts denying that she wasn’t on there and blah blah then she comes over to my house beating on door crying and demanding me I come out so I do and shes crying and all of that and I said you did it to yourself, I’m glad I found out now and not later on down the road because I would of been spending my money on you for nothing so she insisted that we “try it again” and I said nope to it and not after what you said in those messages about me and my friends so I said I’m done with you and you need to leave and never ever contact me again and if you come over here I’ll have you arrested for trespassing.

My first relationship in my life ever and that’s how I get treated? Well I moved on from it and of course I’m back on those dating sites trying to see if I can find someone better but so far its a bust. I then started seeing the “light” about the feminist mindset on women in my age group and how they treat men as “disposable” and how these dating sites are all in women’s favor. I also read about the POF profiles on here and you guys nailed it on the head and basically made me think why am I wasting my time? So I took my red pill today and am not going to look for anyone else for awhile or just remain single until all of this “feminist mindset” on how to treat guys has the tables turned where women are at the disadvantage because right its like a dog chasing his tail, you’ll never catch it so why do it in the first place? I see a lot of intelligent people on here and it makes me feel even better about joining MGTOW. I hope that movement will keep growing and show women that we are tired of their bulls~~~ and games they play on us men. Thanks for taking the time to read this fellas and I look forward to hear from you guys. Thanks again!

Best Regards!

– Dan

[TYEParticipant 291]

Dan you wouldn’t happen to have a Youtube channel would you?!

[MrDanJD7192Participant 12]

I do happen to have one but I haven’t uploaded anything on it I just follow a lot of car guys on there as that is one of my true “loves” in life

[TYEParticipant 291]

Ha ha ok thought you might happen to be this Youtuber I know ! Welcome to the family always happy to see another man come to his senses about the true nature of women, and their Narcissus personalities.

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

So I took my red pill today and am not going to look for anyone else for awhile or just remain single until all of this “feminist mindset” on how to treat guys has the tables turned where women are at the disadvantage because right its like a dog chasing his tail

Its not going to change, not in our lifetime. Things are the way they are due to evolutionary processes developed in order to survive and breed the next generation.
Dont wait for changes, dont hold out hope. There is no NAWALT and there is no pot of gold or buxom blonde at the end of the rainbow.

nailed it on the head and basically made me think why am I wasting my time

This is the right attitude mate. If girls come along, fine but dont ever let them change your ways and control you as they try to. Do your own thing, regardless of others.

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Hi Dan. Welcome to MGTOW. Coincidentally, you’re MGHOW of the day(!) on our homepage. Thanks for the intro. Slick avatar too.

The reason why I joined this site is because I’ve become fed up with the whole online dating atmosphere.

You and me both, buddy. And we are not alone. I tried it out after moving to a new city, but mostly because one of our clients was a online dating company. So I signed up at a couple of mainstream sites. What I learned was “online dating” is what WOMEN think it is. To the rest of us ADULTS, it’s just “online EMAILING” and the “dating” part happens in the REAL world. But women are so f~~~ing creepy and sex-obsessed, they have all kinds of sick fantasies and actually believe getting an email from a guy online that says “hi hows it going” is an invitation to f~~~ before the first meeting.

I actively met a good number of girls and “dated” like a machine for about 9-12 months until 3 horror-show dates put me off forever. It’s official. Women are nucking futs.

One day, I was out sick with a cold so I conducted an experiment. I emailed 50 attractive women under 31. I chose that demographic because they are the LARGEST population of attractive, available, horny, non-divorced, non-mothers of someone else’s kid. I said something “nice”, friendly, and responded to photos (or something they said about themselves) on their profile.

Not a single response.
50 out of 50 (100%) of them did not even respond.

But the NEXT day, I emailed ANOTHER 50 attractive women in the same demographic. This time, I INSULTED them. I said something snide, cutting, sinister and even rude.

• “Why do you look like a chihuahua in 2 of your photos? Bad hair day?”
• “You’re a model? Whassamatter, couldn’t you get a REAL job?”
• Why are most of your photos with a bathing suit or yoga pants? Can’t you afford clothes?
• “I can tell you’re a foodie.”
• “Who’s the pretty girl standing next to you? I would like to meet her.”

Well! Almost immediately, 42 of them responded. Some of them more than once, and most of them with more than one paragraph! The longest was 6 paragraphs of her ripping me (and my profile) apart with every conceivable insult you can imagine. More than half of them responded within a couple hours or less.

NOTHING positive I said previously would have generated that kind of a response.

What the f~~~ does that tell me? It tells me at least 84% of women online are toxic c~~~s who don’t even prefer kind and respectful treatment. Instead, they prefer to respond to something they perceive as a NEGATIVE. They will drop what they are doing and prefer to roll up their sleeves to passionately respond (almost immediately!) with some kind of cutting remark BACK. Some of them even replied with interest in meeting in person!!

This is the S~~~ that is the modern female.
Don’t even need to date them ONCE to know it.

“Online dating” is for women and gays.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Great story Man,

 

Welcome to MGTOW!. If we had a bar, I’d buy you a beer my friend.

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[MrDanJD7192Participant 12]

Hey guys, thanks for the warm welcome. I appreciate it and that I can relate to what you guys have also experienced out there as well. I felt like it was just ma and that I was crazy but after being on here and reading what you guys put down it all makes sense for sure and also that I’m not crazy haha. Anyways thanks again for the warm welcome and trust me you’ll see me a lot more on here. I also have some POF profiles to share that I think are absolutely hilarious to what we all agree on about some women being just flat out crazy. In the mean time, you gents have a great remainder to your weekends and I wish you all a great week ahead of you as well.

 

Best Regards!

– Daniel

[McQueenParticipant 77]

Don’t worry. You’re not crazy, Daniel. Take a little vacation elsewhere in the world and you won’t look at American bitches again.

[MrDanJD7192Participant 12]

UPDATE: That girl I was with that I broke up with because I found out she was cheating on me has been in a relationship with another guy 1 week after I broke up with her hahaha. I knew I was being cheated on which didn’t surprise me at all as my gut feeling has rarely misled me. All I can say is I feel bad for that guy when decides she decides to axe the relationship with him and treat him the same way I got treated. It’s all good though because I’m done and have moved on from all of the relationship bulls~~~ and I’m going my own way.

[jambearParticipant 282]

Welcome into the fold, brother. It is great that you told her off. Keep you eye on the prize, which is your own happiness and never comprise it for any woman.

Not surprising that she found a guy immediately. Woman have the control in their prime, but once they hit the wall it is all over. then men have it and never lose it for the remainder of our lives.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

that girl sounds like one I knew and had a similar experience with at about your age (I’m 48 now). I asked a more experienced and realistic friend what he thought I should do. I was letting the hormones do the thinking and going on about what a hot body she had etc. His response: “Well son, if you put a brain in that head, you’d have a perfectly good woman…”. That was good advice. No matter how good the hardware is, if the software is fcked up, it’s better to just start looking at the alternatives…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[DazzleParticipant 67]

Hi Dan, everything Key Master says about on line dating is spot on.

I’ve been on POF for about a year now and to start with had about 6 dates, everyone of them, well lets just say…..weird! I finally gave up, found this site, which has helped get my sanity back and now just use POF for “research” purposes and my own amusement. You should try it! Go and pick out some good looking women you know would never give you the time of day and criticise her profile. Don’t be rude about it, just  tell her how egotistical, big headed, nassisistic she sounds. Ask her why its all about what she wants and not what she can bring to the table and my favourite “You sound like a feminist”. That really gets the sparks flying! Then just sit back, you won’t have to wait long and wait for the response.

And guess what, apart from entertainment value, I’ve found some of the idiots want to meet me! That’s the female mind my friend.! Then it’s hump, dump and move on time, because having anything more with these weirdos will destroy you eventually.

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