I found the site almost a week ago, and I immediately joined because it seems that even though I just heard about it, I was chasing the same ideas all along.
I was born and raised in a country where men still seems to be privileged in society and feminism can still help the women struck by domestic violence. Naturally I stood by the feminists in my country for many years, and advocated the end of discrimination against women in the society. This is only natural response any sane human being can give.
However, as I moved first to the US, and then Ireland, I began to realize how the balance of power in society can change very quickly once you start taking unlimited affirmative actions towards one race or gender, and how quickly the people forget how difficult it was to gain those rights. People just get entitled to what they have.
I saw it when my country just bastardized every bit of the government and totally burnt it down to ashes in the last 30 years, forgetting how many people died to defend it no longer then 90 years ago. This is the same case with white Western women today. Instead of empowering the women in the parts of the world that people still suffer from serious discrimination, many Western women are just spending their energy to deal with their personal insecurities and they just chase their relentless need of self validation. This bothered me for a long time until I found MGTOW and saw that I am not alone.
Seriously people, who cares if I am fat and nobody appreciates my body? This is the disconnection of women from the reality. Whole families get raped in Uganda while some people discussing if there is a rape culture in the US, or fat acceptance bulls~~~.
Please don’t get me wrong. Even if the women may be disadvantaged in many parts in my country. They are still the boss at home. Men cannot come home late without their wives’ approval and so on. Funny but the rape culture is taught at home to the boys by their mothers where they shame any tiny amount of sexuality the girls have in them. All the suppression by the culture and the religion (Islam anyone?) turn men into entitled bastards that rape and murder women, this is a fact. I mean, everyone in the society is responsible for the rape culture, otherwise it cannot survive. Like it did not survive in Europe or the US, except from the new members of the society that just immigrated to these places, which they will also assimilate.
However, apart from their sincere victimhood, the women are just women in my country. They all have the same psychological traits and social powers as they do have in their Western counterparts. Their sense of logic and their emotional states are also similar. I had my fair share of them to make me stay away from them, which helped me get the red pill thankfully. Also women from all other countries that I had the chance to meet along my many travels and my time abroad, did support my decision as well.
I enjoy this place a lot, hope this movement grows more and gets more smart enlightened men into the ranks. I wouldn’t want it to go mainstream though, it just screws things up pretty quickly and girls show up for attention that kills the whole mood.
Thank you for the welcoming environment around here, I hope we will talk more soon.
RoyDal 4 years ago.
