Hello from one guy sick and tired of it all

[TheGrandMoffParticipant 9]

Hello, fellow men of the world! Let me tell you a little about myself. I am 31-years-old and I live in the good ole American heartland (where C~~~-illary got her ass handed to her by men voters!). I never had much interest in romantic relationships. During high school, I did have an on again and off again girlfriend for a couple of years. I never really felt anything for her above my waist but you know how it is.

That relationship ended right before high school ended because she got herself knocked up…by my arch-f~~~ing rival. I thought the kid was mine at first because I didn’t know she was f~~~ing around. Then the child was born…not of my race, shall we say. Told her to p~~~ off after that, though I am actually VERY glad I dodged that easy meal ticket for her.

So, I went off to college, studied a few years, occasionally tapped some when I felt the need, though not very often. I wanted to avoid knocking anyone up, of going through that miserable experience of thinking I was forever tied by a child to someone. Anyways, I got bored with college and left without finishing up my degree and worked for a bit, saved up a lot of cash and just spent the next couple of years travelling the country, i.e. New York City, Los Angeles, Chicago, Miami, etc. Finally, I ran out of the cash and stopped my frequent travels.

But I thought, damn, that was freedom!

So, instead of getting stuck in some dead end job I would take work as I needed, sometimes semi-steady for a couple of months but usually just odd jobs here and there, getting enough cash to pay my bills and enjoy myself. Hell, I even managed to save up enough to buy a house free and clear back during the Great Recession, when housing prices hit rock bottom in my home area. Then the family and eventually even my buddies starting hassling me to “find Ms. Right and settle down.”

I did not like the idea very much but damn, when everyone in your life is pressuring you, it can be hard to say no f~~~ing way. So, as I approached my 30th birthday, I let them hook me up with what my sister assured me was “ a very nice girl.” Okay, what have I got lose, I thought. Yeah, I know. Anyways, I started dating her and she did seem nice, at first. But slowly, she became…well, what’s the word I am looking for, something that is nice and polite? Oh, bat s~~~ crazy, that is what she turned into after about six months.

Well, I started trying to break it off with her but a few weeks into that effort she calls me up and says we need to talk, like, right now and in person. So, I’m like, okay but this better be good. So, she shows up at my place and as soon as she walks in she says “I’m pregnant.” I laughed. She got p~~~ed and handed me a pregnancy test. I looked at it and it was positive. So, I said, “you’ve been f~~~ing around on me, haven’t you?” She screeched and denied it vehemently. I laughed and told her a simple fact, I had a vastecomy a few years ago. Which is true.

The color drained from her face.

She accused me of lying and I said, nope, baby, you’re the liar and the cheater. So she, rather predictably, started crying and saying she was sorry, she didn’t love the other guy, etc. I just said get the f~~~ out, I never want to see you again, ever. She just melted down, crying and screaming and all that s~~~. I had to have my sister come in and console her, the cheater, and finally get her to leave my f~~~ing house.

After she finally walked out the door, I turned to my sister and said, “never again, not f~~~ing ever. Don’t ever, ever, ever, in the name of God, ever try to hook me up with someone or say that I need to man up and settle down. F~~~ that s~~~, completely, little sis.” I then went to my Facebook and posted a similar statement to all my friends and family. Well, that’s been a year ago and I am feeling free and great once again.

During that time, I have been reevaluating some s~~~ in my life. First, I discovered a little while ago MGTOW. I think it describes me perfectly. I will never, ever marry. I haven’t even been doing short term hookups or one night stands. That s~~~ is not worth it to me, not at all. Instead, I’ve been focused on finishing my education, fishing every chance I get, hanging with my buddies, developing my spiritual life, and recently, I’ve begun considering the idea of starting up some kind of business, though I haven’t clue as to what kind.

I’ve also been making some observations of the men around me.

Take my brother. In high school he was Mr. Popular. The girls threw themselves at him. He had any girl he wanted, whenever he wanted. Then, right out of high school he marries some woman he barely knows. They’re still married, with three kids. And that woman is a spiteful, soul-sucking bitch. She has his b~~~~ in a jar and whatever she says to do he does, no questions asked. And he works himself to death for her. Not his kids, mind you, her. That is not happening to me. Now, let me consider my brother-in-law, my little sis’s husband.

Well, long story short, while I love my little sis unconditionally, there is no f~~~ing way I could put up with the s~~~ my brother-in-law does. He has almost no life now and works every single f~~~ing day. And has s~~~ to show for it. Well, I mean, he does have MASSIVE debt to show off but that doesn’t seem like a thing one wants to brag about. The same situation for his father, a man I respect more than my own dad.

His wife is nagging and bitching and spending all the money while he literally does everything for her, like the laundry, the cooking, the cleaning and all that s~~~. She does let him drink some beer and go on hunting trips though. Nice of her, eh? Then there is my best friend from childhood. Divorced from a damn methhead (was totally normal before marriage, though). Then, knocked up a woman who now gets a hefty part of his paycheck for a child he rarely gets to see. Ain’t love grand? Finally, there is my current best friend, a guy I’ve known since junior high. A good guy, always willing to work hard. Married and divorced now.

The wife turned out to be a lying (aren’t they all) piece of crap. And crazy, of course. Then, he moved a few hours away to take a better job and start his life over. Found a new girl and they moved in together and she was all doting and s~~~ until, well, the day he found out she was f~~~ing a bunch of other dudes. Not just one, or two, or three but like every guy that would stick in her and that is most guys. Personally, I don’t understand how he didn’t pick up on that sooner but love is blind, I guess. The sad thing is, they weren’t married but she kicked him out of his own f~~~ing trailer. He never got that back. He had to move in with mom and pa for awhile. Based on my own experiences and numerous stories of the guys I know, there is no f~~~ing way I am entering the slave contract that is modern marriage.

Anyways, I hope to learn a lot from you all.

Peace.

[Anonymous 43]

paragraphs.

welcome or whatever, its 3 am and I’m punchy.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

TheGrandMoff wrote:

She screeched and denied it vehemently. I laughed and told her a simple fact, I had a vastecomy a few years ago

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[bladeParticipant]

What a pussie story . Hope ya ok . So what’s up . Could you not of simplified your story . Are you ok .

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[MACHOParticipant]

blade wrote:

Could you not of simplified your story

Blade you are asking a tough job… but maybe the OP can pull it off!

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[MACHOParticipant]

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[Anonymous 0]

Hello and welcome chap, sounds like you’re another MGHOW before he knew it?

With regards your big bro, being able to have any woman he wanted and picking one with 3 kids and a bit of an age gap, there must have been something really appealing about her?

[MACHOParticipant]

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[HitmanParticipant]

Welcome! Jump in and have a great time! Thanks for the intro.

[Anonymous 18]

Welcome. That vasectomy saved your life.

[BoskParticipant 111]

You escaped the trap well !
Welcome to you, one rare man among woo…men.

Have a white russian with me ?

[Y_Participant 4591]

At 31 you still have most of your good years ahead of you.
This depends on how you use it.
Welcome and I hope you make the right choice.

PS The past is past. It can’t hurt you unless you let it.
This goes for family.Tell them to f~~~ off dammit.

[Point Of No ReturnParticipant 4074]

Welcome TheGrandMoff

Know when it is your duty to give them zero explanations for your actions.

[Anonymous 1]

You mean not 1 but 2 girls tried the pregnant card while f~~~ing other dudes?

Daaaayyyuuuuuuuuuuuuumhhhhnnnn
You must be captain cucked!
Ahah, welcome!

[bladeParticipant]

Bro welcome . Sorry about what i wrote above . I got p~~~ed last night . Anyway welcome again bro

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Moff
Beer’s in the fridge

[Anonymous 1]

Your story somehow make me proud, and I don’t even know you. Welcome brother. The vasectomy part is especially golden.

The rule is AWALT. There are exceptions to the rule, but why bother taking the chance. My family always pushes me to get some girl and settle down, like it’s a great thing, even in Asia’s culture where women are more doting to their husbands, the financial and emotional risks is still up there.

[TheGrandMoffParticipant 9]

Anonymous wrote:

Hello and welcome chap, sounds like you’re another MGHOW before he knew it?

With regards your big bro, being able to have any woman he wanted and picking one with 3 kids and a bit of an age gap, there must have been something really appealing about her?

I have thought a few times about what so attracted my brother to his wife. I mean, sure, she was hot, with a really nice ass but she was dumb as a post and had all the personality of a robot. It boggles my little mind.

Bosk wrote:

You escaped the trap well !
Welcome to you, one rare man among woo…men.

Have a white russian with me ?

Hell yeah I’ll have a white russian.

Anonymous wrote:

You mean not 1 but 2 girls tried the pregnant card while f~~~ing other dudes?

Daaaayyyuuuuuuuuuuuuumhhhhnnnn
You must be captain cucked!
Ahah, welcome!

Captain cucked, lol, I like that.

blade wrote:

Bro welcome . Sorry about what i wrote above . I got p~~~ed last night . Anyway welcome again bro

It is all cool, bro. I know I’ve had days like that, too.

Thanks to everyone who has welcomed me so far.

[Anonymous 12]

Straight A.
Welcome!

keep observing the men around you, and if you can keep doing regular testing regarding your snip.
get the results signed by a lawyer – this is your freedom card 😀

[AttonParticipant]

So, I’m like, okay but this better be good. So, she shows up at my place and as soon as she walks in she says “I’m pregnant.” I laughed. She got p~~~ed and handed me a pregnancy test. I looked at it and it was positive. So, I said, “you’ve been f~~~ing around on me, haven’t you?” She screeched and denied it vehemently. I laughed and told her a simple fact, I had a vastecomy a few years ago. Which is true.

When I hear stories like this the only thing I can think to myself is ignorance. You where smart enough to use a permanent form of birth control. However women the ones who has access to far more in the way of choice, ends up not using it. They have been given the gift of knowledge by living in the information age. The gift of power being modern medical science, but she used neither. She is likely stupid enough to use a back ally abortionist as well by the sounds of it. Then her uterus will likely rot out of her body as discharge. Welcome to the site and forgive my rather crude comments.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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