Hello from Long Island!

[VaderParticipant 50]

Hello. I’m 44 and live in the birthplace of “the Entitled C~~~.” I’ve been keen to their s~~~ for a long time, but still got myself in trouble by having a kid with the Town Bike. I really wish there was a site like this when I was 30. It would have saved me a lot of grief and money. I could write pages of s~~~ that I’ve been through, but you guys already know it. Same s~~~, different man. It’s comforting to know, real men , are fed up. I used to think I was the only sane f~~~er out here. Anyway, thank you, and I hope to be interacting with all of you.

[jambearParticipant 282]

I would love to hear some of your stories.

[VileNordParticipant 766]

Welcome @vader !

You never know how relatable a particular story could be to someone who is lurking here and still on the fence. I’m not saying that you have to share, just that it may be of more benefit than you originally thought. Whether or not you wish to put yourself out there or not, welcome to the site and glad to have you!

Lust for comfort suffocates the soul

[VaderParticipant 50]

I’ve whined for so long , I just don’t want to anymore! But I do have a question? How do I teach my daughter not to end up like these c~~~s. Just like anyone else’s kid, she’s awesome! Such Innocense. Yet, such an old soul. I just want her to be good. And now, that I’ve met men,such as yourselves, How should I approach this? Her mother has fought me tooth and nail about child support, visitation, and custody. All i ever wanted was a solid relationship with my child. She’s always kept this from me. I am not from this! My mom and Dad have been married for 60 yrs. I can honestly say my Mom is not any of these women. She will be immortalized! My parents had their ups and downs, but my mom was honorable and loyal to my dad, to this day, and vice versa. She, on the other hand, from a broken family, in which the father died young. Single Mom, raising 3 girls and a boy, all while f~~~ed up on booze and drugs! 3 of them, fatherless children, while the youngest, waits the inevitable. I’ve been to jail, family court, counselers,  you name it. Ive given up 20 yrs. of my life for this s~~~ and I’m done. Thank God I never married her. She said no. I think I’m going to have to make an installment plan. My story is LLOONNGG! I’m going to try to do it in chronological order, a little bit at a time.

[VaderParticipant 50]

I just hate typing

[jambearParticipant 282]

@Vader

All you an do is raise her in the best way you know how. The unfortunate truth is that I do not think that woman start out like that but it is a learned behavior. Depending on how old she is use the time you have with her to instill good into her. Because once she hits a certain age your words will mean nothing to her.At that point all you can do is hope for the best.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

How do I teach my daughter not to end up like these c~~~s.

It’s kinda funny how everything changes when God drops a daughter in your lap. And the first thing fathers tend to do – for her protection – is SELL OUT OTHER MEN. They treat the boyfriends like s~~~. They use “scare” tactics and tell her she is a “victim” even before she has a first date. Fathers intentionally bash other men for the good and protection of their daughters. They “over”-warn her. You know what I mean.

Mothers don’t do this for their sons. They know what women are REALLY like, but they teach their sons HARMFUL behaviors which are bad for him. “When she behaves like a bitch… buy her flowers to cheer her up. Do something NICE for her. Take her out and show her a good time.” All behaviors that REWARD women for s~~~ty behavior. They encourage marriage. They shame their sons when he doesn’t marry. Mothers teach their sons all the WRONG s~~~. S~~~ that’s bad for him. And harmful.

Unfortunately, kids don’t come with a handbook. So I’m afraid you’re on your own.

But as comedian Chris Rock says…..
“Just keep her off the pole. If your daughter becomes a stripper, you f~~~ed up”.

I really wish there was a site like this when I was 30

Thank you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[VaderParticipant 50]

Dude, I’ve bloodied the walls with other men’s blood. I caught her in bed with another man,naked, and disposed of him,quickly I was charged of Felony Assault, trespassing,amongst other s~~~. I Pled to trespassing. $100 fine. I’m telling you, right now, don’t plead to anything, ever. If you are innocent. This will backlash on you in the future. this was not the only trespassing i have. I am an avid bowhunter. Been hunting since i’m 5. My dad’s real cool, he did all the man s~~~, spearfishing, hunting, fishing, boxing,etc. i Had a trespass from hopping a fence to find greener pasture, years prior. They brought that s~~~ up! PLEAD TO NOTHING , EVER. The burden is on the State. You can be charged with anything, it doesn’t mean your, guilty! If the court wants you to plea, they ain’t got s~~~. Stick it out, pay the POS lawyer another grand, and give in to nothing. They will fold. It’s not in their best  interest to pursue a man who stands upright.

“Mothers don’t do this for their sons” I may be different. My Mom has always been the first one to sniff out the bad pussy. She has one, why wouldn’t she know! My mom has sniffed through a lot of them, and she was always right. My parents raised 3 boys and a girl, and the girl is the most f~~~ed up between us!

I am on my own! I’ve known it for a long time. And I’m happy with it. I’m tired of what society expects of me, because I, don’t expect ,s~~~!

Just real happy I’ve met a group of MEN who I can even say this s~~~ to.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Just real happy I’ve met a group of MEN who I can even say this s~~~ to.

We’re equally delighted you feel that way!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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