Hello Everyone – My story

[JstAntherGuyParticipant 10]

I’m just a regular guy living in Kansas City. Thinking back on various events in my life, I feel that it was inevitable that I would end up here. I have been and continue to be successful in my work life, my academic life (prior to that), friendships, and my immediate family. I very mush wanted to meet that special someone and perhaps even have a family of my own. I thought it wouldn’t be that difficult. I am a person that truly values personality, intelligence and action over looks. I never had any issue at all dating a fat girl, for example, if I enjoyed her personality. It honestly didn’t bother me. And for a while, everything seemed fine. I met and conversed with women of various sizes, shapes, ages and colors. Mostly nothing came from it all, as tends to be the case with dating in general, but I enjoy meeting new people none the less.

But then I started noticing something. I didn’t think much of it at the time. I was 20 or so and it really didn’t seem like that big of a deal. Some women that I had known that had gotten pregnant young and were now single, were trying to get with me. My young and c~~~y self was all like “Yeah why wouldn’t they want this?” but I didn’t see the bigger picture until years later.

Around that time I had dates, flings and/or relationships with women that were, well, less than ethical I suppose you could say. A girl that wanted to f~~~ me cause her best friend that was very much into me told her how amazing the sex was. A girl that was hoping that promises of her pussy could convince me to let her move in since she had no job, Several girls that had no cars and needed rides, a few girls that turned out to be married (my favorite being the female that called me one date to tell me she wanted to come clean about being married and that she had just called her husband, who was in the military and stationed in the middle east, to break it off with him – she got an earful from me), and couple of catfishes from the internet. I had heard women complaining about men being s~~~ty and that men were always doing these types of things to them. I figured people were just dumb all around. It’s just bad luck. Still didn’t see the bigger picture.

I began a long term relationship with a woman that had a child and it was kind of the big eye opener. Things were ok in the beginning. As the relationship progressed, problems began to emerge. In hindsight, the problems were there from the beginning, they just started to worsen over time. Lack of discipline in the child’s youth was causing issues as he got older. I had to step into the disciplinarian role because she would not. She was blind to how much her child was getting into trouble. It was the only time in my life I ever heard someone say that a kid had a good week at school because ” he only got in trouble 3 or 4 times”. I refused to take a child that gets in trouble every other day at school to do fun things every weekend and that because a source of contention between us. When I decided to go back to school and finish my master’s degree, it upset her that I didn’t talk to her about it first. I told her she didn’t have anything to worry about, as I wasn’t going to work any less, and the bills would still get paid. She was concerned about our “family time” which was really only tv time. After work I would sit on the couch with her, pretending to enjoy whatever reality show she was into at the time. She sucked it up and dealt, for a bit. She was also in school, and she also worked. But she was a part time undergraduate student and she worked an incredibly part time job. I was a full time student and worked around 50-60 hours a week to help support a women I cared about and her child. Resentment built up in her because of the lack of free time I had. She said that she didn’t understand why I had so much homework, when she had so little. She literally said to me “how does you being back in school help me?” One night I passed out on the floor with my face in an accounting textbook and woke up to someone kicking me repeatedly in the ribs. I didn’t really know what was going on, so I grabbed the leg of the person kicking me and rolled in order to twist the leg and take them down. The person starts screaming and I realize that it was my girlfriend. Neighbors heard the screams and called the police and I ended up being arrested despite my 2 broken ribs. Clearly I was at fault because penis. Charges were dropped, she begged me to take her back. When I wouldn’t she tried to use the kid to guilt trip me. When that didn’t work, I was simply “not a real man since I couldn’t handle a real woman.” I realized that the whole time I had been with her, it was always about her first, her kid seconds, friends and family after that, then me dead last. No appreciation what so ever for helping to take care of her, helping to raise a kid I wasn’t related to, paying the bills, babysitting, nothing. Just anger and contempt.

I made the decision to not date a woman with kids after that (there were other incidents involving her child that helped influence my decision). I dated around for a few years, surprised at the shopping list mentality of women I encountered. Eventually, I met a women that I had a lot in common with (or so I thought). We hit it off and dated for a while and everything seemed great. Then one day she just ended it. No reason given. Seemed strange, but what can you do? I when on about my life. We had mutual friends (more her friends than mine, as it often goes) and I ran into one of the boyfriends of one of these girls at the bar some time after that. We shot the s~~~ and had some drink and he mentioned that he felt bad for me. I though he was referring to the split. Turned out he was talking about my aborted baby that I’d never heard about and that his girlfriend had told him never to reveal to me.

It was on after that. He asked me not to cause a scene, but it was far too late. I tried to call her but she was still ignoring my calls. Went to her workplace and calmly told her that we could go outside and talk about it or we could talk about it in front of everyone at her office. We went outside and she tried to explain how hard it was for her, that it was such a difficult decision, that she had no one that was there for her and how she had to do it all alone. Apparently when you have the support of your girlfriend (that had been through and abortion before), 3 of your female friends that helped you out, your mother (found out she knew also) and a selection of close co-workers, any activities you do still count as being performed alone. Basically everyone know about this but me, when I should have been the first person to know.

That was when the pieces all fell into place. We live in a society where women can do whatever the f~~~ they want, yet feminists are still crying patriarchy. I get battered and I get arrested? A woman gets pregnant with my child and I have zero say in any of the multiple options that she chooses, but I am forced to abide by them anyway? She could have had the baby and never told me, had the baby and the tried to get child support from me, had the baby without telling me then try to get child support from me later, etc. I was raped by a woman while I was in college. I passed out from too much liquor or drugs or whatever I was doing at the time. Woke up naked next to some girl that rode me while I was unconscious and didn’t even bother to put a rubber on me first. I have had several women laugh when I’ve told them this. Because being violated is only serious if you have a vagina. And the neither the police, nor campus authorities did anything.

So I decided that I am done. I don’t find women worth it anymore. That’s my story. Thanks for everything you guys do here!

 

[QcummerParticipant 652]

u didn’t get raped, you just passed out during blackout sex. It’s funny if you’re a guy, rape if you’re a girl. You are a slave. Welcome 🙂

[Anonymous 18]

Welcome  JstAntherGuy (had to copy/paste that, lol)

If there is one common factor it is that of extreme selfishness. Like a tornado that doesn’t care who comes in its way. Women are like that. They are the worst to the ones they are supposed to love. Forget love, women like you experienced don’t have the common decency to reciprocate the help/care they receive.

Instead they exploit the same person that cares most about them and then they go around wondering where the nice men are.

Its harsh reality but only thing I can say is I feel for you. Having been involved myself with a single mother. I was told this, and I am passing the message on, there is a reason they are single mothers for a reason. But they are good at victimizing themselves.

Thank you for sharing your story. It was yet another eye opener.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Thank you for coming and sharing. Although you feel s~~~ …. two things are going to happen

1. You will be listened too and believed

2. You have just helped others

Welcome …. you are with good company now ☺

[JstAntherGuyParticipant 10]

@qcummer

A slave indeed. Learned from my mistakes though. All she had to do was get p~~~ed, or change her mind about sitting on my dick and I would have become the rapist. Won’t put myself in a situation like that again.

@iLearn

Thanks iLearn. Women meet nice men everyday. They make fun of them for being too short, not making enough money, or my personal favorite – being too nice to them and putting them on a pedestal. What a horrible way to be treated lol.

[Soldier-MedicParticipant 2566]

Thank you for having the courage to share.

"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.

[JstAntherGuyParticipant 10]

@iliveagain

Thank you. I have been doing really well. Had some health issues, but aside from that, I’ve been able to get back into doing things that I used to enjoy. Took a few days off work and rode the motorcycle up to Chicago. Couldn’t really do things like that when I wasn’t single or when I was putting a lot of effort into dating.

[Jeremiah JohnsonParticipant 2219]

Hello and welcome JstAntherGuy! Sorry too hear about your red pill experience sir. Thank you for sharing it though, I am sure even talking about it all is painful. You have done the right thing though sir, and you have found like minded men and brother’s that also have been gutted by the deadly vagina trap. I have a daughter sir, she will be 15 years old in December, and I am here to tell you, there is not a day that goes by that her absence does not leave me a little more hardened.My Ex took her away from me and uses her like an ATM card with child support, in short I guess what I am trying to tell you, is at the very least, you will not have to go through the pain and misery that is losing your child to one of these heartless demon’s. And then be forced to pay all of your future income to support her in her tyrannical attempt to suck as many soul’s from men as she can before her own demise. Anyway, welcome sir, and cheers to finding a new home where we all care!

Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....

[BufordParticipant 935]

Yep there’s a streak of evil that runs through them all mate. Count yourself lucky you didn’t end up a father with and stuck married to any of them.

Welcome to the fresh air.

 

"This happens every time one of these floozies starts poontangin' around with those show folk fags. - Sheriff Buford T. Justice"

[WolfParticipant 890]

Welcome! And thanks for sharing your experiences. I, like a lot of folks around here, can relate with similar experiences.

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

We are here for you my brother. It takes courage to share and moreover to realize the lies put before our male eyes.

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