Hello everyone.

[RedPillDETOXSpectator 24]

– 22 yo guy from the UK here who is absolutely sick of gynocentric society.

– Marriage and LTRs are out of the question!

– I was raised by my mother 99% of the time, and am the only son. Safe to say that was often a horrible experience after I hit puberty and started becoming a man.

– I’m straight and young (as I said) so short term associations with women will be part and parcel of my life at least for the next 10-20 years.

– I am an active member of blue-pill society. This means that I am often the butt of shaming and NAWALT attacks. Often I find myself becoming a purple-piller again thanks to the delusions and efforts of women and gynocentric society. They say that you can never go back. YOU CAN. Shaming, isolation and deception are powerful tools to get a person to comply.

– I hope to share my knowledge and learn from the experiences of my fellow MGTOW.

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

welcome, and that buzzing noise in the back of your mind is the rest of the Blue Piller’s cacophony of crazy. After a while you don’t even notice the shaming tactics other than to note that’s what they are doing. Apply the correct amount of apathy and like magic it bothers you no more.

Thee is a simplistic beauty to not giving a f~~~, those pesky random doubts melt away. The judgement of others is meaningless in the face of pure unbridled apathy. What has 2 thumbs and no f~~~s to give?

This GUY!!

 

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

[RedPillDETOXSpectator 24]

Smitty the Great One wrote:

welcome, and that buzzing noise in the back of your mind is the rest of the Blue Piller’s cacophony of crazy. After a while you don’t even notice the shaming tactics other than to note that’s what they are doing. Apply the correct amount of apathy and like magic it bothers you no more. Thee is a simplistic beauty to not giving a f~~~, those pesky random doubts melt away. The judgement of others is meaningless in the face of pure unbridled apathy. What has 2 thumbs and no f~~~s to give? This GUY!!

Cheers! I wonder how long it will take to be able to detach myself? I’m a noob at apathy. I was raised to not offend anyone and care for people’s feelings… not to mention be a simpleton who is 100% honest about emotions, always considers others and walks on eggshells to not offend other people. Bitches keep me in line. Apathy was taught to me as being highly offensive, so I can’t really do it atm. But I’m eager to learn!

[Anonymous 11]

Welcome RedPillDetox:

Don’t worry. You have the equivalent of thousands of years of experience in dealing with women among all of the brothers here. When I was 22, I was facing the same thing all alone. I had to learn the hard way as I was a lot like you at 22. I wasted 22 odd years beyond that before my skull got cracked hard enough to wake up.

So you’re starting out new. Let’s begin with apathy. There are two types. The bad type is sitting around doing nothing to further yourself. The good type is being indifferent towards situations that are not to your benefit.

RedPillDETOX wrote:

I was raised to not offend anyone and care for people’s feelings… not to mention be a simpleton who is 100% honest about emotions, always considers others and walks on eggshells to not offend other people. Bitches keep me in line. Apathy was taught to me as being highly offensive, so I can’t really do it atm. But I’m eager to learn!

First, you’ve got to unlearn these behaviors, and it will take a little time. You will even fail to be perfect on occasion. Who cares if you fail as you’re learning as long as you are moving forward. You will get there.

Your first learning task should be developing boundary setting skills. Homework assignment: Tell people no for the hell of it until you become comfortable doing it. You do not have to be a jerk. Just be FIRM and polite but do not waver. The point of this exercise is to make you comfortable doing it. It will feel weird at first, but soon it will become very fun almost like a sport as you develop.

Bitches do not keep you in line. Bitches are only there to control you for their selfish needs. You keep yourself in line.

Walking on eggshells is a very tough thing. Why do you do it? It is because you care about other people’s opinions which many times are not in your best interest. Most humans are selfish users. Keep this in mind.

In fact, my father died when I was fairly young so I can understand where you are coming from too.

[John DoeParticipant 743]

I discovered MGTOW at your age, maybe a little younger.   Once you learn enough about female behavior and society in general you won’t have to worry about “apathy”.  You will just automatically see through the bulls~~~ and not care.

With that being said, because we are young, guys like us have to stay constantly vigilant.   It is easy fall into confusion after talking to a girl with a pretty smile or nice rack.   You have to be aware that due to biology going MGTOW is no walk in the park for us young guys.  However, it is a wise and safe way of dealing with women and people in general.  It does have its payoffs, however you can only receive them if you are constantly vigilant.  Just keep reading the forums and you will quickly see this.

Consuming the “red pill” will help you through this.  But you are going to have to learn self discipline.  As a guy just a few years older than you, going through the same issues, I cannot emphasize this enough.  You are going to have to practice control over yourself, but more importantly the ability to say “no”.

Don’t worry about disappointing women either.  There is nothing you can do to satisfy them even when you are at your “best”.  That includes your mother too.

In regards to “stepping on eggshells”:  Crush those motherf~~~ers.  As long as you are able to support yourself, there is no reason why you have to put up with people’s bulls~~~.  Learn some self respect.

And welcome.

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

This means that I am often the butt of shaming and NAWALT attacks.

nawalt is  defensive not an attack

 

 

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