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    Anonymous
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    Hello, My name is May 7, 2020. This is the date my youngest child turns 18, and I will be free from a nasty c~~~ of an ex wife once and for all.

    I went through a very contentious divorce after being a stay at home dad for 9 1/2 of the 11 years we were married. We spent a combined $490,000 over 7 years on the divorce, btw…to divorce a stay at home dad with zero assets. Before you ask, her employer paid for a significant part of my legal bills, and so did the college I was attending. She paid out of pocket for her 4 lawyers. She also paid me $1000 a month while I went to school. Also had to give me 1/2 of 401K and 1/2 the equity in the house. So I guess I did to her what all y’all’s ex-wives did to you. What an absolute stupid c~~~, to lose so much money so stupidly. For the next 3 1/2 years she will get $650 a month from me, a total of about $24K, or a 2016 Honda Accord. And she is a fing CPA!!! Hello…return on investment?

    We were both college students working at Failmart, she was an accounting student and I was studying Russian language and Business. My dream was to work for a Russian Oil Company as a translator/liaison person. I took my eye off that dream…I was lonely, one of 4 Russian Majors on campus. Why I got mixed up with the girl, I do not know. She was from a divorced family and a disaster.
    WTF was I thinking? I could save her…and we could be happy together forever!

    There was one crucial day when I could have chucked it all, when this kid she met in Mexico showed up at her place. He was there illegally, and wanted to hook up with her. I had known her for a couple weeks. I shoulda walked away…I wrote it in my diary, July 25, 1995.

    I helped her through school, money, paid for tutors, wrote her papers, my own grades went into the toilet. After a couple years, we decided we would get her through school as she had better job prospects, we moved in together. Her credit was a disaster and she had student loans, maybe $20K. I paid those off. At Christmas 1998 she took a job far away and left me in the apartment. We had one last umm you know, and off she went. I got a call in February…yup you guessed it she was pregnant…she “forgot” her pill. I examined the box of condoms I was using…yup, pinholes. Oh nose…I was 28, not really employed, back in school working toward a dream that just went to s~~~.

    She came home and we stumbled through that summer learning more about each other, living together. I learned she had raging pms 24/7 365. Seriously, she used to put me down, hit me and just make me miserable. I was going to be the good guy and take care of the kid…That kid turned 18 yesterday, just started college at an art school that costs $75000 a year. not my decision btw.

    After a while of working and dropping our daughter off at her friend’s house, the babysitting and extra car expenses was about what I made. So to save money I stayed at home, eventually volunteered in my kids school, teaching art class for all 6 grades, every teacher, every room for 6 years. I went back to school for teacher training. The principal said she would have a job waiting for me when I graduated in 2012.

    July 25, 2009…hmmm sounds familiar. She woke up and declared she wasn’t happy, and told me to get out. She then announced to the kids over breakfast that we were getting a divorce. yeah. it totally sucked.

    WTF?
    She had the cops evict me out of my own house at 8pm that evening at the point of a gun…I spent 4 years renovating it, my investments and freelance translating paid the mortgage, my folks helped with the down payment and bought us furniture.

    I left my house with absolutely nothing except the shorts t shirt and sandals I was wearing. The removal order said no contact with my children or her for 8 weeks.

    I had no money, no car, no house. There was $50 in the checking account. All I had was my parents and brother visiting from Florida and they were supposed to leave that afternoon. With out my parent’s help, I would have killed myself sometime in August 2009. Having my kids ripped from me like that killed me inside.

    The rest of my story will make you laugh and it will make you cry. Spoiler alert, my kids never want to see me again. I was put in jail for contempt for the stupidest reason ever. I was removed from college thanks to exwife interference. I filed 5 criminal assault complaints against her in 3 different cities and was told the police would do nothing to her. If she killed me, then there would be an investigation. One cop threatened to put me under arrest for filing a false police report. Men are not assaulted by their ex wife.

    I am now an elementary teacher in Southwest Kansas. My child support just dropped by $200. Now I can afford to live in an apartment, and not my car/tent since April 2015. I don’t pay alimony, and I don’t pay college expenses. The manhating woman judge finally realized after 7 years of proceedings, you can’t squeeze blood from a turnip. Ex-wife works for a major soft drink company as some accountant/computer technical manager. She makes 6X what I make. She has Chad Thunderc~~~ and his 2 kids living with her and my 2 kids, and oh yes she totally hit the wall a couple years ago. lol. Me? I have a savings account for the first time since 2009. I think Chad is paying for my kid’s college. What a great guy…

    I’ve been reading this website for a while and decided to join and add my voice to those who are going their own way. Between this website, Tom Lykus, Sandman and some of the websites you all posted, I finally have an answer as to why my wife went insane and blew up the marriage, poisoned my kids and destroyed me financially, mentally and physically. God rot the moron who came up with no fault divorces. That fcker needs his own lake of fire in hell for all eternity.

    Once I understood that this was not personal, it was not something I did or didn’t do, but some sort of ingrained genetic thing, I found peace.

    Oh, I teach 25 kids in my class, and all 25 are from divorced single mother homes. There are 300 some kids in the school, 270 kids are single parent kids, 40% of all households in this town are headed by single mothers. I am one of 5 male teachers in the building, 2 of them teach PE. I am one of 12 male teachers in a 20 school district. Yeah, welcome to my world. Add to that the majority non English speaking population.

    There’s more to the story, just like everyone else’s story here. Thank you for reading and sharing.

    May 7 2020

    #294763
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    Anonymous
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    Whew! Helluva story! Thank you for typing it all out–excellent reading.

    Welcome!

    #294773
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    Slayher
    Slayher
    Participant
    2074

    Welcome brother. I’m glad you decided to join us. You’re now among friends.

    #294783
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    Fermat
    Fermat
    Participant
    3478

    Welcome. Dang you’ve been to hell and back. you are among brothers who have been through what you endured. Women are a poor investment.

    To all you lurkers out there, THIS IS WHY WE TALK ABOUT WOMEN! To warn men of s~~~ like this that women pull on a daily basis all over the c~~~ry. Do not tell us to chill. Do not tell us to just pretend it didn’t happen. Do not tell us to keep scraping through s~~~ to find unicorns. Read this new member’s story and know that investing your time, energy, and thoughts on making women is nothing short of financial, emotional,and legal suicide. You don’t need a flashlight to see this.

    I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

    #294785
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    The Manipulated Man
    The Manipulated Man
    Participant
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    Welcome brother.

    I helped her through school, money, paid for tutors, wrote her papers,

    I did the same thing.

    She makes 6X what I make.

    Now those stupid nasty c~~~s are getting top jobs!!!

    40% of all households in this town are headed by single mothers.

    From looking at the numbers of those fatherless kids who are going to your school, it should be 90% single mother households in your town.

    Either a HUGE elderly population in your town..

    OR

    Maybe the traditional families are Home Schooling their kids?

    We spent a combined $490,000 over 7 years on the divorce,

    Divorce is big business.

    What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

    #294801
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    Sparticus66
    Sparticus66
    Participant
    508

    Hello and welcome.
    The more you do for a woman, the less appreciative she is. Meanwhile every time you bust your b~~~~ trying to do the impossible and make her ‘happy’ you lose a bit of yourself.
    You are now free. I used to worry about leaving because of the financial cost. But freedom is priceless. I reckon our children will be seeking us out once they discover for themselves the true nature of women. I know I believed my mother in everything she said about my father. Now I know he and I shared many characteristics. By the time he died I had loved him for years having ignored what I’d been told.
    So welcome. You are alive. How many men in our position have killed themselves over a woman? Far too many I fear

    #294809
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    Dirtydog73
    Dirtydog73
    Participant
    232

    Welcome Mate,

    Good to see you have managed to get things back on track.

    Fed, Fucked, Appreciated. The three simple things men want, but women will never grasp.

    #294832
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    Anonymous
    42

    The stats don’t lie, get married get f~~~ed.

    Women and the law are working together hand in hand on a destructive rampage that will leave this society in utter ruination.

    Only FOOLS bother with women under these laws and orders to self destruction.

    Women and the law have become one, a marriage made in hell.

    Women and the law? How do you f~~~ them both with one stone?

    MGTOW! The rock that knocks them both stone dead and releases you from their tyrannical bondage!

    I’d LOVE to see the judicial snakes start to STARVE due to LACK OF BUSINESS.

    This country will not improve until the court houses look like one of Detroit’s abandoned train stations.

    America needs to thoroughly die before things improve for men. Only in the ashes of this alleged liberty will men find true freedom.

    Imagine the freedom to shoot divorce lawyers because you feel like it? THAT’S FREEDOM!

    #294850
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    RoyDal
    RoyDal
    Participant

    Welcome!

    Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

    #294858
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    Anonymous
    3

    Welcome to the forums may72020.

    I reckon our children will be seeking us out once they discover for themselves the true nature of women. I know I believed my mother in everything she said about my father. Now I know he and I shared many characteristics. By the time he died I had loved him for years having ignored what I’d been told.

    So true! How many men stay in marriage hell due to their kids? Women know and use this.

    My dear wife said to me that she would “put the kids against me”, in case of divorce. At that time it scared the hell out of me.

    Now?

    I really dont care.

    It is worst for the kids to live in these neurotic families where the man does not have a word to say about anything. So, let us be done with it. Let all the responsibility for the situation lye with the one that really has that responsability.

    That is what the kids will realize eventually. And if they dont, its not our fault.

    #294873
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    Anonymous
    16

    Welcome bro.

    #294946
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    Mr. Spock
    Mr. Spock
    Participant
    10907

    Welcome. I look forward to reading more about your experiences.

    Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

    #294956
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    Mr. Man
    Mr. Man
    Participant
    2916

    Once I understood that this was not personal, it was not something I did or didn’t do, but some sort of ingrained genetic thing, I found peace.

    I think this is the most common and liberating theme I read in new members’ introductions, I know it was for me. I thought the problem was me, that I was simply not cut out for relationships. But no, really, women are not cut out for relationships. And that runs counter to everything we’ve ever known to be “true” about women. So when we as men discover that it’s them, not us, that’s the problem, well, the scales drop from our eyes and the world becomes a brighter, shinier place.

    Welcome!

    #294974
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    FrostByte
    FrostByte
    Participant
    19005

    Welcome and good luck.

    If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

    #305750
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    Anonymous
    3

    I filed 5 criminal assault complaints against her in 3 different cities and was told the police would do nothing to her. If she killed me, then there would be an investigation. One cop threatened to put me under arrest for filing a false police report.

    Do not talk to the police. Let the lawyers do it for you.

    #305752
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    Anonymous
    3

    I examined the box of condoms I was using…yup, pinholes.

    What world we live in? We need to keep our condoms in the safe! And put habanero chili sauce into it / flush in toilet after use, so that the woman does not take it out of trash and make herself pregnant. (happened to few dudes)

    But, after all this pinhole thing, you kept her for a long time, when another child was born in 2002 if I calculate correctly. This is god damn stupid. You might have had very strong emotions toward her.

    #309826
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    Daniel
    Daniel
    Spectator
    15

    It is important for younger guys and single men to think thoroughly before getting into a common law (or god-forbid “marriage”) relationships.

    5 minutes of sex is not worth all the trouble that feminist whores can cause. Here is how to protect your assets so bitch gets $0 after divorce /forums/topic/tips-for-men-how-to-protect-assets-in-case-of-divorce/

    #311498
    Varun
    Varun
    Participant
    2981

    A male teacher? That’s rare. Welcome sir.

    I’d like to say that it doesn’t matter how much you make…. you are doing something that is far more VALUABLE than your ex wife.

    I know people who could have easily gone into lucrative careers but they chose teaching… against the poor economy .. against their passion… because there is a real need for teachers just as there is a need for doctors soldiers etc. and that need is not measured by how much it pays you.

    Welcome to mgtow.com.

    A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

    #316357
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    Yorick
    Yorick
    Participant
    32

    Welcome, May 7. You are free. She is still a miserable rag, and it sounds like she always will be. Congratulations.

    #316656
    +1
    ,
    ,
    Participant
    1301

    yikes.

    Peace is Grand. You have paid in quadruple full.
    Welcome May.

    with joy/without hate

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