He was probably broken by this, but he's fearless and uncompromising.

[ApexScorpionParticipant 602]

Longest marriage that ended in divorce.

Not a long article. Give it a read. If he can do it when the truth shows itself, then so can you and I.

I admire him not because of the longevity, but because he knew what he had to do, regardless of fear, his age, if he would ever find “love” again, etc.

His strength should be an example for all of us.

It certainly is for me.

Godspeed.

[Anonymous 18]

They used to make real men back then.

Now it’s the harpies claiming ‘it was 60 years ago, why is your masculinity so fragile?’

The man stood by his marriage vows for 77 years of their married life. And is now standing for his dignity.

Bitches were always the same.

AWALT.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Anonymous wrote:

They used to make real men back then.

And the women were the same as always.

AWALT

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Too bad that HE WASTED HIS ENTIRE LIFE with just ANOTHER HOE !!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Love is an illusion conjured up by the media. Love for a child, brother, sister, mother and father, yes. Love for a stranger, no. Men see lust, women see security.

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

She is never your girl.. it is just your turn on the rooster roundabout. Kudos to Tony for reclaiming his dignity ‘ NFG

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[GregB0Participant]

Anonymous wrote:

And is now standing for his dignity.

—————————– article excerpt —————————
‘It made no difference that the letters were written more than 60 years ago and the relationship has been over for decades.
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A vow, oath, or pledge is a solemn promise to do something specific. He dedicated his life to her and has the right to end things.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Jack HarperParticipant 2863]

Women have always been the same. Poor guy.

[DiogenesParticipant 373]

The guy read the letters. No doubt she was professing feelings that he thought were exclusively reserved for him, that he had heard from her in the early days of falling in love. Her own words betrayed the fact that all those years of marriage were never about him personally at all. Red pill.

That’s how I found out in my case, also. The emails. It sucked at the moment but it explained a lot and was far better than not knowing.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

A man of principal.

[MonkParticipant 16996]

I suspect that what stung him the most was the fact that she had kept the letters for 60 years.

In her mind, she still wanted chad.

[GregB0Participant]

Monk wrote:

I suspect that what stung him the most was the fact that she had kept the letters for 60 years.

This was indeed the ultimate act of betrayal, the unrepentant desire for the other man that continued for every day after the affair ended. She always had her moments for Chad anytime she opened and read the letters. This was not a one night stand but a life long affair.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[Anonymous 6]

So she broke her wedding vows, lied to him repeatedly, and watched him be a committed father and husband for decades and kept the deception to herself for all of that time. He’s doing the right thing, a woman like that can’t be trusted.

[ApexScorpionParticipant 602]

I know it isn’t surprising for those who understand female nature, but it’s certainly a spark of rage for me when I see people commenting about him being in the wrong.

In the world’s eyes, women only cheat when a man pushes her to do so.

This is one of the most common fallacies of relationships.

A women decides to cheat. She is never forced or pushed to do so.

[OldBillParticipant]

Monk wrote:

I suspect that what stung him the most was the fact that she had kept the letters for 60 years.

Bingo. As Greg explained, this wasn’t some one time offense 60 years ago, but a life long affair.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[TrapperParticipant 2912]

I hope he outlives her and gets to see her die alone.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

ApexScorpion wrote:

I know it isn’t surprising for those who understand female nature, but it’s certainly a spark of rage for me when I see people commenting about him being in the wrong.

They probably saw “Bridges of Madison County” which glorifies this s~~~ as “romantic”. I don’t know if you ever saw it, but I shook my head several times in that one.

At the end, her husband is on his death bed and says “I know you had your own dreams, and I’m sorry I couldn’t make them com true for you. I loved you so very very much”.

She says nothing, and taps him on the chest as if to say “it’s OK dear. I got some extra dick on the sly”. She “spared” him and let him slip away.

After the Clint Eastwood character dies, she goes through his box and mourns his passing more than her own husband’s.

“OMG IT”S SO ROMANTIC!!”

… but it’s never “romantic love” when a husband cheats.

Her son (in the movie) begins the film totally outraged learning his mom was having an affair and wrote it all down. She didn’t have the sack to tell the kids while she was alive. Of course, they color it so by the end of the movie, he “understands” and forgives her.

Convenient.

That’s where all those comments come from pretending he’s being unreasonable for divorcing – as he should have done 60 years ago.

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Keeping the love letters in a box for +6 decades means she doesn’t see it as a mistake. It’s her little secret she needs to keep. She’s so clever.

Hat is off to the man doing the right thing.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

They probably saw “Bridges of Madison County” which glorifies this s~~~ as “romantic”. I don’t know if you ever saw it, but I shook my head several times in that one.

I prefer the way Jack Nicholson handled it in “About Schmidt”.
within 30 minutes of finding his recently departed wife’s love letters from her long running affair, her s~~~ was all out at the curb, dumped for the trash collector rather unceremoniously.

But you are right about the glorification of it, and that is why my ex somehow thought it would all be fine when she told me it was only an affair of the heart. Like that was ok. Of course I also knew that to be a complete lie, but even if it wasn’t, it still was betrayal and far from ok.

I respect the hell out of what this man did. At his age that couldn’t have been easy.
But he didn’t want to live a lie, or spend his final days with someone who did not love him, truly.

[ApexScorpionParticipant 602]

Pedal, run, row wrote:

I respect the hell out of what this man did. At his age that couldn’t have been easy.
But he didn’t want to live a lie, or spend his final days with someone who did not love him, truly.

I feel the same. His courage is remarkable and his dignity is made of steel. And to think there are men out here that actually stay after their wife cheats.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

All women are lying, cheating, disloyal, whores who are amoral and unethical. Truth is always relative to women. Ditto for morality and being ethical.
This is basically what King Solomon was talking about in the bible.
You cannot trust any woman. Not your wife, not your girlfriend, not your sister, not your mother, not your grandmother, not your daughter…none.
They will always seek to betray you if there is something to gain.

It’s not even really conscious on their part. It’s just how they are programmed and how they see the world around them and process information.

Their whorishness, and lying and skill at manipulation is hard coded into a woman’s DNA.

No one hates a snake for being a snake. No one should hate a woman for being a woman. Like a snake she is doing what nature and evolution programmed her to do with very little thought.

Recognize the danger that women are, and just avoid them like you would avoid a Cobra or Black Mamba.

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