He is single so he must be gay….

[Jim01Participant 6678]

Heard this for the first time in a while about a friend of my brothers. Cutting a long story short my brother’s gold-digging fiancé’s cousin tried it on with a bloke who earns very good money and got rejected and because he has been single for a while he must be gay…nothing to do with the fact she is a gold-digging bitch but no it is on HIM – women can never look at themselves can they?

I do wonder if I get those comments behind my back as I have been single for so long. Doesn’t bother me but when I was told this at the weekend I made the point of pointing it out that it is a classic female response to rejection

[RennieParticipant]

I know I had those kind of nasty rumors spread about me in late elementary and throughout high school. I actually knew people who were so stupid and believed it without any proof, that they treated me like a leper. They would use these bizarre indirect questions to determine this, for instance I refused to talk trash about someone who they hated, then I must of favored them and thus was “gay”.

I’m pretty certain the t~~~’s were behind all this nonsense.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Yeah I experienced that a few times. Even once in a WORK meeting. I said something like “nah, I have no interest in dating f~~~ed up Ameriskanks” and these three guys ( before the meeting started) made some “gay” hint or remark, and they laughed like guys do when they call each other “f~~”. So I had some fun with it, and said:

“Well I could certainly be gay long enough for YOU to blow me. Who’s first.”

….. “Oh look, you’re not laughing anymore. Why not? Was that not hilarious to you?”

They never tried it again, and were licking my ass from that point on. I guess they never realized *not dating Ameriskanks* could also mean preferring Eastern European women – or girls from anywhere else in the world. But their math wasn’t so good.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

GAY? Yeah, yuck.

Women: Come and play in my battlefield, today we poke for mines using bowling b~~~~.
Tomorrow me and my girlfriends are on the riffle range, and we need you for a target.
And on Wednesday we’re doing swamp maneuvers, we need traction mats, so bring a friend.

Men: GTOW….War’s over ladies (vomit), now shoot it out with each other.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

Rennie:

 

I had the same thing happen to me while I was teaching at a certain post-secondary institution.

 

Unfortunately, that rumour reached some of my students and you can guess what that did for my reputation.  In fact, one twerp actually asked me in class why I wasn’t married.  I took umbrage that that.  First of all, it was during a course session, so it was completely inappropriate.  Second, it was about a personal matter and he had no right to even make inquiries.  I could have torn a strip off him, but I did something better.  I looked at him and said, “If that’s a marriage proposal, I’ll have to disappoint you.  You’re not my type.”  The kid’s reaction was classic.  He turned so red that he could have hired himself out as a traffic light and I’m sure that if there had been a paper bag large enough within reach, he would have put it over his head.

 

But the fact was that I rarely dated and, if I did, I was most particular about who I wanted to go out with.  Also, I seldom spoke about my private life with my colleagues, not that it was anybody else’s business.  However, that was also taken as a sign that I had something to hide.

 

I figured it out that one of my departmental enemies started that rumour on purpose in the hope that I would be discredited and fired for it.  I had to disappoint him.

[VoidraitheParticipant 477]

I got straight up asked once am I gay. Insulted, I let her have it and told her what I thought, no sugar coating. Then she let me have it, a slap in the face. My face felt better 5 seconds later, the emotional wound I inflicted, well I bet that took years to get over.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I’ve been thinking about this question about how to respond if a woman slaps or hits you. I’ve considered all the different opinions and options I’ve read here and elsewhere. I have a hard time agreeing that I should just walk away. and, I am aware of the points made about hitting her back and the near certainty of getting arrested and having the cops and the courts take her word for it that I was the aggressor.

What I’m starting to think may be the best response would be to pepper spray any woman who hit me. The whole perception of pepper spray is that it is a defensive weapon, albeit usually employed by women. I wonder sometimes about that perception of it being a defensive weapon being able to influence the perception of the overall event. Since the perception of it is that it is never used offensively, and the perception of anyone who has been pepper sprayed must have been out of control and deserving of it at the time, it seems more and more like the appropriate response.

I know it’s assault if I hit her back, but when the police arrive, it will be a more difficult story for them to believe that a man would have attacked her out of the blue with pepper spray. And I’d love to see the story go around some violent woman’s social circle that she got so out of control that a man pepper sprayed her. It’s almost like spraying someone with shame…

I’d welcome the opinions on this …

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@brainpilot. I have also gone back and forth on that a millions times. RockSteddie said “some things are worth spending a few nights in jail for”.

I see his point and adopt it myself, a man only needs to communicate that to women in his tone, posture and body language. The ACTUAL hitting her doesn’t ever need to take place if she understands that you will have no reservation about it. If she thinks you won’t, she will poke, prod, irritate and create extremely provocative situations just to see how far she can take it before you snap.

But if you’re Sean Connery, and you make it known that she will never get away with it…..
you can live 30 years married just like he did without throwing a single fist.

So with a lot of experience with women pushing me to the point of no return, I have finally concluded ignoring her hurts worse. Oh My God it hurts so much worse. “Bruises Heal, but abandonment issues are forever” is what I love to tell them. One f~~~ing punch, poke, prod and she is f~~~ing history. She was expecting a fist, but she will never get one. Because I will destroy her from the inside out.

A woman once thew a remote control at my face with intent to give me stitches. Apparently, I said something that p~~~ed her off SO MUCH, she thought it was acceptable to throw an item at my face. She missed. So i took her purse, and threw it FAR into the street traffic. When she ran out screaming after it (and they always do) I bolted the door behind her and didn’t even mail her her shoes.

The screams, the tears , the wailing, the BEGGING, the crying, the exploding my phone with 100 texts was such music to my ears….. no amount of beating her black and blue no matter how much I wanted to could have given me such satisfaction.

Now, when I get stopped at the market on a Sunday and the girl in the parking lot asks “Help stop violence against women!!??”

ME: “SURE!!! I stop violence against women every time I DON’T beat a woman. You’re welcome!”

The expression on her face was like like Beethoven’s 9th.
And inside, I couldn’t stop laughing.

The expression “You should never never EVER hit a woman….” is an incomplete sentence.
You don’t hit a woman , because you can hurt her MUCH worse – by never hitting her at all and ignoring her completely.

This is what a woman will do to herself if you just DO NOTHING AND TOTALLY IGNORE her. Now imagine the kind of mental destruction it will do to her if you’re out with any other woman who you like better. It’s magic:

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

@brainpilot, the pepper spray is a great idea, just don’t get caught! The courts and media would have field day at your backfire! I had a stripper try to puncture my skull with a red stelletto heel, I kept her from achieving her objective by defensive blocking, and not striking her, you can injure or kill a woman easily without trying. It’s uncivilized to beat a woman, however a crazed loony tune with a f~~~in 10Lb. frying pan should be confronted with extreme aggression, or retreat finding a weapon or blocking device! Many a skulls have been cracked open by dingbat psychotic sociopaths, their equal to a rabid chimpanzee! My first option is walk, my second is run!

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

I dont disagree keymaster, as I have also enjoyed the wailing and the gnashing of teeth hat comes from just rejecting them. I just think it probably didn’t do much to dissuade them from doing the same s~~~ to the next guy. I also know from experience that the projection of the message that there WILL BE consequences for that s~~~ goes a very long way to stop if from happening before it ever starts. Many of them are smart about it and test with small little digs and prods first to sort of test their power (and your restraint), and reacting appropriately to these will stop any further escalation from just the communication of the message that consequences are coming. As emotionally unstable as they can seem to be, I’ve found that when the equation doesn’t indicate that emotional outbursts and instability will further their agenda, they can be remarkably calm and very well in control of their emotions.

The women I was referring to though, are not the ones I have a relationship with where that kind of communication is possible. I was referring more to women like that crazy bitch in the video on the subway train, or that teenager who squared off, spit and took a swing at the black kid in the classroom (I would post links if I knew how, but you’ve probably already seen them). Those women behaved like feral animals. If the video had ended with them being pepper sprayed, tazed or just shot with tranquilizer dart (like Marlin Perkins used to do on ‘Wild Kingdom’ when I was a kid), I would have thought those responses were perfectly appropriate. But that’s not how the videos ended.

In both videos, the men treated them exactly as would have been appropriate to treat male attackers (equally) and knocked them out. I guess I’ve still got enough old school thinking in me that I was surprised and a little shocked by it when it finally happened even though I could see it coming. In neither case did I end up having anything critical to say about the guys in those videos.

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Funny you took the words right out of my thought bubble.

I was going to add…… the random crazed bitch on the subway – or the drunk bitch throwing punches outside a nightclub – that’s a different story. I must follow my own rule at all times and maintain strict no-violence policy, but as Chris Rock once put it:

“I’m not saying it’s RIGHT… but I understand”.

9 out of 10 men (90%) will not hit a woman back even if she is repeatedly throwing punches at him.

There is still way too much chivalry in the world.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[TYEParticipant 291]

Listen all that means in a womans head is “Nothing can possibly be wrong with me so something has to be wrong with him” it’s a defense tactic. I take it as a sign that you’re winning the argument, and have them backed into a corner so they have to use their arsenal of weak personal insults.

[– Deleted on Request –Spectator 936]

With regards to the woman who smashed her boyfriend’s Xbox, I’m reminded of a line from the movie The Searchers, said by John Wayne’s character:  “That’s cause for deevorce in Texas!”

 

But why destroy it?  Wouldn’t hiding the power cord or removing a board from inside it have made the same point without damaging the machine beyond repair?  Or was she trying to tell him that she had better be #1 in his life, or else?

 

If that had happened to me, it would be splitsville….. forever.  A woman who hasn’t got the brains to come up with a more intelligent solution to a situation like what she was complaining about would be completely unworthy of me.

 

[John DoeParticipant 743]

It is the biggest compliment a man can get nowadays.  When a woman or man calls you gay they are inadvertently saying they have no control over you.  According to the PC culture gays are the new in crowd, so these “insults” are contradictory.  Technically they are saying you are “cool”.

Most “insulters” cannot throwout a good insult.

I generally walk around with a “don’t f~~~ with me” attitude.  I haven’t been called gay in awhile, let alone anything else.  I just hear guys and girls talk about how nervous they are around me.

I don’t talk unless spoken too.  I look people in the eye when I talk to them.  I don’t put up with any bulls~~~.  Just doing these things in a society of pussies makes people nervous.  In other words just act like a man who has self control.

 

 

[ManocalypseParticipant 321]

It’s such an outdated notion these days for people to assume that because a man is not dating women then he must be gay, like gays never go out on dates or pursue relationships. In many ways MGTOW is the new “gay” in that the mainstream find it hard to accept it and try to stigmatise it…

[Anonymous 11]

If she’s sexually attractive, and she’s into me she’ll find out exactly how hetero I am.  Otherwise, I’ll hit the hand.

I always tell any dips~~~s that ask me if I’m gay that I would be the biggest flamer you’ve ever seen so you would not even have to bother asking such a stupid question of me.

When I was younger I used to have a group of gay friends, such is my confidence in my heterosexuality.  They were a fun crew to party with too and accepted me as a straight guy.  Plus, I got to sample the goods of more than a few of their female friends on certain lucky occasions.  The creepiest part though was having the chicken hawks checking you out whenever you were out with them.

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

If I am showing no interest in a woman (or women) who’ve shown interest in me, I have backed them into a corner with only two possible explanations. The first is that I’m gay and only attracted to other men. The second is that I’m not attracted to that woman, or those women. Put a woman in a corner and give her a choice like that and it’s a certainty that she will pick the first option to explain it. But just because I’m NOT attracted to american women, who are screwed up, does not mean I AM attracted to men. So, when that was thrown at me, I just pointed out, calmly but rather bluntly for the social situation I was in at the time, that there were so many negative things about that particular woman that even pussy was not enough to compensate for them, and as far as I could tell, she had nothing else positive to offer that I wanted…

It was a little awkward for a second or two, but then they scattered like roaches when the lights come on and I never got challenged again. When you (calmly) take a wrecking ball to the value of the pussy, they want nothing more to do with that discussion… because, in fact, they really don’t have anything else to offer…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[Anonymous 42]

Hey Brain, Why not tell them you’re gay? They’ll treat you like GOD! I have no narcissist in my blood, I would do it, I’m use to lighting powder kegs at close range, I have have scars to prove it! They idealize homosexuality, To them it’s a Womgina, “one of the girls”, they can drop the “game” with gays when you become one of them, your elevated to hero status! You, at that point, personify all the goals of feminisum.

I just realized; they are doomed if they succeed! All the men will be GAY, or MGTOW, leaving them to endlessly fight, game, and manipulate each other! We on the other hand bask in glory, and have our bellies filled with the fruits of warm sweet justice!

[RennieParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Hey Brain, Why not tell them you’re gay? They’ll treat you like GOD! I have no narcissist in my blood, I would do it, I’m use to lighting powder kegs at close range, I have have scars to prove it! They idealize homosexuality, To them it’s a Womgina, “one of the girls”, they can drop the “game” with gays when you become one of them, your elevated to hero status! You, at that point, personify all the goals of feminisum. I just realized; they are doomed if they succeed! All the men will be GAY, or MGTOW, leaving them to endlessly fight, game, and manipulate each other! We on the other hand bask in glory, and have our bellies filled with the fruits of warm sweet justice!

That’s what I’ve suspected as well, if you tell them you’re “gay” they’ll probably leave you alone because they’re stupid and think that being gay is the greatest thing since sliced bread.

[davParticipant 422]

Had a pampered little blonde princess I knew ask one of my mates if I was gay once. She was a bit miffed when he said I wasn’t because I’d already knocked her offer for sex back twice in the past. Don’t think she had ever been knocked back in her life so she just assumed I was.

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