Have you ever had blue-pill relapses?

[The Moth Attracted to the FlameParticipant 2982]

Have you ever had blue-pill relapses? I felt like I had one or two late last month. I’m over it now, but I was just wondering now that it’s on my mind.

[RebaneParticipant 215]

Slightly yea. I was talking to my blue pill friend about red pill stuff and he said maybe my attitude is the problem i don’t find the Unicorns. Like i’m attracting the wrong people. Gave it some thought…and decided that can’t be the case. A lot of nice guys who do all the right things somehow end up shoveling s~~~. You just have to let go of the sweet illusions blu pills give us.

[OldscoundrellParticipant 412]

Any more, I would have to put effort towards acheiving a relapse.

I say that humbled and aware that with the right circumstances, it could be more difficult.

To me, the idea of the nawalt is still a likable idea. But it goes into the context of something along the lines of dreaming of being stupid 1% rich because an old relative that I was unaware of died and left me a fortune.

Neither of which, are anything close to reality.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I miss being ‘loved’ ….. my daughter loves me …. but you know … the love of a good woman.

Since mgtow I’ve come to learn the love is just chemicals and good women are already taken or dead.

So I replace with working out, my jobs and living.

The good news is I can chemically love my family and friends ☺

[Lord VatsParticipant 379]

See! That’s the beauty of Red Pill, as bitter as it may be, you NEVER relapse. How could anyone go back after knowing the truth? Blue Pill may be tempting and addictive but only for the people that don’t know the truth. Once you know it, your whole life seems like the butt of a very cruel joke. It always serves as a reminder of the betrayal and is a lesson that lasts a lifetime.

However, when you are in the transition stage, you’ll doubt the red pill very much because it is against the fiber of your whole being. It would seem like the Red Pill/MGTOW community is just a bunch of women haters. You mind will try all sorts of rationalizations, except accepting the truth. But once you accept it, there’s no going back and if you feel like you’re relapsing, just hang on because you’re not a true Red Piller yet.

[RoyDalParticipant]

The contents of my pants have relapsed many times. Shoot, a pretty waitress will get Mr Happy revved up. So far, my brain’s thinking part has outsmarted Mr H.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[EdogParticipant 254]

RoyDal wrote:

The contents of my pants have relapsed many times. Shoot, a pretty waitress will get Mr Happy revved up. So far, my brain’s thinking part has outsmarted Mr H.

This. My dick still loves the idea, but my brain simply can’t ignore what it knows all too well. As soon as women speak, I’m immediately reminded of this. Everything that is necessary to keep a female happy these days just isn’t worth the effort in the end and there is little reward if any at the end of the tunnel, and usually a kick in the b~~~~ and thin wallet.

[BDParticipant 1146]

The Moth Attracted to the Flame wrote:

Have you ever had blue-pill relapses?

All I have to do is talk to my friends who are married or in LTRs. The way they get shamed and f~~~ed over is unbelievable, and looking from the outside is a constant reminder that I made the right decision.

Women only want resources from a man, so you have a choice,

You can play the social prostitution game with a relationship and risk the unknown horrors of what she can put you through,

Or you can get a real prostitute that knows how to f~~~ and the terms are agreed upon – cash for sex.

Or you can go without.

 

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Anonymous 5]

No. It is impossible now. I know too much. I was mgtow years before I even knew the term existed. I am not saying I dont have the occasional thought but it is fleeting. I quickly remind myself how unhappy I really was in those previous relationships and it is not worth it. I am so much happier being on my own. I will never give up that freedom again.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

I am curious how long I can hold up, but I am avoiding going to some websites I used to, and popping on Second Life to do cyberflirting stuff.  I am looking to see how long I go.  I am now at a stage I feel trying to master being fully MGTOW is more important than any contact I would have with women in any way, and mastering things and finding out how, is worth more to the world at large than mindless self-indulgence.  With myself, I am noticing stuff like, “Wow, she is attractive” and then pondering what other utility a woman I see may have for me, besides that.

Now, I need to find out what to do with the extra time I have.  I will see what kind of relapse I may have.  But, I would hold any form of relapse means a lack of fullness in a certain area in my life.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[TheOneWhoBeholdsWisdomParticipant 58]

Nope. After receiving such knowledge of how women act and what their true intentions are my brain brings up all the reasons I’m MGTOW. I would say the same for my penis, my penis knows of what death trap it would be sliding into if it entered a vagina.

[BDParticipant 1146]

There is a part of your brain that doesn’t work any more, the part that seeks female validation,

Messenger explains it,

 

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Yes, I admit complimented a female on her looks and I order you all to revoke my MGTOW card for 24 hours for that. Make it 48. I ban myself from the forums for 48 hours. I took a double take at a chick in a line up who wore her hair in my favorite style (which chicks RARELY do anymore). I actually asked a female a long time ago what that kind of hairstyle is called. They call it “half up”. It’s my favorite. That, and a very plain french manicure and it’s like Kryptonite.

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She was wearing a nice dress too and I said…… wait for it…. “that dress looks good on you”. After I said it, she said the worst words in the word no man should ever hear “thanks you’re so sweet!!”. I fully realized I just lowered myself in her eyes. I immediately went outside and on my way to the car I bitchslapped myself for doing it – and then there was the vomit.

I know. I know.

I know better than that. Goddammit! What the f~~~ was I thinking! I swear it just came out. I was thinking it, but I didn’t know I said it until I actually heard it myself. Otherwise I have been TOTALLY clean and sober with no relapses for years.

You may kick the s~~~ out of me now. Because you know I would do the same for you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

@keymaster

 

Given your incredulous tone, as if at an “obvious mistake,” I’m aware that this next comment risks a ban from the forum. And, if this warrants a ban from the forum, then so be it:

What’s wrong with that?

From the sounds of it, you got pleasure from her dress, and she got pleasure from the comment. Sounds like a fair exchange. That comment made her day, and maybe she’ll wear that dress more often now.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

Keymaster, I don’t see a compliment being a problem.  I see it becomes a problem if it leads to a series of dates and she eventually moves in with you.  At that point, it is a problem.

Just think you went ninja there and were stealth about being MGTOW.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[Knights Templar RisingParticipant 5127]

Any time you doubt the nature of all women, run a s~~~ test on them.

Out of pure curiosity of human behavior, I set up a puppet profile on “Ourtime”.  I was really using it to figure out if women were still as clueless in the 40-55 range.  I put a few smartass remarks in the description, and filled out all the info with everything except income. I didn’t put a photo up, and was not expecting interest – nor got any.  I used it for about two weeks, like studying rats in a maze.

When I got bored, I decided to test out the old Hypergamy ruse.  I created another puppet, with the ruse baited by screen name itself: “Execucolonic”… a combination of Executive and Colonic (look up “high colonic” if you want a laugh!).  I put up nothing other than my age, and they made me add a comment and it was “Derp” (yep, only that).  Within one hour I had a bunch of views and 3 messages.

Neither of these puppets had pictures, or listed income.  Even though though the first profile gave a lot of info, not a peep in two weeks.  Put up an completely empty profile that infers “executive” in it’s screen name, and INSTANTLY the hamsters start running like you just opened up a bag of kibble.

“1 hour with 3 messages” vs “560 hours with zero messages”… any sane man can do the math on this one.

Sovereignty above all else.

[HimeoParticipant 471]

During a no fap session, I had a relapse. I caught myself just before I was about to drop a big portion of my paycheck on a gift for a woman. Thank evolution my big head sent up a warning flag and I avoided both the gift and no fap from then on.

[BufordParticipant 935]

That’s what ice-baths were invented for KM.

"This happens every time one of these floozies starts poontangin' around with those show folk fags. - Sheriff Buford T. Justice"

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

Yes, I suppose in a way.  Probably more times than I know.

Not long ago I was in the parking lot of a greenhouse.  There was a young woman there, with two heavy sapling trees in buckets, and she very obviously couldn’t lift them into the truck she was driving.  Rather than ask anyone directly for help, she was batting her eyelashes, glancing around and her body language was 100% “maiden in distress”.

She reminded me very much of a step-daughter I had, and something clicked, and I just walked over and lifted them in to her vehicle.

She then got that look on her face where she knew she had manipulated me with the “maiden” bulls~~~; the fake smile and the glass eyes.

I smacka myself for that.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Rockmaninoff wrote:

Given your incredulous tone, as if at an “obvious mistake,” I’m aware that this next comment risks a ban from the forum. And, if this warrants a ban from the forum, then so be it: What’s wrong with that?

Smiling over here. There is nothing “wrong” with that and I knew it when I wrote it out. It’s a gross exaggeration, and I was having fun. But I was conscious of it. So I admit was totally dishonest that I would berate myself to such a degree for this. At the same time, I’m aware what I did and I don’t it anymore for those reasons. So when I blurted it out, I only SLIGHTLY kicked myself for it.

Telling her “that dress looks good on you” is not as effective as leaving wondering “doesn’t he/anyone like my dress?”

In this case I was standing next to a girl who put efforts in her hairstyle ( which I really like and so rarely see on anyone but Ariana Grande ) and she didn’t have that grotesque black , blue or green nail polish on that we see everywhere. She spend at least an hour putting herself together so nicely. Too many woman out there running around out there putting NO effort in – thinking they are “so fabulous and attractive” is one of the reasons I won’t do it anymore.

So you could call my struggling with it: a struggle in duality.
I used to compliment attractive women all the time on their appearance – way too freely – and to my own detriment.

I actually have a personal pact with myself not to do it anymore, and women will only be complimented on their actions – not their appearance. I slipped according to my own standards. Nothing wrong with it. On the contrary, she probably will remember it – even today. Some random guy out there told her she looked nice and did not ask for her phone number or “try to pick her up”.

That makes it OK and it makes me feel good.

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If you really think about it, she shouldn’t have been complimented on her looks because if you go to Prague, EVERY second woman makes that kind of effort and looks like that. They do it instinctively and naturally. But here it’s considered “special” and outstanding? I can’t say I agree with that. I don’t like it when a girl compliments me on the neat and orderly condition of my home. It actually BOTHERS me when they comment on it. She should EXPECT a home to be neat and orderly. And WE – as men should EXPECT women to be making efforts to look attractive just like women EXPECT men to pay for them, support them and go to the gym to work on their chests and arms.

As long as women expect us to pay for them, they won’t be getting compliments on their looks. We should EXPECT her to look fabulous.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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