Have you been where I am? Feeling old in my 40's

[RobertPaulsonParticipant 128]

I’m 47, and I feel old every day. I can’t shake the thought that my best days are behind and I’m just a hop, skip, from a grave. I have HATED my 40’s the entire time. I hate that I’m getting older, and I hate that 50 is right around the corner. And I hate that everyone tells me to just get used to it, accept it and move on. Fvck that!

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

I’m 11 years older and yaeh it sucks. F~~~ anyone who says “age gracefully”. I’ve got worsening arthritis. Was joking with a buddy at the bar recently…said when I was younger I used to wake up every day with a “stiff bone”. But now I wake with “stiff bones”.

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

Do you exercise regularly?

Have you had your Testosterone blood levels checked?

We ALL AGE, but you will FEEL a lot OLDER if you don’t keep your body moving DAILY.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

RobertPaulson wrote:

I’m 47, and I feel old every day. I can’t shake the thought that my best days are behind and I’m just a hop, skip, from a grave. I have HATED my 40’s the entire time. I hate that I’m getting older, and I hate that 50 is right around the corner. And I hate that everyone tells me to just get used to it, accept it and move on. Fvck that!

You feel this way she wins. Insist on feeling the best you can every day, think of it as shoving it in their face. It dose not take much. Walking, picking up a hobby, cut back on the fuel(alcohol), get your money in order, keep you place clean and neat as examples.

Living the life like you are the king of your own hill, is the ultimate revenge.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[bladeParticipant]

Still in my teens play playstation, rc cars but don’t wank anymore. Lol

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[FrankOneParticipant 1418]

I am the same age as you.

Best days behind me? I will never be in the same physical shape I was in my 20’s. I will not hike to the floor of the Grand Canyon and back up the same day now, as I did then.

But I do gain in knowledge, and wealth. I can retire at the time of my choosing. If I am fortunate, I still have 30 good years left.

Getting older is no fun. I go to bed earlier. And do not have the same strength and physical endurance. I agree with Awakened. My advice: try to exercise. Even if only walking. And try to eat right. I do not smoke OR drink AT ALL which helps.

[SwimcatParticipant 3589]

I’m in my mid sixties. I still feel young and strong. I can still drive a golf ball 250 years, hike 15 miles in a day, swim a mile without stopping, and f*** to orgasm any women who choses to pull her pants down for me. You have to stay fit by working out hard, keeping a temperate lifestyle, watching the weight, and keeping a positive attitude.

[ResidentEvil7Participant 9550]

Just be glad you made it that far in life, because there’s millions every year that die younger. Remember, women age like sour milk while men age like fine wine. Instead of focusing on your age, focus more on what you want to do with what you have and what you can.

https://themanszone.webs.com/

[SpleeferParticipant 959]

Swimcat wrote:

I’m in my mid sixties. I still feel young and strong. I can still drive a golf ball 250 years, hike 15 miles in a day, swim a mile without stopping, and f*** to orgasm any women who choses to pull her pants down for me. You have to stay fit by working out hard, keeping a temperate lifestyle, watching the weight, and keeping a positive attitude.

F~~~ing A swimcat! You are the man! I hope to be like you. Diet, exercise, and Fun. I’m so lucky I made changes in my late 30s. If I would have waited I would’ve f~~~ed. Now through hard work and discipline I’m a lean, mean, ice them out machine. Lol

Galatians 5:1 (KJV) Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

How much do you REALLY invest in yourself? Be honest. Do you know about how they take care of arthritis with your own blood? I am surprised the docs on here don’t talk about this more often.

One of the treatments for hair loss is also able to help arthritis. It is where they inject your own Plasma into your sore joints, and rebuilds them. It has to be done every other year or so. If you are in India, it like a $50 bucks per treatment. It also grows hair etc.

Look man, if you don’t pop Pills like mad, then you are doing it wrong. Ask yourself, how much GREENS do you eat everyday? If your diet does not consist of like stuff that you just picked of the the farm, there is something wrong.

I hear you about the Dick thing. Am I going to cut down on smoking? Soon. Drinking? Drink wine man. I hate to break it to you, but unless you own a farm? You are not going to be able to do it cheaply. Or a restaurant. Or maybe a whole foods. I would work there JUST for the free food. 🙂

Most of the crap that make you old bro is you. And I am telling you, a lot of that has to do with the fact that you see no point to caring.

I know the feeling. Like it or not, we LOVE attention just like women do. And IT IS GOOD FOR US. Being wanted by people helps us feel strong. Hang out with young men and do fun stuff. Teach learn and do things you wanted to do man.

I know it’s not as easy. But dude, nothing in a man’s life is just given.

I was watching a porn on porn hub watching some old dude f~~~ing some 19 year old girl that was so damn skinny, you could just fold her up and take her in a suitcase. Well… The part that made me go whoa, was his dick BARELY getting rock hard. That s~~~ sucks man. You don’t want to be that guy.

In fact, if I was really motivated, I would quit smoking today. F~~~ that 30 year old with nice t~~~, and get some exercise that way. But its pointless to me. Women being the way they are just make the whole IDEA of keeping my body in top condition kind of ruins it for me.

Maybe after I get my Business of the ground, get off from probation, maybe I will start again like I was doing well in California. Point is man, do you care? That’s the part.

I have to admit, unless you are bringing in a solid $6000 a month? You are nowhere in life. And I mean AFTER YOUR BILLS. AND AFTER all the stuff you have to PAY FOR. Like all the stuff you have to do to keep your BODY in TIP TOP SHAPE>

And if nothing else, get yourself a doll. F~~~ the S~~~ out of it. Think of it like a fun work out. Like it or not, women are for men, and they are indeed made to keep you young. That’s just how nature works bro. Problem is, MEN don’t want a f~~~ pig. That a real problem with how things are.

In fact, nothing makes you feel better than raising a family. But they took that away from us. So you have to find NEW ways to make that Lizard part of your brain think you are this guy.

Like it or not, our destructive nature keep us young. So GET a Guitiar and ROCK THE FUk out.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

I’m 11 years older and yaeh it sucks. F~~~ anyone who says “age gracefully”. I’ve got worsening arthritis. Was joking with a buddy at the bar recently…said when I was younger I used to wake up every day with a “stiff bone”. But now I wake with “stiff bones”.

Look up the injections of your own blood plasma. Ask the docs on here about it. It works.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[EGParticipant 1856]

Everyone in my family who’s old but still looks great never had kids; fact.

[narwhalParticipant]

46. Although my body just doesn’t work like it used to, I think the bigger problem is that I find getting motivated much more difficult than it used to be. My motivation used to be about being more physically attractive and somewhat competing with other men around my age. Not only do I care so much less about being attractive, it’s rare for me to see others that are in better shape than I am. When I do, they are either dedicated runners or body builders, body types I don’t really want to achieve.

I don’t mind getting older, and I don’t think my body is incapable of being in a condition I’m happy with, and just getting there that’s the struggle.

Ok. Then do it.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Life is such a c~~~. Funny how much motivation women give you. And how much motivation not to they also give you.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[HermitParticipant]

I was doing great until I hit 50. That was the official day I got old. Health problems showed up and I knew then the best years were for sure behind me.

Then I got over it and decided to keep being happy and having as much fun as I can, while I can. Fukc you old age. I’m not done yet. I’ll die before you take me down.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[ShameusParticipant 22]

I’m 46. What I have noticed is I get tired faster and like a little more sleep. Knowing how to relax helps.

What I find hard in my 40s is discovering more hard truths. It’s as if life has some nasty secrets waiting for you until you reach a certain age, and then suddenly hits you with them, making all your previous assumptions look like naïve illusions.

One example of this is how friendship changes. I had very close friends in my 20s and 30s. In my 40s, they’ve practically all gone. Why? All married, all with children. All with wives who don’t want them seeing me. I still have the good memories, but now they seem a bit mocking to me (the good times were only good times because my friends weren’t yet anchored down by their women). This has left me a bit depressed, and I have tried hard not to become too cynical or bitter about it (not easy).

This has left me in a new stage of my life which I did not expect. I did not want to live with a woman because I know they’ll bleed me dry. But I thought my married friends would socialise a bit more. They don’t. On the rare occasions people meet, it’s basically “sharing pretend happy families stories” bulls~~~. And, as a single male, I am definitely now seen as more of an oddball, even a pariah. That’s p~~~ed me off a bit.

So being in my 40s has had life show me a darker side to it, where solid friendships now seem like mockeries, certainly not so solid. I suppose it’s just what happens when you stay alone and your friends don’t. But I genuinely thought my single status wouldn’t matter – but now it definitely does.

So there’s a price to pay. I am definitely more of a recluse now. Partly through preference, but also partly through forced situations. That is what I find hard in my 40s. As for the women… ironically the single ones are now more interested in me at the same time my married friend’s wives have made sure I am out of their lives for good. I’m old enough to know these new women are only interested because I’ve got some money now that is going on myself, not them, and they want a piece of it. On bad days, I just think “Is this world just a place where everyone uses each other? Where no one gives a s~~~? Where genuine caring is condemned as weakness?” On good days, I think “Thank God I escaped other people’s claws. Their “good” nature has turned out ugly, and I’m better off without them.”

Getting older is not just about extra aches and pains. It’s about greater awareness, and the veil of the Disneyland s~~~ is ripped away utterly. What is left is hard to face, but it is real. It makes me feel a bit more cynical and a bit more angry with the world, but it also makes me appreciate how great Clint Eastwood and Charles Bronson’s movie roles were. They had that awareness nailed, and their tough approach to the world shows they know what the world is like.

Thanks for reading this if you made it this far. Good luck with your own journey.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

What I used to do all night now takes me all night to do. I was still OK when I turned 55 with little grey, though nothing like when I was a 21 year old sailor. At 21, car tailpipes would shut when they rolled by and squirrels would guard their tree holes. I almost didn’t need a bat during baseball games, horny as hell.

Soon after I hit 55 came major epileptic seizures and I think that got me. I just turned 56 and have gone grey. I don’t FEEL old right now but let me stay up late, forget my medicine or have a couple of beers and I will be waking up in a hospital bed with wires on my head and chest. It sort of takes the fun out of partying, as does the thought of dying. The ironic thing about it is that it all started with a malformation I developed in my brain before I was born and never knew about.

Enjoy where you are at because it isn’t going to get any better. You are only middle aged and can still do things, so go out and do them. You are not old yet but time is short.

[EGParticipant 1856]

Shameus wrote:

I’m 46. What I have noticed is I get tired faster and like a little more sleep. Knowing how to relax helps.
What I find hard in my 40s is discovering more hard truths. It’s as if life has some nasty secrets waiting for you until you reach a certain age, and then suddenly hits you with them, making all your previous assumptions look like naïve illusions.
One example of this is how friendship changes. I had very close friends in my 20s and 30s. In my 40s, they’ve practically all gone. Why? All married, all with children. All with wives who don’t want them seeing me. I still have the good memories, but now they seem a bit mocking to me (the good times were only good times because my friends weren’t yet anchored down by their women). This has left me a bit depressed, and I have tried hard not to become too cynical or bitter about it (not easy).
This has left me in a new stage of my life which I did not expect. I did not want to live with a woman because I know they’ll bleed me dry. But I thought my married friends would socialise a bit more. They don’t. On the rare occasions people meet, it’s basically “sharing pretend happy families stories” bulls~~~. And, as a single male, I am definitely now seen as more of an oddball, even a pariah. That’s p~~~ed me off a bit.
So being in my 40s has had life show me a darker side to it, where solid friendships now seem like mockeries, certainly not so solid. I suppose it’s just what happens when you stay alone and your friends don’t. But I genuinely thought my single status wouldn’t matter – but now it definitely does.
So there’s a price to pay. I am definitely more of a recluse now. Partly through preference, but also partly through forced situations. That is what I find hard in my 40s. As for the women… ironically the single ones are now more interested in me at the same time my married friend’s wives have made sure I am out of their lives for good. I’m old enough to know these new women are only interested because I’ve got some money now that is going on myself, not them, and they want a piece of it. On bad days, I just think “Is this world just a place where everyone uses each other? Where no one gives a s~~~? Where genuine caring is condemned as weakness?” On good days, I think “Thank God I escaped other people’s claws. Their “good” nature has turned out ugly, and I’m better off without them.”
Getting older is not just about extra aches and pains. It’s about greater awareness, and the veil of the Disneyland s~~~ is ripped away utterly. What is left is hard to face, but it is real. It makes me feel a bit more cynical and a bit more angry with the world, but it also makes me appreciate how great Clint Eastwood and Charles Bronson’s movie roles were. They had that awareness nailed, and their tough approach to the world shows they know what the world is like.
Thanks for reading this if you made it this far. Good luck with your own journey.

No truer words were ever spoken.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

60 here so I have been where you are now. I never had health issues in my life then at 54 five consecutive surgeries in a row. One was very invasive. I’m not trying to scare you but here is my take on aging. Dealing with health will require you to just deal with it and make different choices. I don’t jump over walls or climb up trees. It’s not being able to do those things that is hard. What’s hard is accepting you can’t do those things anymore when you could do them effortlessly. Small stuff will bug you to. Like where did this brown spot on the back of my hand come from, it wasn’t there yesterday. Be ready to have new strategies. Strategies like moving into a single story home, hiring a landscaper, paying some kid to hang your christmas lights etc. Accept stepping aside and letting someone help you. That’s the hard part! Don’t give up. Eat right, work out, do things safely. Last year I had issues going up ladders, I was feeling shaky and unsafe so I put a 10 foot step ladder in my living room and go up and down 10 times every day. It worked I got the right muscles working and I’m not shaky. Still I don’t take chances because I heal slower than I used to and every injury stays with you. Get yourself in the right frame of mind and you will be okay. Having a plan to deal with aging is better than worrying about it.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[AutoliteParticipant]

FrostByte wrote:

Last year I had issues going up ladders, I was feeling shaky and unsafe so I put a 10 foot step ladder in my living room and go up and down 10 times every day. It worked I got the right muscles working and I’m not shaky.

I’m also at that age now where I’m very leery with ladders. I get a little dizzy from time to time too. Aging phucking sucks!!!

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