Have you been raped?

[MithrilParticipant 17]

Feminists continue to lower the bar on what constitutes rape.  It used to be a woman had to say no or had to be physically incapacitated or unconscious.  Now, in California there’s the “Yes means Yes” law that requires a man to get an enthusiastic yes as he rounds the bases.  For many feminists this doesn’t go far enough, they want to change the law to rape being anytime a woman engages in sex that she really doesn’t want but doesn’t resist.  So far most definitions of rape contain a double standard where only a man can be a rapist.  However, if the standard of rape is anytime you have sex with someone you didn’t want to have sex with, have you been raped?

By the last definition I have.  I had a GF back in 2009 that I wasn’t particularly attracted to in a physical way, but we had fun together and she could make me laugh until it hurt.  Things were good for about 4 months when she suddenly broke up with me.  As soon as she said it she forgot about it and things went on as before, for her anyway.  When it had become clear that we were becoming exclusive I had a talk with her that if she were to break up with me she was to mean it.  That’s all I asked.  If you break up with me mean it.

Over the course of the following 4 months she broke up with me 7 times.  Each time she would forget about breaking up with me an act as if nothing had happened.  Early in January 2010 after her last break up with me I told her to get lost.  Instead of taking me seriously we were now “having problems” and I had to follow “the couples code” which meant I wasn’t allowed to talk about it with anyone else.  She had a lot of “codes”, not only was I bound by the “couples code” but there was also a “guys code” and a “girls code” most of which meant I was supposed to be a good boy and behave and she could do anything she wanted.

Fortunately for me we had a number of mutual friends, some of whom she’d burned and would tell me what she was saying behind my back.  She had told them if I ever broke up with her she’d do everything in her power to destroy me.  When I heard this from more than one source I knew it was true and I absolutely believed she was capable of it.  She was a widow and her husband had been a cop in the town she lived in which meant she knew most of the force.  Since we know women will like to get what they want I was certain that if I upset her badly enough she’d file a complaint against me.  For my own safety and preservation I decided the best course of action was to go passive.  I would no longer call her, but if she called me I’d talk to her.  I would no longer arrange to go out on dates, but if she wanted to go out we would.  I would no longer arrange to spend time with her at her place, but if she insisted I come down I would.  She would often show up at my place on the weekends without any input from me.

I can tell you that it’s soul crushing as a man to have to play a passive role in your life, especially when you’ve practiced living on purpose and making clear choices, but I decided it was a better way to go than ending up in jail on some bogus rape or battery charge.  From January 2010 on I never touched her by choice.  I never initiated intimacy, I didn’t tell her what was going on in my life when we talked I would volunteer nothing but I would answer questions.  I also stopped asking what was going on in her life.  If she brought it up I’d talk with her about it, but I would never show any interest.  She noticed this, on day in February or March she told me she was going to the Dr.s to have tests for cancer.  I acknowledged it but never asked her what the results were after the visit.  It was this she noticed, a month or two after that conversation she brought up that I’d never asked her what the results were.

During this time she would sleep over at my place or expect me to sleep at hers.  As I said earlier I never initiated any physical contact with her, by this time I found her disgusting.  Any time we had sex I had to imagine I was with someone else because being with her was so objectionable.  Every night we spent together she’d initiate sex and would use my body for her own satisfaction.  I was just waiting for it to be over with so I could go to sleep.  After 9 months of this she finally began to get the hint.  I gave her no reason to lose her temper, she got everything she asked for but nothing else.  About September she began to get weary of being in a one sided relationship, she commented one day that she new at the beginning of our relationship that I loved her, but she couldn’t understand what caused me to “shut down so completely.”

According to feminist doctrine she’d raped me about 100 times since I had no desire to have sex with her and the only reason I was doing it was I felt coerced into it by being certain she’d use the police against me as a weapon if she got mad enough.

I’m not going to go so far as to say I was raped, it was a horrible experience and I’ll never look at sex or women the same was as I did before.  I now see women as very dangerous and sex as just one of the weapons in their arsenal, but if feeling coerced into sex or regretting have had sex with someone is now the definition of rape, then maybe I was.

Comments?

Mithril

[John DoeParticipant 743]

I am waiting for them to say having an erection constitutes psychological rape.

[Anonymous 42]

Going by the feminist’s interpretation of rape, yes I was “raped”, does an 11 year old boy know anything about sex? NO! But that didn’t stop a girl from swindling my virginity and groping me into the sexual revolution. According to feminists, All male on female sex is RAPE. The other way around, when girls molest a boy, it’s just having sex. Today’s women are f~~~ed! I don’t trust them, I never will! Two faced double standardize liars with psychopathic criminal intent.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

“One in four women blah blah blah….. rape.”

“A lot more men than that get financially buttsexed , raped and destroyed in divorce, have their children stolen, and brought to the point of suicide. Ask them if they would have preferred getting f~~~ed in the ass instead. Every single one of them would smile, grab their ankles and happily allow you to call him bitch for a few minutes. Don’t ever f~~~ing talk to me about ‘one in four’ women – or rape – ever again. You lying piece of s~~~.”.

I told a woman that once. She literally started crying…. like her bottom lip was quivering and all. I felt nothing.

If I could, I would ask Robin Williams if he would have preferred to pay out $35MLLION to his ex or take it in the face one time.

I would bet $35 Million we all know the answer to that.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

Keymaster wrote:

I told a woman that once. She literally started crying…. like her bottom lip was quivering and all. I felt nothing.

Hey KeyMaster, if you ever need a heart transplant, I have a perfect match! I’ll get a stipulation on my organ donor agreement, save the heart for “KeyMaster” it should fit perfectly!

I like the quivering lip, and the fact you felt nothing, I’m just like that too….

When it comes to feminist sympathy; I FEEL NOTHING! If I could, I would tare out my heart and beat them to death, using it like cave man uses a stone….

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

I’ll share a hilarious story, that I don’t find all that disturbing, but yeah technically I was raped.

I was 18 and fooling around with this girl at my best friends house, things got hot n heavy under the sheets. Hands were in places on both accounts.

She asked me if I wanted to have sex, I said no, I wanted to keep my virginity til marriage. (Wow… I was soooo naive to trust this ho, but I digress.)

So anyway we go back to sexing it up and she started giving me a handjob from the front as I slid back n forth between her thighs, well what do you think she does? You got it.

She lines that sucker up and slides it right into her cooch. Now, I was really upset with her initially (We’re talking first 0.5 secs) then of course the feeling of warm pussy just washes over you, and as a virgin, nothing really compares. So I got over it, and went along with it.

Well we’re at my friends house and everyone is asleep so we’re trying to be quiet. I try to pull out, this trick bucks back into me and I finish all up inside this silly girl.

Next morning is a very sombering ride with this trick to the store for some plan B.

1.) Not pressing charges because she claims “I thought you changed your mind.”

2.) A woman rapes you as a man  in society you just get laughed out of the room. Double standards.

3.) I would have pressed charges against this trick if she had gotten pregnant , fortunately that didn’t happen because regardless I’m sure I’d still be paying child support to this day.

4.) Pussy feels good.

That’s my story. =)

I’m sure weirder things have happened. Rape can be traumatic, fortunately mine wasn’t, as she didn’t get pregnant.

Don’t trust women with s~~~…. ever. My uncle just lost his dog last week because they didn’t tie him up when he was out of town. His wife went up to the road from the house to “chat with neighbors” and she didn’t tie up the dog, even though hes told her this a thousand times. Beautiful 90lbs dog, followed them up to the road, got hit and died right in front of their 10 year old son. (Who also should have tied up the damn dog.)

Can’t trust women with any real task. Now my uncle is out 3yrs and food/vaccinations/care and bonding with this dog. Stupid bitch.

 

[Anonymous 1]

I will not share my story. But I will say that, depending on your definition of rape, yes. 8 years old.

Cheers

[MithrilParticipant 17]

Anonymous wrote:

I will not share my story. But I will say that, depending on your definition of rape, yes. 8 years old. Cheers

Anything under the age of consent is rape, boy or girl.  No debate there.

Mithril

[Anonymous 1]

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Yeah, well, I mentioned the “depending on the definition” because, if you take the feminist (or should I say, the FEMALE) definition of rape, only men can rape because it is only rape where there is penetration. I was NOT penetrated, so by this definition, no, I was not raped.

However, if you take in consideration rape as the act of having sex, or sexual relations with someone unfit or unable to give consent, regardless of if there is penetration or not (like, let’s say, raping by enveloping), then yes, I was, when I was 8 by my babysitter as a form to keep me in control. I had no idea what was happening and she decided to keep me tired by masturbating me.  I couldn’t even cum yet at that age.

She made me promise not to tell anyone, so I didn’t. I only realized years later, during a episode of “Cold Case” (anyone remember that show?) where one of the main characters reveals that he was “abused as a child”. When he described what happened to him I noticed it was pretty much similar to what happened to me. Except on the the tv show the perpetrator was a man. My assailant was an (old) woman.

Well, that’s all I will say about this.

Cheers

[J.D SilvernailParticipant 383]

You were not technically raped but by feminist definition you were definitely raped.

I'm married to the game,but she broke her vows.

[Sky-OParticipant 18934]

Yes:

Financially, emotionally, psychologically & spiritually.

[Michael CrowParticipant 16]

Well… I did mention this on my introduction post, but since it relates to the topic, here it goes again:

The first incident I can recall happened when I was 4 years old, but due to the way she talked to me around in a sort of covert way (and more importantly, the fact that I actually understood her euphemisms) makes me think that she had been abusing me since before that, probably as young as an infant. In any case, I was repeatedly raped by my cousin, lets call her Margaret, up until the age of 8 years old. I won’t go into details here, but suffice it to say it was rape by any definition: we were both underage but she was older, she was very sadistic in her actions and she did penetrate me (women have fingers and are smart enough to use objects).

If you want to get depressed and every now and then laugh due to my dark sense of humor, and all of this for little over a dollar, you can read about this and other childhood wonders I lived through here: http://www.amazon.com/The-Vipers-Nest-Struggle-Isolation-ebook/dp/B00SASKN0G

As a teenager, I wasn’t raped, but I was groped by a group of females who were behind me in line. After what I had gone through, I felt nothing in comparison, it was just… strange. But I was fit back then, and I wore tight clothes, so maybe I was just asking for it.

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

MRA Hannah Wallan with AVFM took a look at the CDC rape stats and found a category called Forced to Penetrate.Happens at about the same rate.You can look it up.
I was molested (fondled)by a teen girl before i was even in kindergarten. An ex forced me against my will one day after a very hard days work.I was exausted..I told her no because she had been being a bitch for a few days.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Anonymous 25]

we’ve all been raped most likely.

You have to remember that make-up constitutes fraudulent misrepresentation for the purposes of rape. Combine that with a few drinks and then you’re not properly engaging in informed consent as a man because she is deceiving you.

If a guy wakes up in the morning and see’s she’s not as pretty as he thought then he’s been raped.

Looking forward to the day when that law makes it onto the statute book, then they can have a taste of their own medicine.

[Colonel GaveAFuckParticipant 77]

Isn’t it funny how when men were in power, women were valued as practically holy beings, but as women gain power, men are being marginalized?

[Helen be DamnedParticipant 480]

Women have this funny way of not acknowledging their own rape. oh, did I say funny? I meant misandryistic. Coined right here and now if it didn’t already exist.

I actually have a literally several thousand year old example pre-dating the written word. Aphrodite’s girdle, along with her general beauty, caused her to become truly irresistible to men. Couple that with her ability to change her form to be whomever she wants to be, and you have the most successful rapist ever conceived.  You don’t think one or two guys would probably spurred her advances otherwise or even accepted her as she was, but no, she has to beguile and bewitch them. which says so much about the psychology of women that its not funny. Truly it isn’t.

Subverting someone’s desire and forcing your own upon them. That sounds like rape to me.

"You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

[USMC0331Participant 40]

Well according to the feminist definition of sexual assault I was sexually assaulted at least 56 times the last time I went to spring break. I wonder what would have happened if I went to the police station and wanted to file a report. I kind of doubt anyone would take me seriously as a man saying a woman showing me her t~~~ or grabbing my ass in a club was a sexual assault. Somehow we are expected to take this s~~~ seriously when women do it, and we all need to understand their “feelings” I  could give a flying f~~~ about their feelings because I have no control over how someone else “feels” For a feminist if they “feel” that they were raped, then they were. It doesn’t matter what the facts are or that they “feel” differently 4 months later. As long as we keep treating women like little children they will continue to see what they can get away with and how far they can push things.

[Helen be DamnedParticipant 480]

USMC0331 wrote:

For a feminist if they “feel” that they were raped, then they were. It doesn’t matter what the facts are or that they “feel” differently 4 months later. As long as we keep treating women like little children they will continue to see what they can get away with and how far they can push things.

The worst part is the law has been/is/will be working against us on that front. I had a friend accused of rape/molestation, not really all that sure which, and when the girl wanted to recant her statement, the law said they would prosecute her if she did. It seems to me that if we were really after justice, we would be more concerned about letting an innocent man go free than scaring a worthless woman out of saving him from her completely unnecessary wrath.

"You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

[AmbulocetusParticipant 14]

By feminist standards I’ve been raped.  While I was sloppy drunk one time, a woman who I was completely unattracted to took advantage of my condition and had sex with me.  Unprotected sex.  We all know how bad that could have turned out for me.  But seriously, this bitch was naaaasty.

If feminist college standards are the proper way to look at things, there is no doubt I got raped.

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