Have men lowered their standards?

[lonestar77Participant 406]

I was at the deli line this weekend waiting to be called. There was a guy waiting also who was really fit and I have to say handsome. I was thinking to myself how easy it must be for this guy to land a hot quick f~~~. A minute later, this fat slob of a woman approaches him and puts her fat jiggly arms around his waist and starts kissing his chest. (because she was short too to she could only reach his chest).  I almost puked a little in my mouth. This must of been his gf and I couldn’t believe this guy would even consider being with such fat disgusting woman considering this guy was above average looking.  I told this story to some friends and their response was the same. They said “maybe he’s happy with her”. Maybe they’re right but Jesus men, we need to higher our standards! We can’t let these out of shape fat slobs think that it’s ok to be a whale because there are plenty of good looking men who will tap it anyway!

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

Honestly, the #1 quality you need to look for in this day and age is that the woman is not bats~~~ crazy, will not call the police on you, and will not spermjack you, etc. *That* is your “higher standard”.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I have a few bodybuilding friends. They ALL have slobby women …. at home … doing the cooking.

When they ‘go down the gym’ ….. clubbing etc …. they get young pussy to pump and dump.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

My take here is, unless you know someone, and they trust you, and you know about them, there is no way to know what is in the minds of a guy, nor there is any way you can really help them.  I am too focused on myself, and getting better, to worry about the standards another guy has.  It is his choice.  You also find that a number of the 9-10s as far as women go in the looks department, are uberbitches.

My take on MGTOW standards is that, I judge things my my own standards, and don’t care who I impress.  One of the goals would be to get free of the PUA standards that are used to manipulate men to feel inferior and spend money on snake oil.

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Fat whales grow up, without anyone ever telling them to get their fat asses in the gym. Their loved ones just call her princess let her waste away because they rather not hurt her feelings, feeding her Twinkies, pizza and Starbucks.

Most blue pill men are thirsty, desperate and spineless. They think any sex is better than no sex, it’s men like those who inflate women’s egos. What’s even more f~~~ed up, like all women, she thinks she can be hypergamous despite being a land whale.

 

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

[BDParticipant 1146]

lonestar77 wrote:

how easy it must be for this guy to land a hot quick f~~~. A minute later, this fat slob of a woman approaches him and puts her fat jiggly arms around his waist

I have a friend that married a hog because she came from money, it does work both ways sometimes…..

Also, did you see a wedding ring? Women let it go when they have the man financially tied up, whether common-law or married…..

 

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3725]

treelville..miami wrote:

Fat whales grow up, without anyone ever telling them to get their fat asses in the gym. Their loved ones just call her princess let her waste away because they rather not hurt her feelings, feeding her Twinkies, pizza and Starbucks. Most blue pill men are thirsty, desperate and spineless. They think any sex is better than no sex, it’s men like those who inflate women’s egos. What’s even more f~~~ed up, like all women, she thinks she can be hypergamous despite being a land whale.

Damn dude, I think you managed to sum up American women almost perfectly in one paragraph.

 

Bravo.

 

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[BDParticipant 1146]

I don’t even talk to fat women, you either get a bad attitude back or they think you want to f~~~ them, they they will annoy you until you have to be rude to get rid of them….  150Lbs is my limit, and that’s if she is tall.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[GrumpyParticipant]

Absolutely we have, no doubt about it. The standards were forcibly lowered by women, and we men just went along with it for the most part. My question is. How much lower do the standards have to go, before they can never be raised to at least the level of decent woman/human being again?

Ultimately I can only set the lowest standard bar at a minimum level that I find as acceptable, and the highest, at a level that is both reasonable and realistic to achieve. In the context of women, if they can’t or won’t achieve a place within those levels, they are not worth anything to me.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Anonymous 3]

These women’s attitudes are probably much better than your average ameriskank. Men are simple, give them food, have some soft, kind words for them, and put out. That’s it.

Now look at your modern “feminist.” She screeches and yells, screams rape at the drop of a hat, constantly looks to take advantage of men, won’t have sex, won’t cook, won’t clean, can’t say one nice word.

I would rather spend my life with a fat virgin than a “sexy” slut that wants to throw me in jail for rape and won’t put out.

If we’re going to rank them, I’m going to rank it that way.

Of course I am MGTOW and I won’t opt for anything, but I’m not going to s~~~ all over an overweight woman that clearly shows affection to a man, that’s stupid. At least this overweight woman appreciates what she has, and probably hates women since they’ve probably been trashing her for her weight her entire life.

[Anonymous 12]

Personally I think if the only standard we have is looks then we are in big trouble. I don’t see big women but if a woman seems better, nicer, more pleasant to be around then within reason her looks aren’t going to be a big issue for me.

A lot of the time men get themselves into a lot of strife due to chasing the pin up girl and she is the one with the pimp and junkie ex boyfriends etc the one who has sucked a hundred miles of c~~~ and will leave you in the middle of the night and turn up again 3 years later with 3 kids and asks for your help.

So you know she might be fat, so f~~~ing what.

 

 

[peterfaParticipant 833]

I’ve seen men with women that are just terrible jokes. My own sister, feminist psycho, PTSD, narcissistic, selfish, inexplicable victim complex, 350lb+ fat, terrible personality, mean, cruel, stupid, not funny, and proud of how she hurts everybody, marries a man who’s overweight, but not that ugly, very intelligent, nice, works great jobs, pulls good money.

Somethings just aren’t worth figuring out.

[BDParticipant 1146]

Anonymous wrote:

So you know she might be fat, so f~~~ing what.

Hey Morlock, you do have a valid point,

One of the only things I discriminate against, and I am aware of it, is fat women, my reasoning…..

A person who has respect for themselves will take care of their body, it is essentially their shrine…

If they do not have respect for themselves, then they will not have respect for anyone else.

I view this as a serious mental condition, and the health consequences are staggering.

Then you can go into their lazy attitude about looking for an easy way to do anything, including to lose the weight, instead of just working hard to achieve something…

I am not saying everyone needs to be a health freak, but being grossly overweight is a definite sign of no self respect.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[experiencedParticipant]

For Morlock,”So you know she might be fat, so f~~~ing what.” Here’s f~~~ing what: It’s not the fat, it’s what ‘the fat resulted from’ tells us. Fat is a history book of bad decisions. Bad decisions result from lack of self control.”

“You become the friends you keep.”  If you keep with a fat woman, her bad decision making will rub off on you, which is even more cause for concern than the consequences of her bad decision making.

Here’s the grave of Joe Blow. He never took perceived s~~~ from anyone. Of course, he died a pauper, but he never took s~~~ from anyone…he couldn’t control himself.   In the right(Wrong) group of people, he’s a hero. To most folks, a fool.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 12]

BD wrote:

Morlock wrote:

So you know she might be fat, so f~~~ing what.

Hey Morlock, you do have a valid point, One of the only things I discriminate against, and I am aware of it, is fat women, my reasoning….. A person who has respect for themselves will take care of their body, it is essentially their shrine… If they do not have respect for themselves, then they will not have respect for anyone else. I view this as a serious mental condition, and the health consequences are staggering. Then you can go into their lazy attitude about looking for an easy way to do anything, including to lose the weight, instead of just working hard to achieve something… I am not saying everyone needs to be a health freak, but being grossly overweight is a definite sign of no self respect.

Grossly overweight sure, there are limits, but I don’t think being overweight in itself is an accurate psychoanalysis of anyone. What about all those slim people out there who are narcissistic, addicted to drugs, smoking, gambling, lying whatever the case may be. Thin people are far from perfect or healthy.

experienced wrote:

For Morlock,”So you know she might be fat, so f~~~ing what.” Here’s f~~~ing what: It’s not the fat, it’s what ‘the fat resulted from’ tells us. Fat is a history book of bad decisions. Bad decisions result from lack of self control.” “You become the friends you keep.” If you keep with a fat woman, her bad decision making will rub off on you, which is even more cause for concern than the consequences of her bad decision making. Here’s the grave of Joe Blow. He never took perceived s~~~ from anyone. Of course, he died a pauper, but he never took s~~~ from anyone…he couldn’t control himself. In the right(Wrong) group of people, he’s a hero. To most folks, a fool.

But slim people make bad decisions as well. I work with a thin man at work he has diabetes, high blood pressure and yet he still smokes, drinks and eats poorly, bad decisions right there and yet he is slim so he isn’t even healthy. Bad decisions are made by all not just the overweight.

And as I pointed out in my post this obsession a lot of men have with chasing the hot chicks is what leads them into strife in the first place.

 

 

 

 

 

 

[BDParticipant 1146]

Hey Morlock, nothing wrong with debating something bud,

Obese people have been found several times to have higher rates of depression. For example, David A. Kats, MD and colleagues at the University of Wisconsin-Madison assessed quality of life in 2,931 patients with chronic health conditions including obesity. They found that clinical depression was highest in very obese participants (BMI over 35).

http://psychcentral.com/lib/obesity-and-mental-health/

Anonymous wrote:

but I don’t think being overweight in itself is an accurate psychoanalysis of anyone.

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

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