Have anyone else in here ever bitch slapped their girl?

[nonconformistParticipant 182]

FrostByte wrote:

nonconformist wrote:

Whould you trade in a slap for a slap if that was the case?

Not intentionally. I have reflexes that might do it without my permission. Even with a man I would try and shake it off and get the police involved.

“I will send the hounds of hell on him. No wait I have an even eviler idea. Call my lawyers.”

So your reflexes do it without your permission but it was justified do you regret it “hypothetically”

[nonconformistParticipant 182]

Sirrealism wrote:

One time and one time only. My wife of 10 years went crazy and was hitting me many times. I grabbed her and held her for a bit but as soon as I stopped she would start again. I was trying to leave but she kept on and would not let me leave. This went on for more time then I want to admit. I finally got so mad I made a fist and hit her on the top of the head like swinging a hammer. This stunned her and put her on the ground which gave me enough time to leave. I NEVER WENT BACK. Every GF I have had since I have told them if you want to be done all you have to do is raise a hand to me. It happened again with a GF who was drunk. She hit me just once. I locked her out side and threw her s~~~ out the window. She tried and tried to get back with me but I would not budge. Then she went nuts and tried to break into my house. I had her put in jail for that. I will never hit a woman again but I can see a reason to do it.

This is what i mean when you have every reason to and all your instincts sends that tinckling sensation to your hand and you follow through and only slap her that one time to mark for her in a primitive laungage she can understand that this is the limit does that make you a morally bad person or a bad person at all?

[AwakenedParticipant 35202]

nonconformist wrote:

Awakened wrote:

nonconformist wrote:

Awakened wrote:

In todays world that’s a one way ticket to jail. They’re just NOT worth it !!!

I know but is it a morally bad choice?

To me, going to jail and court OUTWIEGHS even contemplating the morality of the action. Why even entertain the morality of a choice that can EASILY get you incarcerated ?

Because i think that everything can be justifiable to some point depending on the angle your observing it from

I agree that you can justify/rationalize just about anything inside your head, but this is not a defense that will keep you out of jail. Personally, I would rather be free then “right” inside my head.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[surferdudeParticipant 159]

does chocking a woman while having sex count ?

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

surferdude wrote:

does chocking a woman while having sex count ?

With your c~~~ or your hands?

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[nonconformistParticipant 182]

Awakened wrote:

nonconformist wrote:

Awakened wrote:

nonconformist wrote:

Awakened wrote:

In todays world that’s a one way ticket to jail. They’re just NOT worth it !!!

I know but is it a morally bad choice?

To me, going to jail and court OUTWIEGHS even contemplating the morality of the action. Why even entertain the morality of a choice that can EASILY get you incarcerated ?

Because i think that everything can be justifiable to some point depending on the angle your observing it from

I agree that you can justify/rationalize just about anything inside your head, but this is not a defense that will keep you out of jail. Personally, I would rather be free then “right” inside my head.

I hear you and i don’t condone voilence at all but i do know from own experience that things like this happens out of sheer instinct or frustation.

[nonconformistParticipant 182]

surferdude wrote:

does chocking a woman while having sex count ?

Not sure i think it has to be against her will and all women has a subconsius need to be dominated just look at the succes of fifthy shades of womens hypocracy….

[SolidParticipant 7520]

I’m completely pro gender equality, if she hits you, you can defend yourself.
Extracting it from the context, any one, men, women, heterosexual, homosexual, transexual, no matter the skin color, gender, sexual preferences or anything.

If the person does something that may be a threat others or your safety and need the use of force to be stopped, I have nothing against the use of force or violence with the intention of self preservation and defense. IMHO the world is full of abusive and entitled people just because people don’t do something against this kind of people.

Some people just do what they do, because they know that nothing will happen to them, they know that if they cry, the police officer will believe in them, and no matter how wrong they are, for the society, you always will be the wrong one, at the moment that you show those people that this invisible safe barrier don’t exist anymore, suddenly they courage go away ! Why did you think that drug dealers wife don’t yell at them ? Because they know that they won’t breakup, he will just kill her and throw her body in the woods. Women don’t fear “good guys”, so that’s why they do those s~~~.

Getting into physical contact or making an aggression without it being for your physical safety, well, it can cause you some troubles. Some judges would see you as the “women beater”, or what ever happened. If you are defending yourself, from whatever attacks you, some judges will find you innocent even if you kill your aggressor ! If you obviously proof that it was the only way out and his aggression justifies this kind of atitude.

For example, if someone points a gun to you, even making a joke and you broke his arm and neck, well, if it’s a joke or not, how can you say ? All you know are the facts, someone is pointing a gun at you, is your life in danger, if it’s loaded, even if it’s a real gun, maybe you can’t tell, you just in a moment of extreme tension and you done what you believe that would be necessary to eliminate the treat.

[thisistheguy123Participant 2063]

I’ve been close, but always felt the door was a better option at the time.

I could imagine if someone came at me with a bottle I wouldn’t care the gender, they would hit the ground.

[nonconformistParticipant 182]

Solid wrote:

I’m completely pro gender equality, if she hits you, you can defend yourself.
Extracting it from the context, any one, men, women, heterosexual, homosexual, transexual, no matter the skin color, gender, sexual preferences or anything.

If the person does something that may be a threat others or your safety and need the use of force to be stopped, I have nothing against the use of force or violence with the intention of self preservation and defense. IMHO the world is full of abusive and entitled people just because people don’t do something against this kind of people.

Some people just do what they do, because they know that nothing will happen to them, they know that if they cry, the police officer will believe in them, and no matter how wrong they are, for the society, you always will be the wrong one, at the moment that you show those people that this invisible safe barrier don’t exist anymore, suddenly they courage go away ! Why did you think that drug dealers wife don’t yell at them ? Because they know that they won’t breakup, he will just kill her and throw her body in the woods. Women don’t fear “good guys”, so that’s why they do those s~~~.

Getting into physical contact or making an aggression without it being for your physical safety, well, it can cause you some troubles. Some judges would see you as the “women beater”, or what ever happened. If you are defending yourself, from whatever attacks you, some judges will find you innocent even if you kill your aggressor ! If you obviously proof that it was the only way out and his aggression justifies this kind of atitude.

For example, if someone points a gun to you, even making a joke and you broke his arm and neck, well, if it’s a joke or not, how can you say ? All you know are the facts, someone is pointing a gun at you, is your life in danger, if it’s loaded, even if it’s a real gun, maybe you can’t tell, you just in a moment of extreme tension and you done what you believe that would be necessary to eliminate the treat.

If the situation does not constitute a direct treat on your life or wellbeing but as in my case is a very heated argument and the only response i felt she would understand is it then justified? i only hit once openhanded and with limited force…

[Anonymous 54]

When Ive gotten to the point I wanted to, I simultaneously realize I’m in the wrong place in life.

I split instead. I dont live that way.

[nonconformistParticipant 182]

thisistheguy123 wrote:

I’ve been close, but always felt the door was a better option at the time.

I could imagine if someone came at me with a bottle I wouldn’t care the gender, they would hit the ground.

Even if it is your own home??

[nonconformistParticipant 182]

Anonymous wrote:

When Ive gotten to the point I wanted to, I simultaneously realize I’m in the wrong place in life.

I split instead. I dont live that way.

I wonder how many men that are capable being rational and calm when pushed to the very edge… I do however in hindsight realize that i should have left her long before it reached that point.

[Anonymous 42]

Keymaster wrote:

Just hostile tone of voice is enough to excuse myself.

I’ll take a double with a side order of me-too on that! Looks too, I can’t stand dirty looks and innuendos! Sure sign of a s~~~ tester!

nonconformist wrote:

bicthslap a girl if she has it coming??

The best justice for a woman that “has it coming” is to be going and never look back, continue on life’s journey.

The most I ever did to a violent attacking woman was gentle cooperative blocks one after another until she gained enough momentum to lost her balance and stumble, creating enough space for me to retreat and make my exit. She was a psychotic p~~~ed off stripper trying to gouge my eyes out with a red steletto. There was no injury to her or me. I chose it to be that way, I could have easily destroyed her.

FrostByte wrote:

I strongly urge any man not to ever hit a woman.

Yes, no need to beat them down when you have more skill and power, run or deflect without injuring them, not so much as a mark. They have no upper strength whatsoever, seriously fighting them would be a slaughter, just retreat and get away but don’t stand there and take it like a fool! It is said to turn the other cheek, I say don’t let the first slap connect, always duck or cover! Then retreat! Never go back! Can’t tolerate any drama! Bad medicine!

nonconformist wrote:

I know but is it a morally bad choice?

Yes it is morally bad, her morals, don’t allow a woman to manipulate your emotions whatsoever! It’s how the disease of hatred spreads, just move yourself to indifference, and ship her off to eternity somewhere else with her own moral kind.

nonconformist wrote:

Whould you trade in a slap for a slap if that was the case?

Yes, but still I would defensibly retreat without becoming violent or causing injury.

Awakened wrote:

To me, going to jail and court OUTWIEGHS even contemplating the morality of the action. Why even entertain the morality of a choice that can EASILY get you incarcerated ?

Awakened has firm logic and wisdom, like two rails for a train that knows it has a destination, nothing will knock this man off his chosen path. Youngster’s pay attention to Awakened, logic heads everything else off and nips it in the bud, makes life effortless…

[Anonymous 54]

nonconformist wrote:

Old Sage wrote:

When Ive gotten to the point I wanted to, I simultaneously realize I’m in the wrong place in life.

I split instead. I dont live that way.

I wonder how many men that are capable being rational and calm when pushed to the very edge… I do however in hindsight realize that i should have left her long before it reached that point.

To be honest, Im allways suprised at my own composure when I look back on things! Hhah. Im very fiery on the inside, but when the moment comes I am very self disiplined. I have no idea where it comes from! Hahah

[Old RottweilerParticipant 1520]

I prefer a riding crop. Doesn’t sting your hand.

The “rule of thumb” in olden days said you can not hit a woman with a branch bigger than your thumb.

Using either in western society will end you up in jail. Even if you are right, it’s not worth it.

[Governor Megachris%Participant 3584]

Old story I know I told a little over a year ago, but the closest I got to “hitting a woman” was back in 2012 when my ex left me for a bulldyke who came over with my ex and threatened to beat me if I threw out my ex’s stuff and got rid of her dog she left behind (I had no attachment to the dog myself, and she had only JUST let it into my apartment without even asking). She got right up in my face and told me to “take a swing.” This chick had just served time in jail (my ex says it was a “guilt by association”) and was threatening to beat me.

I went to the police about it, and they said the worst they could do was get her for a “terroristic threat,” but that wouldn’t stop her from much else.

[nonconformistParticipant 182]

Anonymous wrote:

Keymaster wrote:

Just hostile tone of voice is enough to excuse myself.

I’ll take a double with a side order of me-too on that! Looks too, I can’t stand dirty looks and innuendos! Sure sign of a s~~~ tester!

nonconformist wrote:

bicthslap a girl if she has it coming??

The best justice for a woman that “has it coming” is to be going and never look back, continue on life’s journey.

The most I ever did to a violent attacking woman was gentle cooperative blocks one after another until she gained enough momentum to lost her balance and stumble, creating enough space for me to retreat and make my exit. She was a psychotic p~~~ed off stripper trying to gouge my eyes out with a red steletto. There was no injury to her or me. I chose it to be that way, I could have easily destroyed her.

FrostByte wrote:

I strongly urge any man not to ever hit a woman.

Yes, no need to beat them down when you have more skill and power, run or deflect without injuring them, not so much as a mark. They have no upper strength whatsoever, seriously fighting them would be a slaughter, just retreat and get away but don’t stand there and take it like a fool! It is said to turn the other cheek, I say don’t let the first slap connect, always duck or cover! Then retreat! Never go back! Can’t tolerate any drama! Bad medicine!

nonconformist wrote:

I know but is it a morally bad choice?

Yes it is morally bad, her morals, don’t allow a woman to manipulate your emotions whatsoever! It’s how the disease of hatred spreads, just move yourself to indifference, and ship her off to eternity somewhere else with her own moral kind.

nonconformist wrote:

Whould you trade in a slap for a slap if that was the case?

Yes, but still I would defensibly retreat without becoming violent or causing injury.

Awakened wrote:

To me, going to jail and court OUTWIEGHS even contemplating the morality of the action. Why even entertain the morality of a choice that can EASILY get you incarcerated ?

Awakened has firm logic and wisdom, like two rails for a train that knows it has a destination, nothing will knock this man off his chosen path. Youngster’s pay attention to Awakened, logic heads everything else off and nips it in the bud, makes life effortless…

I find a bitchslap and voilence to be two different things…. to me voilence is when you lay your vengence upon thee and a bitchslap to be drawing the line but as said before its a matter of perspective and i do not condone voilence at all and i do not encourage it either…. Let it be know this thread is only started for the sake of argument and not as an encouragement to be a wifebeater..

[nonconformistParticipant 182]

Old Rottweiler wrote:

I prefer a riding crop. Doesn’t sting your hand.

The “rule of thumb” in olden days said you can not hit a woman with a branch bigger than your thumb.

Using either in western society will end you up in jail. Even if you are right, it’s not worth it.

You would have to explain that one for me i don’t know what a riding crop is??

[Anonymous 54]

How about bitch slapping a mangina. That I could do. (Not really..ok really.)

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