Have 51 year old GF, Im 25

[bladeParticipant]

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[AwakenedParticipant 35206]

Teddy wrote:

Im not a blue pill.

Then why are you asking below ?

Teddy wrote:

I think she only wants me to marry her because she only has a green card. but she is a good woman. she saves, pay bills on time, etc.
I know I should not marry a woman, but do you guys have any advice to this situation.

I’m NOT trying to poke fun at you, but warn you at just how damn INSIDIOUS the Blue Pill Truly is, and how it still can and does F~~~ with us regardless of how Red we “think” we are.

Teddy wrote:

but I give her a little piece of my heart(maybe 2%).

That 2% is the part that IS THE PROBLEM because that can grow a little bit daily as she plants a lil bait here and their, and your blue pill programming reacts to the bait increasing your feelings/emotions for her.

You KNOW the Blue Pill is F~~~ing with YOU when you are LIVING with a Woman 2x your age (HUGE RED FLAG), AND you at some level are contemplating marriage (HUGE RED FLAG).

BE CAREFUL !!!

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[MuglintarParticipant 1333]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

At your age if you need to get laid, and its understandable the biological urge is still strong, you should be ONLY banging 20 year olds. Why stick your dick in some old hag?

Use an old violin, if you want to learn how to fiddle.

On old ships, one learns how to sail.

Never heard one of these?

While I was only 15 yrs younger, I think I might still know a thing or two about a relationship to an older woman.

Pros:
1. Sex! They are thankful, they will happily take it up anywhere you desire and will initiate right out of the blue, whenever they feel insecure. They are fully aware of their diminishing SMV and compensate with enthusiasm.

2. Traditional values. They will be happily doing the chores, while you, being the man of the house, bring home the benjamins. It gives a nice boost to your self-esteem, especially when you come from a single-mom home yourself.

3. Relationship skills, they know how hard it is to catch a good man and will be more likely to give in when the two of you have an argument.

Cons:
1. She knows the game and is a senior pro, while you’re a rookie. She knows how to make you happy and how to make you sad. She will use this knowledge to train you, respectively change your behaviour, if she doesn’t like it.
2. She will tolerate “cildish” ways, making you her toy-boy. Ultimately hindering you growing into the best man you can be.
3. She comes with all the packages one picks up during half a life. Instead of discovering a world, she’ll lead the way as she made that experiences, while you were a toddler. You will loose the joy of experiencing new thrilling things.
4. Most probably she will come with massive debt. A financial burden, you aren’t ready to shoulder yet.

Both lists could be continued, but that should cover the most important things.

My advice: enjoy the ride, while it lasts, but for heavens sake don’t marry her! Ever! And if she ever threatens to break up, keep in mind her reproductive age has passed, while you have a good 40 years to go.
You are the prize, she is the Hunter. A relationship to an older woman is a valuable lesson, as you’ll get a glimpse into what women are spoiled with each and every day.

"Him, who delights in solitude, is either a wild beast or a GOD!" - Aristotle (Aristot. Pol. 1.1253a) 1 Hom. Il. 9.63; the passage goes on: ἐστὶν ἐκεῖνος ι ὃς πολέμου ἔραται.

[G.O.A.TParticipant 1459]

Why are you living with a woman?

That alone is dangerous. I don’t give a s~~~ about you f~~~ing her, that’s your business.

But, marriage? C’mon dude…

Money is God.

[Anonymous 0]

I recommend the asphalt fix.
Move.
Put 500 miles of asphalt between you and her.
See what happens

[JVBParticipant]

Sounds to me like you already know the answer. Follow your gut brother.

Peace is > piece.

[SkelatorParticipant 1261]

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10917]

Believe me, the f~~~ing you are getting now will be nothing compared to the f~~~ing you will get once she becomes a citizen and talks you into bringing other members of her clan to the States and sponsoring them. Then when that’s done, enough time will have elapsed that you will be a full CPA and your net worth will skyrocket and so will her cash and prizes when she divorces you…..and she will.
You should familiarize yourself with the common law marriage laws in the state that you live in. Since you are living with her, she is already a liability to your future even without being married. Move out ASAP.
You owe her NOTHING and don’t let her manipulate you into thinking that because she’s letting you use her body that you owe her something. This has nothing to do with her age either, I’d be telling you this if she was 21 as well.
Don’t get married and guard your sperm.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[HermitParticipant]

Teddy wrote:

I’ve been living with this woman,

But now, she wants me to marry her.. especially since she knows I’m close to being a CPA.

I think she only wants me to marry her because she only has a green card. but she is a good woman.

but do you guys have any advice to this situation.

In the three years since you joined this site, have you read any of the threads at all?

You asked for advice………….. F~~~ NO, DON’T F~~~ING MARRY HER OR ANYONE ELSE!

“……good woman….”….???????….. They all have the ability to be good, just like they all have the ability to f~~~ your pathetic ass over.

Why are you even living with her? End that situation as immediately as possible. You should have never moved in with her.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[BubParticipant 1411]

Give them books and what do they do with them?

“ I weep for the future”

If you’re seriously asking the question you have not been paying attention…..

Just rolling down the road

[Anonymous 38]

I’m a big advocate for doing what you want. If you enjoy life with this woman, more power to you. But I draw the line at getting married. That is just f~~~ing stupid. Why do you need it? It is halving your rights, doubling your responsibilities and playing Russian Roulette with only one bullet missing.

[harpo-my-“SON”Participant 2410]

NO

I was bound to be misunderstood, and I laugh at those who misunderstand me. Kind mockery at the well intentioned, but unfettered cruelty towards those would be prison guards of my creative possibilities. This so as to learn as much from misunderstanding as from understanding. Taking pleasure in worthy opponents and making language fluid and flowing like a river yet pointed and precise as a dagger. Contradicts the socialistic purpose of language and makes for a wonderful linguistic dance, A verbal martial art with constant parries that hone the weapon that is the two edged sword of my mouth.

[Anonymous 12]

No legal entanglement. Just do not.
Not in marriage,
not in business,
not in buying a car together.

“50 year old woman seeking Husband to take care of her in her old age”
“40+ seeking lifelong security”
“Widow seeking potentially high earning Victim”
“1944 Ford Truck seeking a fool to do 10.000 hours of restoration work”

She pushes for marriage, and has done so repeatedly – you keep saying no.
One day you will wake up with a wedding ring on your finger, and all the paperwork signed… but you do not remember how you got yourself in that mess.

Don’t.

Am living something similar, and i make sure i can drop her at a moment’ s notice.
Dangle a Damokles’ Sword over her head – find a way to keep her in check.

Or simply f~~~ her daughter in zee A$$. Should work equally well.

[AFTParticipant 2726]

The question of marriage is pretty simple.
As Keymaster points out, it is a contract, and as such I argue you should weigh up the pros and cons.
Many MGTOW cut to the chase and simply refuse, without labouring the obvious.
However given your youth and for the sake of clarifying my decision making process I choose to explain like this:
1. What’s in it for me?
2. What are the risks?
3. Realise you don’t need to explain everything you don’t do.

4. But you need a good reason for the things you do.

Not to justify to others, but to keep yourself right.

Good luck, and take heed, better get the little head to obey the big head the sooner the better.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[Anonymous 1]

get out and get out now, ghost go deep get your head right

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

Mr. Spock wrote:

Believe me, the f~~~ing you are getting now will be nothing compared to the f~~~ing you will get once she becomes a citizen and talks you into bringing other members of her clan to the States and sponsoring them. Then when that’s done, enough time will have elapsed that you will be a full CPA and your net worth will skyrocket and so will her cash and prizes when she divorces you…..and she will.You should familiarize yourself with the common law marriage laws in the state that you live in. Since you are living with her, she is already a liability to your future even without being married. Move out ASAP.You owe her NOTHING and don’t let her manipulate you into thinking that because she’s letting you use her body that you owe her something. This has nothing to do with her age either, I’d be telling you this if she was 21 as well.Don’t get married and guard your sperm.

Depending on the state you are in you may already be classified as common law married. Being as she has helped you along the way she could rip you a new one in the courts, getting what she wants out of you anyway.
Dig into your state and local common law marriages asap. If she is half as intelligent as you make her out to be she knows.You may end up having to make a big move across several state lines.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[L. EulerParticipant 351]

Dear Teddy,
You’re not serious. After this hot tempered woman chops off your dick a la Lorena Bobbitt style….you’ll be wearing a teddy.
Hide the kitchen knives and especially remember date nobody south of the Rio Grande.
This might even save your life.

Come to think of it why date anyone at all!
You are after all on the MGTOW site……I don’t hate women…but I like preserving my dick. Women are going to realize , we are not misogynists, but you do what you have to do for survival. Go and find a good call girl & pay her well (to go away afterwards).
You’ll save yourself a whole lot of pain in more ways than one.

L. Euler

[GrumpyParticipant]

Dump her ASAP
Enjoy your youth, with younger people. The only benefit you have with a 51yr old, is that she”ll most likely die long before you do. Unless you die because of her.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

When you’re my age, she’ll look like the cryptkeeper. Damn!

I’m embarrassed to admit it, but I did a pump & dump on a 53-yr old when I was in my 20’s, but even in THOSE blue pilled days, I never would have thought of marrying her.

Living with a woman these days is stupid, and marrying her is doubling down on stupidity.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[IONParticipant 69]

I think you answered your own question. Trust your instinct AND the guidance provided here. If your idea of a good time consists of lengthy, sedentary hand-holding sessions while watching re-runs of “Wheel of Fortune” in the nursing home, give it a spin. Personally, I wouldn’t entertain dropping my Plinko chip down the chute of chance or better yet, even be in attendance.

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