Has anyone else noticed this in marriages?

[Photon_ManSpectator 47]

One of the most common forms of female abuse in modern marriages seems to be “My parents good, your parents bad.” We’ve all seen the “just like your father” crap in movies because it’s so bloody common.

This demonization of the man’s parents seems to happen in the vast majority of marriages in one way or another. I mean, f~~~, we all have parents who bring us up. Why are the man’s parents/family always deemed criminals??

But I guess it’s expected of women to say the most hurtful things and stoop to the lowest of the low. They are real monsters!

[Anonymous 11]

I’ve never been married, but I can objectively vouch that I’ve witnessed this on countless occasions in both married or only just involved couples.

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10924]

Yeah, my parents always got blamed for things. I was always told how my family wasn’t the norm and how her family did things and how they were more the norm. Manipulative brainwashing at it’s best.
On a similar note her parents and their family functions always trumped anything that your family did.
I was married for 9 years and when the Holidays came around it was always tough to make enough time to visit both sets of families. We would see my side for about 2-3 hours and her side usually lasted from 4-6 hours.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[experiencedParticipant]

Pure c~~~onomics.
Men are workhorses. Any and all extra resources generated by them must preemptively be vectored in her family’s direction.
Men’s moms are well aware of this. It accounts for a significant degree of their rejection of daughter in law.
IMO

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[bob__Participant 946]

Marriage: A woman promises to provide access to her pussy and a man promises the woman half his stuff and additional payments if they separate. The access to pussy is not legally enforceable but the access to half the man’s stuff is enforceable through divorce courts. Someone has to remind me what a man actually gets out of “marriage” that makes it worth the cost.

[Anonymous 3]

My wife once told me it was MY FAULT that my kid did this and that, because they got it from me.

I said that under the same argument it was not my fault also. I got it from my parents! And by the same argument it was not their fault also, because they got it from their parents.

At that point I got really angry. I said “therefore take your blame and shove it in your ass!”.

To then everything its men’s fault.

[bob__Participant 946]

Anonymous wrote:

My wife once told me it was MY FAULT that my kid did this and that, because they got it from me.

I said that under the same argument it was not my fault also. I got it from my parents! And by the same argument it was not their fault also, because they got it from their parents.

At that point I got really angry. I said “therefore take your blame and shove it in your ass!”.

To then everything its men’s fault.

Or maybe your kids got it from their mother.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Yes.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[AFTParticipant 2726]

My parents were both c~~~s, so I’m proud to be a stubborn patriarchical c~~~, f~~~ them whores.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

experienced wrote:

Pure c~~~onomics.
Men are workhorses. Any and all extra resources generated by them must preemptively be vectored in her family’s direction.

I can vouch for this viewpoint.

My parents are not perfect. I don’t think anyone can claim that. I have felt exasperation with my mom – she can be a drama queen, and I respectfully put her in her place. But, bar none, my parents were always supportive and there for me.

The ex loved to isolate me from my parents. It was never done overtly, but every excuse would come out of the woodwork – headache, not feeling well, work etc when it was time to visit my parents. Manipulative to the extreme. I would go alone; I am ashamed in hindsight that I did not call my ex on that one.

Meanwhile, her mom, three times divorced, could do no wrong. (I know – another red flag. I was very idealistic.) She came from an affluent family, I am from a low income blue collar one, and she subtly never let me forget it. Neither one never found a dollar they did not like spending.

Re vectoring resources – you are so right.The ex and her mom lived the good life on my back and hard labor. It started slow at first when we were dating. I use to be the type of man that would give someone the shirt off my back. Before I knew it I was maintaining and repairing her house, working part-time in her family business without compensation, paying for all our outings and excursions. I made myself a slave. So ashamed of myself. So true about boundaries and the slippery slope principal.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[Photon_ManSpectator 47]

Everybody attests to this phenomenon.

Mr. Spock wrote:

We would see my side for about 2-3 hours and her side usually lasted from 4-6 hours.

Anonymous wrote:

My wife once told me it was MY FAULT that my kid did this and that, because they got it from me.

Eyeswideopen wrote:

The ex loved to isolate me from my parents. It was never done overtly, but every excuse would come out of the woodwork

Meanwhile, her mom could do no wrong.

[Biggvs_DickvsParticipant 3726]

Mr. Spock wrote:

On a similar note her parents and their family functions always trumped anything that your family did.

That’s a huge part of the reason why I split up with my kid’s mom. Just because I have a smaller family doesn’t mean it’s somehow less important.

"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,

[HitmanParticipant]

Yes, my ex demonized my parents who were far more generous to us than hers..
Good topic. .
Show s AWALT!

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Great observation. Now that I think back, my ex was exactly like this. She wanted the majority of the time and resources to be directed towards her family. Not surprised.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Photon_Man wrote:

Why are the man’s parents/family always deemed criminals??

Well if you want to know the FACTs about who raises the most criminals, it’s single mothers. True.

But if you ask women, they think they are always perfect (not even an exaggeration) and the man is always wrong. On TV the wife is always perfect, etherial and she can do no wrong, and the man is always some dumb poor dumb schmuck who should be “lucky to have found her”.

So this is where all that bulls~~~ comes from. It seeps into their skulls without a thought. She’s always right. You’re always wrong. Her parents good. Your parents bad.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[experiencedParticipant]

Eyeswideopen wrote:

I am ashamed in hindsight that I did not call my ex on that one. I am from a low income blue collar one, and she subtly never let me forget it. So ashamed of myself. So true about boundaries and the slippery slope principal.

You’ve no more reason to be ashamed than anyone on this site, IOW No reason at all. The enlightenment that you’ve provided here will go hundreds of miles to help other guys in the same situation – in other words, All of them.
C~~~DEEZ rely on the fact that men give people the benefit of the doubt.
Men are good natured and women see this and manipulate us – they set up situations where prior training would result in our saying nothing….
Post red pill – Now we say, “OK, all in” and then shred them with the truth.

I have to repeatedly ask myself what is laydeez current price and full cost????
They are not worth it.
They offer an illusion as bait until it’s too late.
I wish I could give you more details, but it’d compromise my identity.
Suffice it to say your “ashamed of”s make me look like a total moron by comparison.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

Another good reason to be MGTOW.Yes i have seen this.

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Photon_ManSpectator 47]

BTW I didn’t come to this realisation by myself. I was told this by a very poor man from India when I was a tourist there. He said that while things are still in place outside the capital (New Delhi), women over there threaten to do court cases on men if you beat them too much. He said that New Delhi and certain other cities are dominated by western culture, which is why the laws favor women.

He expressed great hope that western culture would be removed.

bigboy83 wrote:

Answer your question? Yes!

MgtowWave wrote:

Yes i have seen this.

Prefer Peace to Piece wrote:

Great observation. Now that I think back, my ex was exactly like this.

Hitman wrote:

Yes, my ex demonized my parents who were far more generous to us than hers..

Funny how not a single person has said that this doesn’t occur.

Keymaster wrote:

Well if you want to know the FACTs about who raises the most criminals, it’s single mothers. True.

But if you ask women, they think they are always perfect (not even an exaggeration) and the man is always wrong. On TV the wife is always perfect, etherial and she can do no wrong, and the man is always some dumb poor dumb schmuck who should be “lucky to have found her”.

So this is where all that bulls~~~ comes from. It seeps into their skulls without a thought. She’s always right. You’re always wrong. Her parents good. Your parents bad.

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Lel…. Yeah it was 80-85% and single fathers are significantly better parents. “Among all savage beasts, none is as harmful as the woman”

How dare those bitches even comment on our families? We need to take necessary steps to keep those sly, vile beings in check!

[bigboy83Participant 11312]

All the women I dated. There families are all f~~~ed up So it’s hilarious that they always bring that up. One had like three dads, birth father, foster father, step father.

Answer your question? Yes!

Shit Tested, Cunt Approved.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

It’s true. I’ve seen women demonize their sons because they act or even just because they look like their father, ya know, the man she married. But, asking a woman to own up to anything when she could just blame someone else is impossible.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

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