Has anyone else figured out they are Asexual?

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I’ve read up on Asexuality and I seem to fit nearly everything I read about it.

It wasn’t that way until probably last year. I find myself so mentally repulsed by women now that I understand them, that I find myself sexually un-attracted to them. (disclaimer: I haven’t found myself attracted to men, so I’m not gay)

I’d thought until recently it was simply just a massive decrease in the sex drive since early 2016 or late 2015 (about 90% if I were to estimate) but I realize having seen women recently that would easily trigger most men (or me a year or two ago) to lust after them, I simply felt nothing at all. Well maybe comparable to a plant in my garden, except my garden is relaxing and doesn’t generate anxiety.

If anything, I felt a mild revulsion, similar to when I found a giant slug in my garden recently. (I sprinkled salt on it, after trapping it in a salt circle first)

I will have sex with the gf, but I really don’t ever initiate sex, except for the rare occasions I haven’t fapped in a while. She definitely likes sex more than me, so I’ll put out to save on fapping later (fapping good for prostate — if I could just electively surgically remove it, I probably wouldn’t fap) and its not like she isn’t fairly generous. (doing stuff together, she tends to pay for more than 50%)

Anyone else take so many Red Pills that you were finally pushed into being asexual?

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[StealthParticipant 5328]

Yeah, there does seem to be a relationship between going red pill and going asexual.

Silencing the lizard brain is a goal for many of us.

When women get toxic enough that you choose to stay away from them, it makes sense.

"Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

Yes, same here. I can still feel excited when a woman shows sexual interest, or flatters me, as I find the validation hits a certain spot, but as far as being sexually attracted, no, not at all. I don’t feel one jot of sexual attraction anymore. I feel nothing positive. I just see a world of uncouth rabid dogs.

I can appreciate asthetic beauty, and I think many women have nice eyes, but I don’t get onto any level of sexual energy about it, it’s similar to admiring a painting. It’s because I also think those nice eyes are nature’s trap, because as well as admiring their beauty, I also see the c~~~iness in womens’ eyes. I’m a massive believer in the eyes being the windows to the soul.

I haven’t had sex with a woman since Christmas, and I hardly give a s~~~. I couldn’t imagine wanting to, as I see it for what it is now, and I’m far too distracted by my own life to care. My big switch off has happened over the last 12 months.

Plus women smell.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I wouldn’t over-think it. It’s a biological urge. Do we ask ourselves “why” we like pizza? Asking yourself “am I horny? Why am I not horny?” . . . . is like asking why am I not hungry? Am I happy? WHY am I not happy right now? . . . it’s even all over TV. Do you feel run down, listless? Are you tired? You may have fibromyalgia. Take this pill. Side effects may include blood in your stool. Have a nice day.

It’s a label, and western countries are obsessed with labeling questioning sexuality and even goddam “gender”. “Are you gay? Is he straight? Am I bi? I think I may be a woman. I’m trans. I think he’s non-binary. She’s gender-fluid. You’re cis-hetero normative.”

It’s nuts.

Attraction is not a “choice”. If you’ve ever turned your head while driving to check out a pretty girl – and risked running into the car in front of you – you’re probably not “asexual”.

Stealth wrote:

going red pill

If a man has determined “the juice is not worth the squeeze”, then that’s something else – unrelated to his hardwiring.

Age, experience and psychology are also factors but men have also been socialized with stupid lies like “men think with their dicks”, which is utter nonsense of course.

Ranger One wrote:

I really don’t ever initiate sex

When you really think about it . . . why would you?
It’s not even lawful. Right?

I am of the opinion that women are too horny for that anyway. They initiate sex. They even dress for it, and are always the first to bring up the subject. They are obsessed with it. They are even obsessed with knowing about how much sex OTHERS are getting – or not – and with whom. Women are FAR more sexual, horny, and have more sexual partners.

More women have aggressively jumped on me than I have jumped on them, I can promise you that. And girlfriends? Immediately after it’s over, they want more of it.

Am I “asexual” because they wanted it more often than me?
Am I trans hetero metro cis trans fluid binary?

Wouldn’t even ask the question or give it another thought.
Pass the pizza.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Keymaster wrote:

I wouldn’t over-think it. It’s a biological urge. Do we ask ourselves “why” we like pizza?
…
Wouldn’t even ask the question or give it another thought.
Pass the pizza.

You had me at “Pizza”! (my favorite food)

🙂

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Actually I DID cringe a little at using a label like “asexual”, although I don’t consider it as moronic as that “cis” s~~~.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Ranger One wrote:

that “cis” s~~~.

Those people have nothing else to occupy their minds. Totally empty headed.

In fact, while my mind was occupied with other things, like work, or splitting the atom in other ways . . . a girlfriend(s) would come over and sit on my lap and I would push her off. This happened far more often than any woman who said “don’t”.

Pretty sure their inner dialogue was screaming “I DON’T GET IT!! I WAS ALWAYS TOLD MEN THINK WITH THEIR DICKS!!!”, but we think with our brains. They probably questioned if I was “asexual” more than I ever did.

Women will even question YOUR sexuality before questioning where or not she’s all that.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Thanks for the post. I was just thinking about this the last few days. Before I found this site I was able to sear off women but still had a high sex drive and felt attracted to women. But that was when I thought maybe I just had bad luck. But after seeing there are tens of thousands of other men who have had the same experience, I am losing my interest in sex altogether. I find women repulsive sexually and I am not sure I could even muster up the effort, even if it was easy. I think its the effect of participating in this site. There are some good and bad aspects to it. Short answer this site seems to be transitioning me toward being asexual.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

In response to KM’s Pizza analogy I would just say… if you liked PIZZA for years and years and ate it a couple times a week and then suddenly found it made you want to vomit every time you thought about Pizza, I thijk it would be natural to think about why a little. Just trying to process the change…

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Im repulsed by most women since redpill.

Got a few offers but declined.

Im not asexual, I fap frequently (not as a teen) but two or three times a week.

I just rather have fun with my hand than deal with women s~~~.

Im not asexual, women just made themselves totally undesirable, dangerous and disgusting in most cases.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

Zarathustra wrote:

In response to KM’s Pizza analogy I would just say… if you liked PIZZA for years and years and ate it a couple times a week and then suddenly found it made you want to vomit every time you thought about Pizza, I thijk it would be natural to think about why a little. Just trying to process the change…

In a nutshell, that’s it.

I f~~~ed the ex about 3,000 times in about 13 years, and other people 500 times for about 13 other years, so I’m trying to process the change.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[Anonymous 7]

Carnage wrote:

I just rather have fun with my hand than deal with women s~~~.

Amen to that.

I like T&A as much as the next dude but the life support system for T&A is a turn off.
As is so astutely said here ‘The Squeeze is not worth the juice’.

Even if you don’t get roped into 18+ years of paying cash & prizes.
Even if that one phone call is never made.
Even if the hoochie is as clean as a whistle with no STDs.

The never ending talking and drama is not worth it, to me.
The child like behavior is not worth it, to me.
Dealing with the Hamster Wheel and the loss of sovereignty is not worth it, to me.
Dealing with the s~~~ tests is not worth it, to me.

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

Key master ‘I am of the opinion that women are too horny for that anyway. They initiate sex. They even dress for it, and are always the first to bring up the subject. They are obsessed with it. They are even obsessed with knowing about how much sex OTHERS are getting – or not – and with whom. Women are FAR more sexual, horny, and have more sexual partners.’

Hi Keymaster, I don’t know how to quote you on here. But I followed your link and wtf!
There are many shocking things about that survey but the rank hypocrisy of women cheating but not ending relationships with men who are caught cheating is just outrageous.
But in a sense I’m not surprised women enjoy sex. In my experience they expect men to do all the work while they reap the pleasure.

[Sparticus66Participant 508]

Correction ‘ending’ it should say

[ScarberianMPTGLParticipant 3286]

Well, I’m a masculine-presenting transgendered lesbian (Thank TFM for that little gem).

I, Lelouch Vi Britannia, command you, all of you, to Go Your Own Way!!

[Anonymous 12]

I’ve never been the type of guy who needed to shag everything in sight. Since going Red Pill though it’s even worse. I need and expect more from a woman than they are able to give. I need to feel motivated to want to have sex with her. Her looks just aren’t enough.

I also don’t like the idea that I am supposed to suck up to her and jump through hoops trying to impress her. Not going to happen.

Even if I were to pay for it I would still feel disinterested. So yeah I am kind of asexual in a way.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I think if you were actually asexual you’d have never been interested in sex at any point in your life. You don’t just wake up at 45 or whatever one day and realize your asexual anymore than you’d wake up at 45 one day and realize your gay.

I do think its pretty common though to be turned off by women once you take the red pill. I still occasionally stumble upon attractive women that seem interested and for a brief second you wonder what they’d be like to f~~~, or even just take on a date, then you remember, not worth the hassle.

[JuehueParticipant 1316]

Asexual as in people with very very low sex drive? Or people who jerk off to calm their lizard brain that you observe them to not be interested in sex?

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Juehue wrote:

Asexual as in people with very very low sex drive? Or people who jerk off to calm their lizard brain that you observe them to not be interested in sex?

I’ve jerk off, but I’ve never had any interest in sex, and usually found a way to get out of it.

[Maximus AureliusParticipant 351]

All good analysis..It could be a boredom of pizza or The Red pill effect.

Or it just may be low T-Levels….. I heard Pizza and Red Pills affect Both!

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