Hard Time

[BrokeCollegeStudentParticipant 73]

Hey guys, I’m back. I have been going through tough times especially with my depression. I went to a a school dance tonight and I got laughed at by everyone since I don’t fit into society’s standards, I even had a guy call me a loser since I’m not chasing girls cause I know I don’t need a woman. I do crave some intimacy. What should I do? Red pills have been helping me realize the world is a s~~~ty place

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Look inward for solving this. There is nothing ‘out there’ that will solve this.

If I asked you to list what you’re doing with you life ….. what would that list look like?

1. Wake up
2. Go to work/look for work/study etc
3.?
4.?
5.
6.
7. Go to bed

Could you fill 3-6?

[HitmanParticipant]

hey brother , iv’e been up for almost 20 hours ..was gonna go to sleep but i logged back in because i read your post . HANG IN THERE ! you may have hard times NOW , but life is a real roller-coaster ride ,it has plenty of ups and downs ..just don’t give up ! you are in for an incredible journey..please ,listen and try to understand…tomorrow is ALWAYS gonna be a new day . i been where you are at ..school dance ..laughed at ..called names ..you will be AMAZED at what some time will do FOR YOU ! .the same people who f~~~ed up your evening , well, .you may be seeing them from a VERY different perspective sooner than you may imagine ! . I saw real assholes from my high-school go to JAIL , get buried in CEMETERIES and go to PSYCHIATRIC HOSPITALS for the rest of their lives !.. we all go through hard times ..some far worse than others ..try to get some sleep and KNOW that you are not alone , glad you came here with what you went thru ..try not to dwell on some jerks that a year or two from now could be HISTORY , while YOU can be doing AWESOME if you just get through this ! post up in a day or two and lemme know how your’e doing . ! get some sleep man .. peace ! ..

[RennieParticipant]

BrokeCollegeStudent wrote:

I even had a guy call me a loser since I’m not chasing girls cause I know I don’t need a woman. I do crave some intimacy.

Who cares what they think. Gotta learn to tune those people out and realize that they don’t matter.

As for the craving intimacy don’t ask, currently struggling with that myself. For some reason my drive has been really crazy and hard to control lately. Maybe I need to wack more.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Sometimes depression is caused by nutrition, or the lack of certain nutrients. Here’s one of many articles on it: http://www.foodforthebrain.org/nutrition-solutions/depression/about-depression.aspx

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[KeymasterKeymaster]

BrokeCollegeStudent wrote:

Hey guys, I’m back. I have been going through tough times especially with my depression.

Good to see you again Matt.

BrokeCollegeStudent wrote:

I went to a a school dance tonight and I got laughed at by everyone since I don’t fit into society’s standards.

Time to pull a Tom Cruise and laugh louder back.
“You never said you were funny!!” They hate that line.

If they get nasty and start something like “what are you gay?”… just bust out laughing and say “I could be gay long enough for YOU to blow me. Who’s first?”. Then laugh again.

BrokeCollegeStudent wrote:

I even had a guy call me a loser since I’m not chasing girls cause I know I don’t need a woman.

Even better!

You should be PROUD when someone calls you a “loser”. I’m serious. Let’s translate “loser” from woman/white knight speak into Manglish: “Loser” in woman-speak simply means a man who is smart enough to do things that are in HIS best interest.

• You don’t spend your hard-earned money on women – you are a loser
• You expect regular sex – you are a loser
• You are not interested in marriage – you are a loser
• You don’t want to be stuck with kids – you are a loser
• You don’t want to slave away 60 hours a week so a woman can buy a new SUV every year – you are a loser
• You prefer South American women who treat you better – you are a HUUGE LOOOSER

The alternative to “loser” is a pussyfied man, or simply a pussy. A pussyfied man does what a woman wants – he is a docile schmuck who runs after women, worships the STD infested hole between her legs, slaves away at work and pays her bills and does not pester her for sex. In other words, he is an ” ideal husband”.

Smile next time and tell them exactly that. And then thank them for the compliment.

BrokeCollegeStudent wrote:

I do crave some intimacy. What should I do?

Depends on how willing you are to play the game. No, not “playing games”…… I mean playing THE game. THE game can actually be fun, but you have to approach it with a very light heart and take none of it seriously. Think of girls as temporary pleasures. Even when it goes well, she’s here today and gone tomorrow. If you can live with that and expect NOTHING from her, you’ll be OK. Just don’t look past your next move.

A bout of depression melts away VERY fast if you concentrate on plenty of exercise and nutrition.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

RoyDal wrote:

Sometimes depression is caused by nutrition, or the lack of certain nutrients. Here’s one of many articles on it: http://www.foodforthebrain.org/nutrition-solutions/depression/about-depression.aspx

So glad you posted that RD

This is so very very important.

I eat a bucket of blueberries. … every day ….. I mean a bucket hahaha

Nothing out of a sealed packet or tin. Cook fresh. Grow your own if you can.

[WallyParticipant]

That was me in high school and part of college so you are not alone and those idiots only laugh at you because you are going against the grain and secretly they are probably envious. I’ve had issues with depression as well and had to fight sucidal thoughts. Today I love what I do, don’t have someone telling me what to to and those guys in school that made fun of me either went to jail or got divorced. Your life will be different from those guys chasing women as their main goal. Listen to what the other gentlemen have said about having a life focus,

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Every person I know who looks back on school fondly turned out to be a complete failure at life. Trust me, if you aren’t enjoying school, it means you are Doing It Right.

BrokeCollegeStudent wrote:

I even had a guy call me a loser since I’m not chasing girls cause I know I don’t need a woman.

Wait until the pussy beggar gets some stupid little girl pregnant and ends up on the hook for 216 monthly payments before he’s even had a chance to live his life. Because there are no hail marys with school age girls. At the very least he’s p~~~ing away whatever hard earned valuta he might have accumulated for… nothing.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I wish I could bottle and sell a way to get young men like this to understand that “school” is not a barometer for LIFE. If they could just see that it gets better. I talked to a 49 year old guy a few days ago…… he wouldn’t want to be 21 again for anything. And neither would I. It sounds like a line, but it’s SO damn true.

I remember the girl that wouldn’t slow dance with me and she knew that I crushed on her since grade one. I was 11 and thought it was the end of the f~~~ing world. 20 years after graduation I could still remember the feeling (when I saw her again) and I remember laying eyes on her and thinking: If I could go back and slap the s~~~ out of myself for being as devastated as I was…. I would.

I was actually ANGRY at myself for allowing it to mean that much to me.

She lives with her bulldog now. No prospects. No husband. No kids. All against her will. When she told me her long time financé ended up dumping her, I just nodded and showed concern. “Gee that;s too bad. Gosh look at the time.”

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 3]

BrokeCollegeStudent wrote:

I went to a a school dance tonight

You shouldn’t have done that.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Anonymous wrote:

mattj2667 wrote:

I went to a a school dance tonight

You shouldn’t have done that.

Agreed.

[Anonymous 18]

Everything is temporary my friend. Thats the beauty and the ugly of life. Depends where you are looking from.

Circumstances will change, and if you stay proactive they’d change to suit your personality. Keep doing what you believe is right for you.

[22DeeboiParticipant 259]

Hey bro, dont worry about going to these dances or any social events. Its almost always boring. Didn’t go to my prom or homecoming when I was younger and had no regrets. Understood my family had a tight budget and besides why go to some shallow event were the girl you bring is a complete bore and your friends all put on a facade to look “cool”. My ex had to drag me for hers and her family was all upset cuz I didnt want to go at first but then I gave in and wasted so much money just to make her happy and fam. NEVER AGAIN

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

I went to a a school dance tonight and I got laughed at by everyone since I don’t fit into society’s standards, I even had a guy call me a loser since I’m not chasing girls cause I know I don’t need a woman. I do crave some intimacy. What should I do?

To be honest: you sound confused; and I dont blame you, because facing this f~~~ed up world as a growing young man IS confusing.

You desire the intamacy of a woman yet dont want to chase it. Cant blame you there. But attending a school dance, in which girls sexually tease men for their own gratification, you cant expect not to be humiliated to some extent.

I would say dont put yourself in those positions going forward. Youre attracted to girls, you KNOW girls are going to tease you in a situation, AND that your not going to act on it, equals a disaster.

It sucks.

If you want female intimacy, then Id suggest not putting yourself in that type of environment again. In society women have the upper hand, but that type of environment is the worst.

Resident cynic.

[AttonParticipant]

BrokeCollegeStudent wrote:

Hey guys, I’m back. I have been going through tough times especially with my depression. I went to a a school dance tonight and I got laughed at by everyone since I don’t fit into society’s standards, I even had a guy call me a loser since I’m not chasing girls cause I know I don’t need a woman. I do crave some intimacy. What should I do? Red pills have been helping me realize the world is a s~~~ty place

I’ve been there and it hurts like a motherf~~~er, people can be assholes I’ve been there and done that. I’ve been called a f~~~~~,c~~~,n~~~~~,idiot,retard and pretty much anything you can think of.

What I can suggest to you is this, focus on something productive something you love like for example.

My dream is to become an aerospace engineer even though I have programming & web development experience in programs like JavaScript, Python, and HTML.

In your own words your dream is to become and aerospace engineer.
So substitute what brings you pain like for example.

I went to a a school dance tonight and I got laughed at by everyone since I don’t fit into society’s standards,

With something that brings you joy and sustained happiness, like designing an aircraft or exploring the world around you. Don’t focus on what brings you pain do what you love. I’ve done it and I feel better than I ever have before, so why can’t you?

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[RoyDalParticipant]

I had one f~~~ of a case of depression when I was in jr. high. I solved it by taking nutritional supplements and enrolling in a jiu-jitsu class. The supplements to get my brain working right. The martial arts so I could be unafraid when facing the bully de jour. That combination worked wonders. I recommend it to one and all.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[bachelor4goodParticipant 170]

RoyDal wrote:

I had one f~~~ of a case of depression when I was in jr. high. I solved it by taking nutritional supplements and enrolling in a jiu-jitsu class. The supplements to get my brain working right. The martial arts so I could be unafraid when facing the bully de jour. That combination worked wonders. I recommend it to one and all.

I second this! Sports and a proper diet have done an enormous effect on my personal well-being. Everyone who´s experienced that will strongly recommend doing so.

IDGAF

[ExsliventxsParticipant 1067]

BrokeCollegeStudent wrote:

Hey guys, I’m back. I have been going through tough times especially with my depression. I went to a a school dance tonight and I got laughed at by everyone since I don’t fit into society’s standards, I even had a guy call me a loser since I’m not chasing girls cause I know I don’t need a woman. I do crave some intimacy. What should I do? Red pills have been helping me realize the world is a s~~~ty place

Depression? Let me give you some reasons why your life doesn’t suck.

1. You have a penis. This means you’re more capable than over half the world’s population. Congrats.

2. You ask others for advice and seem capable of retaining it. A wise man is not one who learns through experience, but through the experiences of others.

3. You have no children, no debt, your whole life ahead of you. You’re set up great.

4. You’ll find that if you focus on your career, you will have vagina thrown at you left and right (if you are worried about getting laid) a school dance? Holy s~~~ man, you’re lucky to hit 2nd base at those. You’re not missing anything. (P.S. any girl that goes farther than second base at a school dance will have you paying child support for 18+ years).

5. You can focus on science, mathematics, culture, languages, engineering, medicine… I mean really, open a book and be free. Focus on test scores and enjoying good non-fiction. Start with 1984 to immediately immunize you against liberal brainwashing. Hive mind is terrifying and so is censorship.

6. Avoid dumbasses who drink and drive, who smoke too much anything. Focus on you.

7. You will be happy and if you aren’t, you should be, because your life is actually going to kick ass. Some MGTOW are here because women have ruined some aspect of their lives and they’re desperately attempting to help their fellow man. (Selfless assistance, mostly a male trait, Buddha, Jesus etc. etc.)

8. You found MGTOW, people here can help you stay on your own path by reminding you whats really important. YOU. Just don’t lose all empathy for your fellow man in your quest for self-fulfillment though.

9. Enjoy. Life.

[Executor MaxwellParticipant 591]

BrokeCollegeStudent wrote:

Hey guys, I’m back. I have been going through tough times especially with my depression. I went to a a school dance tonight and I got laughed at by everyone since I don’t fit into society’s standards, I even had a guy call me a loser since I’m not chasing girls cause I know I don’t need a woman. I do crave some intimacy. What should I do?

Oy, I really need focus this month but I’ll take a moment out for this.
School dance, so presumably high school then, you probably have that vague sense of urgency at your back.

Key points to know:

1. Life gets better.
2. Aside from possibly a few close friends (no guarantee of even that), The people you went to high school with very quickly become irrelevant once it’s over..

From my own experiences I went to a dance or two back then and though it was a stupid bunch of suck so I just skipped them, I was fortunate enough to have a group of friends that thought the same way. When ever there was a dance when just used it as an excuse to hang out either on the town or just playing video games.

BrokeCollegeStudent wrote:

Red pills have been helping me realize the world is a s~~~ty place

A set of options are recreation such as that or self improvement. and learning (real stuff not just the glorified babysitting of school) Yah there are lots of problems with the world today but you have the freedom to peruse you own interests and develop your self and your skills. It takes effort but if give you more choices in life when you develop yourself.

Red pills are good in that it is very much preferable to not live blind, but don’t make that the focus of your life or you’ll be miserable. It a matter of accepting what is and going after what you want. Peruse happiness by working to live up to your potential. It’s about the long haul not a transitory moment.

Also I’m clearly not the only response here, their may not be as much support available as one would hope but you are not alone in this world.

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