Hard earned strategies used while engaging the Girlfriend Option

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Gentlemen,

This thread is started in the hopes of creating a discussion about the lessons learned from sexual Relations~~~s with woman focusing on the outlandish adaptations that were required for survival while continuing the foolish pursuit of more Relations~~~s.

Yes, the ultimate lesson is DON’T DO IT. Stay away from woman!

For the men who still pursue/ require a woman’s pheromones, body, and femininity, you’re well and truly f~~~ed!

You are risking your life, your agency, your freedom, and your soul.

It is necessary to understand what you are dealing with:

Woman are dangerous;

Women destroy lives;

Woman are evil.

That being said, this discussion is about what a man has been forced to do in order to acclimatize to the risks and damages which are a direct result of f~~~ing women.

Warning: The following “girlfriend option” which is discussed in this Post, is much more perilous for a man than hiring escorts and prostitutes.

To get the ball rolling, here are some of the hard earned strategies I eventually used when I was involved in Relations~~~s. They had a positive track record with a long history of trial and error:

My self-proclaimed “Soul Mates” were never allowed to get a foothold in my home.

I never gave out a key.

None of their stuff stayed in my home.

Never give them a dresser drawer, closet space, or shelf in the bathroom.

I would throw out anything they left behind after each visit.

I eventually learned to have a good lawyer on retainer.

Gave an envelope with $3000 cash to a good friend for use as bail money.

Finally, deference to a Woman’s Requests is poison.

The following words were gleaned from discussions in the Manosphere. They are accurate descriptions of Woman’s behavior relating to “Woman’s requests:”

Women’s requests are unrelenting and shameless.

When a man gives into a woman’s request, you will NEVER hear her say:

(Thank you very much)…..

This is enough. I don’t need anything more.
And I will not need anything more for quite some time.

Thank you for granting my request, I will retreat now.

Thank you for granting my request, I will stop beseeching now.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Anonymous 54]

Part of the criteria for determing if some one lives with you,is do they have any belongings at the residence. You are correct. Do NOT let them bring any thing to your house.

[Tired-CopParticipant 116]

The law in Indiana, as I apply it in those situations, is did she establish residency? What is residency? Is she on the lease? Does she receive mail there? Do you have kids in common? Are any of the bills in her name? Does her drivers license reflect that address? Registration for her car? There is no defined statute for how many number of days. If I get there and she has a closet full of clothes, medicine cabinet full of her gear, I will err on the side of caution and not throw her out. You would be told to seek and eviction order to get her out. The court has not decided the there is a certain number of days that she has been sleeping over that it crosses into being a resident.

Just don't care anymore,,,,

[MACHOParticipant]

The Manipulated Man wrote:

Yes, the ultimate lesson is DON’T DO IT. Stay away from woman!
For the men who still pursue/ require a woman’s pheromones, body, and femininity, you’re well and truly f~~~ed!
You are risking your life, your agency, your freedom, and your soul.
It is necessary to understand what you are dealing with:
Woman are dangerous;

Women destroy lives;

Woman are evil.

Now those were heavy statements!?

Note: I’m in a browsing mood tonight after last night weird episode! I don’t mean to bring back old threads.. Just meant to add some spontaneous reply to interesting responses.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[narwhalParticipant]

My first thought was…Never say ‘I love you’. Women love this. It’s almost the goal of the relationship in her mind. Once you say it to her, she owns you. You’re obligated. She can get you do things for her because you told her you loved her, and she can hold it over your head. If you don’t then you lied to her.

And she’ll do anything to get you to say it. It’s practically like a mini marriage in that she’ll be great and wonderful up till the point you say it, then fall back on bad behavior once you’re committed.

On the other hand, it makes it easier to end the relationship when it’s time to do so. They always want a reason for ending it, and you can simply say “I wasn’t falling in love with you”. It’s not her fault, it’s not your fault. It’s just how you feel, and women cannot argue with that. It’s using her way of thinking against her.

I’ve used that breakup twice before, after ending 6 month relationships. They were both speechless both times, and let it go without much issue.

Ok. Then do it.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

If you are going to engage in sex with the female cum dumpsters, I must insist you have a VAR with you on and recording at all times when alone. Reason being, should there be a accusation of anything bad, you have a VAR to play for the police. I would even go so far as ask for permission in removing her clothes and intercourse so you have it on recording. It’s a bit corny, but it’s better than spending a night in the slammer with Bubba and a listing in the daily police blotter.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

The following are words of wisdom and experience that were just made in a reply within a new MGTOW’s Introduction:

Bosk wrote:

……………………………Women are good for nothing, except reproduction and yet, they utterly fail nowadays in this single mission they have for humanity.

A man should never appreciate his worthiness upon a female judgment.
Would an ant judge a tapir?

They will never admit it, but they need to be dominated and god knows they like it, and even more in bed.

Never ask her opinion or take into account what she says.
You are the man.
You decide what is good or wrong…

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Anonymous 3]

I firmly agree that the best contact is no contact. I also believe in total disregard to anything they say or do.
As far as love goes that does not exist in any relationship I have with women. Love is ” out the door” you might say.
My total approach is a kind of feigned civility,subtle disregard & no response to any questions concerning how I choose to live my life. I do say “F~~~ You” on occasion depending on the situation. Bottom line: silence, solitude, peace & am I willing to trade that in for confusion, insanity & drama ( already been there ) And the answer is a resounding “NO”
I will admit to having sex once in awhile, but sex is not a relationship.
My time for a relationship with any woman is over. I learned my lesson the hard way. MGTOW

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Girlfriend is not an option. Once she identifies you as MY boyfriend, you have now agreed that you are her property. MY used and an adjective before any word that identifies as you, means ownership of. She will start with the rules. The first is always you can’t see anyone else. She claims jealousy rights. Jealousy rights means she can now be bats~~~crazy on your ass and it’s your fault. The slope just keeps slipping from there. If you want to see a girl you be clear your not hers, there is no my in front of your name. She has no rights to be jealous or otherwise claim any rights to your life and how you live it. She has no say. If she so much as leaves a toothbrush at your place you should return it. Beware of passive aggressive encroachment of your personal space. If accept it there will be another one and so on. Those are redflags.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

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