Hard day today, thanks MGTOW

[GeraldParticipant 3629]

So, am having a rough day today. Still trying to move down the “my own way” road. Wife today blamed me for her alcoholism, with a real s~~~ test. F~~~ing hurts.

I know I failed the s~~~ test, but this is a bitch.

Thank you Stealthy, MG-tower, BM and others… You guys are my heroes and your help and support is much appreciated. I don’t know any of you but love you all. That may sound weird but MGTOW is critical to helping us men figure out our lives.

Keep up the good work

No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

YIKES she’s a bitch and a boozer. That sucks. My experience with drunk women is they fall into one of three categories:

1) They are the center of attention and think they are the most sexy exciting thing on the planet.
2) Melancholia—oh woe is me my life sucks, lots of sobbing crying etc.
3) The “mean” drunk–I hate the world and everyone in it—and violence is cool

I don’t know which one you are dealing with it but I can tell you this—they will never change until they decide to do so, and since they are never wrong there is never a reason to change. Pretty simple logic.

My advice: BAIL OUT—even if it involves only packing your s~~~ in the car, gathering all your money that you can and heading for a campsite. ITs time to put a lot of shoe leather between you and little princess toxic.

[SlayherParticipant 2074]

PistolPete wrote:

My advice: BAIL OUT—even if it involves only packing your s~~~ in the car, gathering all your money that you can and heading for a campsite. ITs time to put a lot of shoe leather between you and little princess toxic.

Have to agree with PistolPete. Great advice.

Least you have found MGTOW. You’re already on the road to new beginnings and a better life.

Stay strong brother.

[Anonymous 42]

Gerald, first, thanks man, I’m glad to kick start your critical thinking, so is anyone here pitching in on all the commonsense thinking, if we’re not learning from each other it’s only because we’re nodding our heads agreeing.

Alcoholism is a sickness that effects the people closest the most negatively. You need to get away from her when she’s intoxicated, there’s no place to breath when you’re in the vicinity of a drunk. Shelter yourself by not talking to her while she’d in her drunken condition. Nothing does more domestic damage than alcohol abuse. Around here both young and old are loosing their licenses for DUI. I had to resort to securing my property better because I’ve heard through the grape vine the losers got together and are starting to steel things after being stranded and now jobless thanks to their own self neglect for DWI.

Being exposed to her abuse is VERY TOXIC TO YOUR SOUL! Her sickness will swallow you whole if you buckle under and let her. I don’t see things getting better unless she’s the one that wants to clean herself up and get sober. She needs to hit bottom all alone and dying inside with nobody there to help her. Tough love is the hardest love to do but the only love that also considers the condition of YOU…

You may need to focus a little more on yourself and less on her, just so the safety net can rip and let her fall to the bottom.

Get out of her way and let her destroy herself until she decides to get some help.

Her problem is entirely out of your realm, I think she needs professional help…

Until then all you’re gonna get is ever increasing s~~~ that will likely get dangerous as she flies off the handle in a drunken rage.

You need to isolate yourself emotionally and physically as much as you can.

HIDE…

[Anonymous 43]

ugh alcoholic women. Two of my most unfav things

Sorry ya going thru hell Pal. cut her loose, let her be someone else’s bad deal.

before she really wrecks you.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Nothing good will come of this.

Walking out that door naked and penniless is a better option.

1. She’s female
2. A drunk
3. You’re the target
4. She has the system on her side

This is a no win.

Think only of yourself for now because I guarantee nobody else will.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

PistolPete wrote:

YIKES she’s a bitch and a boozer. That sucks. My experience with drunk women is they fall into one of three categories:

1) They are the center of attention and think they are the most sexy exciting thing on the planet.
2) Melancholia—oh woe is me my life sucks, lots of sobbing crying etc.
3) The “mean” drunk–I hate the world and everyone in it—and violence is cool

I don’t know which one you are dealing with it but I can tell you this—they will never change until they decide to do so, and since they are never wrong there is never a reason to change. Pretty simple logic.

My advice: BAIL OUT—even if it involves only packing your s~~~ in the car, gathering all your money that you can and heading for a campsite. ITs time to put a lot of shoe leather between you and little princess toxic.

I guess that makes my ex a 6. 1+2+3. The worst combination you can find.

Order the good wine

[Anonymous 54]

Id split.But..
You need to move far enough away that a drunk p~~~ed off bitch wont show up were you work, your house, were you eat ect..

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

TaxGuy wrote:

I guess that makes my ex a 6. 1+2+3. The worst combination you can find.

Glade she is an EX. Brother!

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