Happy to be here

[VerusParticipant 965]

I’m new to this community. Been MGTOW for a while, just didn’t have a label for it until recently. After my nightmare marriage ended in divorce I tried dating for a while, but all the women I met were either total losers/crazy/bitter/entitled/damaged/nasty. That and it seemed like half of them had been reading Fifty Shades and wanted to be tied up, and I was expected to provide the whips and chains…LOL. Didn’t take me long to realize that I just wasn’t into dating. I didn’t see how I would get anything of value out of it, and the idea of being in a relationship and all the crap that entailed just wasn’t appealing. No red pill moment, just a gradual realization that I’m perfectly happy as I am, that a woman would only detract from that happiness, and raising my kids and enjoying my hobbies without a female to constantly answer to was what I wanted. Not sure if this is the right place for me, I see a lot of anger and spite in other comments in the forums. I enjoy the ridicule of obnoxious third wave feminists, but I have no anger for women. They are what they are, and at this point I see them as just a pitfall to avoid and an amusing problem for somebody else.

[Tiga KParticipant 1693]

We’re glad to have you. There are plenty of angry comments, but I don’t think they dominate the forum. Plenty of the new guys come in here angry (which is understandable), but they cool off after a while. This is the only place we have to vent. If we say anything short of praising women elsewhere, we have to deal with accusations of “misogyny”.

[Anonymous 42]

Welcome MGTOW Verus, anger? women? in one sentence? Where’s the abnormal in that? You’ll undoubtedly fit right in, I have little to no anger to spare on women and their nonsense!
Welcome to MGTOW! Relax and enjoy the company!

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome Verus,
Yeah most guys are angry/disillusioned when they first arrive. I have come to believe that it is because they are lost and looking for a new way to go. You could be a big help for them. I look forward to your posts.

[HitmanParticipant]

Glad you found us!

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Verus wrote:

and an amusing problem for somebody else.

recently i’ve been doing the same thing!!! laughing at all the mangina’s misery.

welcome pal!
i’m glad you found the path to freedom
enjoy the website and the forums
Cheers.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Angry comments??this.is a places for.men we can express.how ever we want

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Playing that gentlemen bullcrap.is for women and manginas

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Hello Verus.

Anger is a natural masculine response to danger and has proven to be valuable when used wisely. It has kept humans alive on this planet throughout the ages.

The Gynocracy have programmed everybody for an abhorrence to all things masculine, especially male anger. Surreptitiously, women reward bullies and enjoy watching men fight with each other. Alas, a lot of men today do not have the ability to learn how to develop their male power to benefit themselves. Modern pathways for males today are for creating useful slaves or “tools.”

Dealing with women and their slaves is crazy making. The spite and bitterness comes from all of the battles lost to women who do not fight fair and have no honor. Where else can we vent our frustration except here at MGTOW?

After the peace, tranquility, and prosperity that occurs from going MGTOW, the left over anger eventually goes away and the healing process begins. Some of us have a lot of “scars” as well as a tough road ahead. After the Red Pill Rage phase, MGTOW’s are mostly too happy, fulfilled, and busy with a good life to look back. Many embrace the creed that “the best revenge is to live well.”

There are some men who have been MGTOW’s their whole adult life and they are the most decent people I have ever known. Also, there are a lot of men on this MGTOW website that have no “Red Pill Rage.” These guys have written about their compassion, goodness, and understanding for everyone, including women.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Mellow midnightsParticipant 19]

A red pill a day, keeps the adele song prank calling women away, thank god for MGTOW and us being fully aware that we are not alone as MGTOWS. Happiness can be found on our own, nobody can take this away, let the shame and guilt come and bounce off of us.

[TheroniusParticipant 975]

Welcome, Verus.
Yes, sometimes there’s anger, but not usually hatred. After all, most men don’t show up here because they always hated women.
This is a good place to vent though, and there are not many places in the world where you can talk s~~~ about the ladies and get away with it, so it’s going to happen, from time to time.

"I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin

[VarunParticipant 2981]

Welcome to MGTOW Forums, Versus.

Verus wrote:

I see a lot of anger and spite in other comments in the forums.

That’s right; some people ARE angry … but they’re not mindless.. some souls have been tormented in ways beyond you can imagine. I hed that thought too at first; thought “so much hate” …. but where there’s such a huge fire; there’s got to be a ot of smoke right?
I’m looking forward to your posts.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[VerusParticipant 965]

Thanks everyone! I did not mean to criticize the anger other men feel, but I can see how my comment could be taken that way. My anger with my ex has always been directed at her and her behavior (lying, hiding that she was on psych meds, drug abusing, depriving me of everything I loved, blowing all our money, secretly taking out many credit cards in my name and destroying my credit, etc.), and in the immediate aftermath of the divorce I didn’t generalize it to all women, still wasn’t there yet…that came later. My post-marriage dating experience was what tipped the scale and showed me that women in general just weren’t worth the time and effort…that and watching the “perfect marriage” of one of my friends who had been married for over 20 years destroyed when his wife cheated on him. So for me there was no red pill moment I can point to, just a gradual slide toward not caring enough to play the game anymore.

I still have to deal with my ex because of the kids, and still have to deal with her behavior and constant crises, but there I have to keep the anger to myself, because of the need to shelter the kids and keep things civil. I guess I internalize my anger.

I do enjoy reading the posts about obnoxious female behavior, the shadenfreude of watching women undone by their own bad decisions, and hearing other men talk about their experiences. Women being women is always pretty amusing. I didn’t mean to critique anyone else’s feelings, just to say I don’t share the rage. To me it’s just acceptance of the way things are.

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