Guys who seek female validation

[IRuleMeParticipant]

I came in contact with a man a few months ago who told me he had no interest in sex with wimmen, but was still seeking validation from them (attention). Still seeking that ego boost. It’s very important to ditch this kind of thinking (I’m writing this for you lurkers out there, and for you new guys on the site). This kind of approval seeking is rooted in neediness and clingy behavior.

The problem is, that you can’t be maintaining a state of sovereignty and freedom if your self esteem is driven by wimmin. Why? Because they have a hold over you. Their pussy is still in control. Still in power. Which means you’re still on the plantation and in blue pill hell. Sovereignty comes from a sense of self worth and value. This is why it’s important to focus on your inner self, and building a positive lifestyle.

By seeking validation from wimmin, you’ve in turn given THEM validation. You in turn have given THEM the ego boost. It’s important to recognize YOU do not need approval, or validation from wimmin. If they compliment you on something, thank them and move on. Walk away. But don’t go out of your way to receive it.

[ghostParticipant]

Great post, ECP.

[xanthineParticipant 4903]

Yeah i never understood that. If you don’t want anything to do with women, why the f~~~ would you seek their attention? That’s retarded, it sounds like something a woman would do.

Also, you’d miss out on one of the biggest advantages of mgtow. No longer seeking or desiring validation from women is one of the most liberating experiences there is.

[SolitudeParticipant 116]

IRuleMe wrote:

By seeking validation from wimmin, you’ve in turn given THEM validation. You in turn have given THEM the ego boost. It’s important to recognize YOU do not need approval, or validation from wimmin.

Excellent points. Also, when you seek validation from women you intrinsically start changing things about yourself to gain their approval. For example, women hate graphic/funny t-shirts. They want men to dress in presentable and fashionable attire in all circumstances and equate graphic/funny tees with low-income. I think they’re fun and have collected quite a few. Get compliments all the time from good-natured guys, but nary a smile from women. I could buy a nice batch of colorful polos or I could

“The more powerful and original a mind, the more it will incline towards the religion of solitude.” ― Aldous Huxley

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22503]

They are the saddest, and sorriest guys on the planet. Many are husbank cucks.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[ghostParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

They are the saddest, and sorriest guys on the planet.

+1

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

I kinda go the other extreme and show woman the chair or s~~~ test them if they contact me. Don’t care what they think. Better to see true RBF than fake attention. I have got really good at ignoring a lot of stuff… “Let it go” as the Buddhist philosophy espouses.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[BeachBumParticipant 813]

Great Post, C~~~o!

You have envious writing skills..

[Remove me!Participant]

Good point. I found my self worth in my 20’s through women. Now I dress to express to men and women how I want to be perceived.

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[surfdude12Participant 4103]

I used to do that. Comes from being raised by women. Dad goes to work, you’re raised by female. Then you go to school and have female teachers. So your entire childhood is seeking female approval

When you become adult that M.O. Is still there until you recognize it and change it

I read that men 100 years ago didn’t have this issue since 90% of families were raised on farms so a son spent most of his childhood on farm
with his Dad = no females f~~~ed it up

But then in last 100 yrs, families moved to cities and Dads left home to go into city, leaving boys to be raised by female mom and female teachers

[Bloody HeartlandParticipant 693]

Harder to ween myself from than I thought. Still get caught in the trap from time to time, but I think I’m making progress.

"I have the fury of my own momentum." "With this ring I thee wed. Fire walk with me."

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Solitude wrote:

El C~~~o Punto wrote:

By seeking validation from wimmin, you’ve in turn given THEM validation. You in turn have given THEM the ego boost. It’s important to recognize YOU do not need approval, or validation from wimmin.

Excellent points. Also, when you seek validation from women you intrinsically start changing things about yourself to gain their approval. For example, women hate graphic/funny t-shirts. They want men to dress in presentable and fashionable attire in all circumstances and equate graphic/funny tees with low-income. I think they’re fun and have collected quite a few. Get compliments all the time from good-natured guys, but nary a smile from women. I could buy a nice batch of colorful polos or I could

I’m notorious for wearing those kinds of shirts. In fact, this is one of my favorites. Everybody f~~~ing laughs their ass off. I’ve even had simps ask me if I actually did or not..

Another one of my favorites that tends to get a good reaction (because people love Game of Thrones)

I have lots of these kinds of shirts. I love them.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

BeachBum wrote:

Great Post, C~~~o!

You have envious writing skills..

I was always a B student in the English classes that I took throughout high school. Even spent a year taking a creative writing class in high school. The reason it takes me so long to write these kinds of things on the site is that I can’t JUST write them.

I have to structure them out in my head first. Otherwise it comes across as a bunch of rambling with points jumping around. So I might discuss a topic on zoom, and someone will say “hey, that’d make a great topic”.

Then I end up taking a day or two, or whatever, to lay out my information in the order I want to relate it. Otherwise, I could just as easily have as many topics as Gambit. 😛 (Sorry bro. Had to bust your b~~~~ a little bit.)

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

IRuleMe wrote:

The problem is, that you can’t be maintaining a state of sovereignty and freedom if your self esteem is driven by wimmin. Why? Because they have a hold over you. Their pussy is still in control. Still in power. Which means you’re still on the plantation and in blue pill hell. Sovereignty comes from a sense of self worth and value.

El C~~~o Punto

Excellent point El. Outside of work, bitches don’t exist.

[ghostParticipant]

IRuleMe wrote:

Then I end up taking a day or two, or whatever, to lay out my information in the order I want to relate it. Otherwise, I could just as easily have as many topics as Gambit. 😛 (Sorry bro. Had to bust your b~~~~ a little bit.)

LOL

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

IRuleMe wrote:

Sovereignty comes from a sense of self worth and value. This is why it’s important to focus on your inner self, and building a positive lifestyle.

^^^ECP just dropped a major truth bomb.^^^

You are wise beyond your years Sir!

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