Guys, what should I do??

[wayneParticipant 11]

Malefics wrote:

I should probably update for everyone.

They started dating again about a month after I created this thread. Things have not improved. I have had several discussions with him about what he is doing and if he realizes what he is doing. We have also gotten into heated arguments about this.

Needless to say, he thinks I am “jealous”, thinks I just don’t “understand true love”, “none of my business”, etc.

His behavior has gotten worse. He keeps spending money on her and is even clingier than before which I didn’t think was even possible.

Honestly my fellow MGTOW brothers, I am done helping him. He needs to crash and burn, again, but much harder. The thought that his girlfriend will be a part of my family when they get married is very embarrassing and disgusting. I need to isolate myself away from these 2 clowns. I’ve had enough.

I’d suggest getting out of the toxic situation as soon as you can. That’s what I did when the expectations of my family became tiresome.

Your brother seems like he’s committed to following a destructive path despite seeing the road signs warning of the danger ahead… It seems like you’ve done all you could possibly do and he’s still full speed ahead towards a collision course. There’s not much else to be done at this point.

The most important lesson is not to get too sucked in by the inevitable car crash. Offer help, as he climbs out of the wreckage of his delusions but if it’s not accepted step back and let him stumble, bloody and damaged into another faulty car if that’s his decision.

We can’t live life for other people, no matter how much we might want to. He will have to learn from his own mistakes if he won’t learn from other people’s mistakes. Sometimes wisdom is only achieved after every other option is expended. Sometimes people never achieve any wisdom and it’s unfortunate but there’s nothing to be done.

Safe travels on your own path.

[Y_Participant 4591]

I am sorry for your loss.
Your brother will lose everything and the bitch most likely may get him arrested.
He cannot win but make sure you are there for him.
Ha may attempt suicide so watch out for the signs.

I have seen many men go through this. He will have to
work this out on his own. Eventually most men make it.
Some don’t – you will have to live with that.

We are stronger than we realise and smarter than we give ourselves credit for. I hope your brother makes it.

In the meantime make sure he has a place to crash, hot food when he needs it and make sure he doesn’t do stupid (if you can).

May you be safe in your own journeys. Do not let his life derail yours.

[Vector VikingParticipant 413]

Sorry that it’s your brother, but f~~~ it. At least it isn’t you.
S~~~ty way to look at it, I know. The world is a cruel place and gives zero f~~~s about anything that can’t survive on its own. Not every egg that hatches turns into something that learns to fly.
You may need to give your brother a right and proper ass whooping. Remind him that throughout most of human history, men who behaved like him were usually exiled and left in the wilderness to be eaten by a bear or something.

[Anonymous 42]

Vector Viking wrote:

Not every egg that hatches turns into something that learns to fly.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

I don’t know if I am too late for a response, but what she is doing is “holding on” because he is on the path to success and she is going to use him for that. Sadly there is nothing you can do brotha but make him learn the hardway. If the worst has happened just tell him I told you so.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

[Colonel GaveAFuckParticipant 77]

“Remember when that chick…” “You ever notice…”

You can try slowly getting him to realize how women are. The best thing might be to hit him hard by basically calling him a bitch while bringing up how she is, remind him you are in it for him and you know he needs to wake up, don’t say it’s his fault make sure you blame her.

Just a suggestion, if it’s really that bad it’s worth trying to bring him back.

[Dark KenshiParticipant 2132]

Bro, it has been some months after you posted this.

My 2 cents:

If you want your brother back, better be prepared to fight a full scale war with the bitch.

Start by shaming her, in front of him, like “Yeah, how many marine c~~~s have you sucked this time, sweetheart? Probably too many you can’t even count, right?”, or “Heya (whatever her name is)! Who is the one your are going to f~~~ after my brother this week?”, “Hey, do you remember the night that you came to this house late and said to (whatever the name of your brother is) that you just wanted to sleep and that he had to hold you? Yeah? I got the name of the guy who you tried to f~~~ and had said no to you… I know my brother wants to know his name to, c~~~… What do you say?”

Things like that. Shame her, and shame her hard. Play HER game, but keep the control over it. Know the rules, then bend them.

Like MG-Tower said, keep tracks of her unfaithfulness, to use as ammo for the shame offensive. Probably your brother will stop talking to you, but believe me, the shame will sink deep within him and specially in her.
He have to crash and burn a little before learning to keep his b~~~~ in his dick.

"Young was I once, I walked alone, and bewildered seemed in the way; then I found me another and rich I thought me, for man is the joy of man." Odin, Hàvamàl, stanza 47.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

If you have not already done so, I suggest you print off these two books and ask him to read them:

Online PDF copy of The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar.
http://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf

Here is a PDJ online copy of The Anatomy of Female Power by the Nigerian author Chinweizu.

http://therawness.com/AFP.pdf

That way he cannot argue with the authors like he can with you. I am sure once he starts reading them he will be curious enough to continue.

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