Guys settle for less

[Buller100Participant 2189]

I wrote on a previous thread about a 63 year old guy who settled for a lot less than he could have got , made me think I know a few guys who ‘let the women have the house ‘ when you can usually keep 30% but it can’t e sold until kids are left home , whilst many men get financially raped in divorce many willingly settle for less.

Why ?

[Manspread MansplainerParticipant 4222]

Blue pill brainwashing.
I’m noticing a big problem are too many guys think with their c~~~s making them easy targets for women.

If women ran the world = It would become the shithole you are seeing.

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22504]

Buller100 wrote:

I wrote on a previous thread about a 63 year old guy who settled for a lot less than he could have got , made me think I know a few guys who ‘let the women have the house ‘ when you can usually keep 30% but it can’t e sold until kids are left home , whilst many men get financially raped in divorce many willingly settle for less.
Why ?

This is of course, 100% correct.

Hypergamy reigns. Women marry up. They want smarter, stronger, handsomer, bigger earner, than they are. If the nature of hypergamy is that women marry up, men by defaut are settling for less.

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[Nags4CashParticipant 1163]

If i had been in the position of many guys here who were knee deep in marriage bulls~~~, i would do whatever i had to do to simply end all contact with the woman. Even dealing with kids, i would just disappear from everyone for the sake of my own life then offer the kids help and companionship when they came of age themselves. They wouldn’t necessarily understand that many women will do everything in their power to drag a man through the mud to make herself feel special or something but a man who’s soul has been worn down by not having control of his own life will be useless to the kids anyway.

Also some men have been conditioned to believe they’re “doing the right thing”. If you ask men why they do a lot of stupid things in relationships, you’ll get that answer a lot. “doing the right thing” pretty much always involves giving women more than they deserve due to cultural expectations.

Murph ~ There is nothing brave or manly about entering into a contract with somebody which allows them to take your money, assets, children, and decades of your future income on a mere whim.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

You are a 1 she is a 10 and still she is less.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

I think that it’s often less of an idea of a man settling for less as compared to the UNJUST INEQUITABLE Divorce Laws like community property where a Woman is ENTITLED to half of Everything REGARDLESS of what she brought into the marriage, or did or DIDN’T do to EARN IT, and of course ther’s also legalized extortion which they have termed alimony.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Anonymous 18]

Men are loyal. Women are gold-diggers.

[SolidParticipant 7520]

Desperation + Indoctrination

He didn’t settle for less, literally he settled for “what he could get”, is like going out to lunch, you want something nice, but you “go for less” eating something not so nice or fastfood. That guy literally just have a bubblegum that he found in the toilet for lunch, in that situation would be better if he didn’t even had lunch.

[ForeverDoneParticipant 2928]

Really depends on the quality of guy and is self-respect. I recall in my divorce my attorney told me I’d never get her to voluntarily leave my pre-marital house on her own volition, I did. He told me I’d have to keep her on my health insurance until the Judge signed off on my dissolution of my sham marriage, I didn’t. It just so happened, by the grace of G-d, that my insurance company cancelled my insurance at the end of the year and thus I was no longer legally required to keep her on. I went so far as stating I would go with no insurance rather than cover hers. I was told I may have to give her some of the increased value of my house for short time we were married, I didn’t.

It just goes on to how much you are willing to fight for what’s right and what’s yours. I told the attorney, I’d be damned if I’d give her one damn. In the end and with my consistent. pushing on the court I gave her jack s~~~ and got my freedom.

Never again. Women, in general, ruined a good deal for themselves with marriage. I will never allow myself to be put in that type of position again. I look at women in terms of relationships differently now. It truly is a shame to only look at them as sex objects.

Good job women!!

[Branched offParticipant 10921]

I think there is more at play here than just blue pill brain washing, though that must be a big component.

Guys have jobs to get on with. entitled ex wives will work tirelessly spending money on lawyers to squeeze every last penny of the pay check they know will be the last from that man. The entitled c~~~s know they can pay the lawyers off form the extra they get. The man knows any lawyer he pays to argue will only cost him money. He is the one paying the bill. This tends to make him want to get out fast.

By the time we get to brass tacks in a divorce the man may well be so sick of the woman he will pay to get her out of his life. Why bother fighting her for 30% of the house later, just make a clean break and be done with the bitch.

The odd fool really thinks he can buy her goodwill to get future access to the children.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[Buller100Participant 2189]

The point is in this case he is 64 married 35 years in a few weeks , one grown up son … he did it as he was in a rush to get back to the Philippines to see this bargirl , who dumped him when he never paid out large sums.

Even his lawyer said you can get 50% … I think it was a mixture as has been said , of him doing the right thing and being in love with the new girl.

I disagree waking away from the 30% as you would not even have contact , of your ex sold the place you get the monies in UK , or once the children have left home you can force a sale / remortgage .

Guys need to stop ‘doing what’s right for women ‘ if no children are involved …..

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