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You see a commonality to most of the advice hear right young brother??? IGNORE THIS FEMALE AT ALL F~~~ING COSTS!!! She is simply keeping you around as a play toy, you are being used like a f~~~ing $3 dollar plastic toy, and I S~~~ YOU NOT!!! This can not end well if you do ANYTHING AT ALL but ignore her like she has a contactable killer disease, and all you need do is breathe the same air to infect your still healthy body…PLEASE, you did the right thing in bringing the nagging suspicion here, where you are indeed cared about and respected, whether or not any of know you on any sort of personal level or not, we each are advising you not only from a place of care, but also a place of FANTASTIC AMOUNTS of personal experience, and time and time again the results are always the same…Again, forget you know her, ignore her everywhere, she calls out to you, you carry on like nothing, she calls, you let it go to voicemail, and then just straight save them, save them in case they are needed later for a court case, also save any calls she makes, and again no texty, no email, no nothing, cut all ties now…This is the advice I have for you my young brother, and truly hope you heed it, for the consequences for not could mean time in jail for you at some point not to far away…good luck….chin up, these years go by in a flash, then you can move on to another college where she cannot access you anymore…hang in there…keep coming back here…you are among friends here…
Men are at a time when panning for gold in a urinal has a higher probability of success than finding a faithful and loving woman, it is time to go your own way.....
I could jump in say something but there is no point, it has all been said. I would really encourage you to log and record everything.
If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.
Ignore her. Even if she’s talking to you, right next to you, do not acknowledge she exists.
That will solve any further issues- your first problem was becoming “friends” with her in the first place.
She’s not your friend.
are you a chia pet in man drag This, this and more of this. Go to the police and file a restraining order on her and her boyfriend. It’s a shame you have to do this, but it’s the only way to start a legal paper trail to support your position.
I would hold off on this until speaking with an attorney. Depending on your town’s politics, they may decide to haul the girl in and try to build a case against you, at which point the stuff about the play fighting and shoulder hits will come out and can be turned into grounds for assault charges.
Watch your ass. Don’t have ANY and I mean ANY further contact with this chick. If you have a family attorney, call him up and tell him what’s going on. If you don’t, then see about getting one, or just walk into a law office and talk to them. Usually the initial walk-in consultation is free, and they will usually give you some good advice as to how to handle it.
If you can talk to your parents/guardians, I would tell them what’s going on, and tell them everything. Tell them you think she’s just playing games with this other guy, but that if you’re not careful you end up in trouble over nothing.
If you have to see this chick in classes or whatever, keep communication to an absolute minimum, and don’t EVER be alone with her for any reason.
The thing you have going for you is that a fair amount of time has passed since the “alleged” incident supposedly happened. The fact that she didn’t speak up at the time and there’s zero evidence that anything at all happened, coupled with the new boyfriend factor, means that most authority figures will see this for exactly what it is: A young c’thwunt on a power trip.
But DON’T count on that. Cover your ass.
No further contact.
"Data, I would be delighted to offer any advice I can on understanding women. When I have some, I'll let you know." --Captain Picard,
Do nothing.
If she ever tries to talk to you, ignore her and exit, walk away. Do not debate, argue, discuss or speak to her.
If she sends you a text, ignore it.
If she calls you, don’t answer it.Do nothing.
If anyone asks if you ever hit, poked, rubbed, touched etc the answer is NO. Not well one time….. the answer is NO.In a matter of a short time she will move on.
The hardest thing in this situation is to do nothing. If you do anything it only escalates and you will lose.
Do nothing and if confronted you never touched her.
Watch your back. I’ve been there, road this situation. The sooner nothing exists the better.
Bunker mode.
Peace brothers
Just to be clear, I’m not playing the victim, I’m not trying to create drama. I hate talking about my personal life and am only talking about this because I desperately need advice and need to know what the f~~~ I should do. My apologies if this is too long and completely useless, I’m simply giving as much information as possible in case there is anything that could be useful.
Earlier today a female that I have been friends with for 3 years now has accused me of beating her up last year. Just today, we were at school and she saw me hanging out in the hallways and told me to walk with her (typical behavior for her. Yes she is a bit bossy, I didn’t really care.) for a few minutes before we went out to her boyfriend’s car. Just a few minutes later, I see his car pull up in the nearby parking lot (at our school, there is a parking lot in the front and the back, I walked with her out the front and circled around to the back to go home.) where he then comes out and yells at me to leave her alone. I was confused and yelled “what?” to make sure I heard him right. He walked up to me, clearly p~~~ed and told me again. At first I just thought he was a very jealous boyfriend but after confronting me, he said she told him I beat her up last year. We did screw around once and horseplay “fought” once but neither of us got even a scratch and we have jokingly punched each others shoulders. I was shocked and told him that I thought he confused me for someone else and asked what my name is. He knew my first name but not my last and even though I have a very common first name, I know of only one person with the same name that this girl knew and he would never hurt a fly. When he walked back, I waved my arms and mouthed words in a non-aggressive way to her, still sitting in the car, as in to say “No I didn’t, what the f~~~?” and she didn’t have a care in the world. By the way, me and her are both seniors in high school if that helps.As everyone else has said, do not contact this girl again. EVER.
If she contacts you on a phone, block the number. If her friends contact you on her behalf, block their number. if YOUR friends contact…………you get the picture. Not a word, not a warning. Pure blackout.
Of course, your friends will start bringing up stuff about her. I would tell them firmly,”Listen. I never want to talk about or even think about her again. If you bring her name up anymore I’m outta here.” Most importantly, mean it.
Watch where you’re going. She’ll try to,”Accidentally” show up there to talk. If you see her first, then don’t go. if you’re already there and she shows up, leave. There is nothing to say and no reason to listen to what she has to say. She burned that bridge down and now you’re sticking a wall up in its place.
Your family or her family will probably try to convince you that it is “Just a girl being a girl” or some other s~~~. Well, she is being a girl……………the kind that you don’t want in your life in any way, shape, or form. If even your family is going to be on your back about it, look into moving out of that house as soon as you can. Until then, Try not to be home when they are until they get the message that your word is final and you’re not backing down about it.
Chances are the whole thing between you and the bf has already blown over, but If this guy ever tries to contact you again, Be cautious. I personally would only speak to him on a phone if you have to at all. You don’t need to meet him in person and chances are if you do, he’ll do something dumb, dangerous, or worse since he’s with her. You don’t need that drama in your life.
On the whole, if you’re already seniors, you’re damn near done with having to deal with them. Finish your year out, get your diploma, walk off the stage, and continue to go your own way.
Learn from the past, Control the present, and you will know the Future.
FS, got a little bit more time to clarify. The guys on here are awesome, and I respect their advice. Let me clear up why I say don’t go to police just yet:
You are in high school AND whatever it is that she is telling her BF about you happened a while ago. Chances are 99% that if you ghost , record everything, NOTHING will come of this. If you get anybody but an attorney involved, you will have drama, though you still will be ok. Your parents should always know if they love you like I do my kids.
If she accuses you to somebody besides her BF, you can always bring out your logbook and recordings and say ” what the f~~~, this guy tried to fight me and I didn’t do anything but was keeping record just in case”
You my young friend are very lucky to learn this cheap lesson so young.
Lay low, study learn from the good dudes here but don’t get bitter. Your in a good place. I know your situation seems s~~~ty, but trust me I would trade with you right now if I could. It will blow over 99%, and if it doesn’t, you have not lost any ground. The problem with going to “authority” is that they will make a federal case out of it, and it will scare your X. Right now she thinks it’s a game, but when cops show up with parents, holy s~~~ will the victim come out.
Trust me, lay low, be smart and study hard. You will be ok
When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.
PS, any older than high school, I would elevate my response to restraining order and cops. No nuclear weapon when you are close to ground zero and chances are good for no further conflict.
When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.
Pay attention to all the advice to avoid her at all costs. She is not done with you. She will try to pass that incident off like it never happened and continue to use you.
The fact that you walked with her makes me think you are an orbiter of her. Break free from her toxic gravity and go your own way. Above all, you do NOT need to explain a single thing to her. You are not her follower. You may get some flak for this, but those who shoot at you are NOT worthy of your friendship.
Do not let yourself be manipulated into being alone with her ever. If that means you avoid high school functions, so be it. Prom sucks and you will not remember most of the people in three years.
Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.
I agree with much of what is said above. I’m in my 50’s and have had the police at my house due to a false accusation over me calling my girlfriends father to tell her to stop breaking my s~~~.
Heguen wrote:
Go to police or school director or autority And Tell them before hand. Avoid Her And her boy friend. Get a restraining order. Tell your friends What happened.Dont Ever Ever be alone with her And récord everything
I would definitely not go to any police like authority. They have been trained to arrest you. They are not there to find the truth that’s what a jury is for to them.
They have been trained that women never lie about rape or and domestic disturbance. You reporting it will put you on their radar and it is a strike against you. Furthermore, you are admitting to a problem between you and this girl. If she accuses you the police will have it on file that there was a problem between the two of you.
The only advice I can give is to get her on audio recording admitting to lying. It may be illegal but I’ve heard of so many cases where a recording saved a guy. The court get’s it in in some way. I know of a specific case but that’s not what this thread is about.
Next, get her to text you a message admitting to lying about the false accusation.
Then save the evidence and pretend everything is normal while really avoiding her like the plague and hope you don’t spend the next 4 years sweating out the false rape accusation because women learn from their play.
She learned how to accuse you with no ramifications. Now she’ll get better at it and better. She’s a ticking time bomb. I paid 10,000 to an attorney to be told the last 2 sentences.
Good luck.
#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.
Drop that s~~~ like it’s a red hot anvil smeared in motor oil. Nothing she can offer you is worth the trouble that comes with it, mark my words.
Ah, high school manufactured drama. The good times. Anyways, ditto to those that suggested to never talk to her. Can’t agree more. Now you see the dark side of the plantation, we can tell you it only gets worse from there….or you can leave it now while you have the chance….
Punks- Not Feeling Lucky Since 1971
Go to police or school director or autority And Tell them before hand. Avoid Her And her boy friend. Get a restraining order. Tell your friends What happened.
This even thou the cops are not gonna help you. She is s~~~esting her boyfriend and she wants to make him jealous to see if he will fall for it so she is trying to get him to white knight for her by kicking your ass.
If a fight starts then you should lift weights just in case and learn some fighting skills and even if you get your ass kicked in it will still make experience fighting and you will learn from it in case some other idiot wants to beat the s~~~ out of you.
Just an east coast asshole who likes to curse, If you get offended by words like fuck, cunt, shit, piss, bitch or any racial slurs then you just scroll down.
Lots of good advice here.
My $0.02 – does the guy go to your high school? If so, get on the front foot – go to the office, make a complaint, get the pussy dragged in there and make him repeat what he said to you. Then get her dragged in and make her face her bulls~~~ accusation. Can your parents afford to lawyer you up? Turning up to school with a lawyer might not be a bad idea, if the school think you are considering a lawsuit and they will be out s~~~loads of $$$ then they will want to sort it out very amicably.
If the guy does not go to the school, then you might have to consider a restraining order.
But either way, get on the front foot. Don’t wait to see what comes next: yes, it’s very likely NOTHING will come of this, but currently it’s, “maybe nothing, maybe a beating from her idiot b/f, maybe a false accusation that ruins your schooling”. F~~~ all that – get on the front foot and make THEM face the music for their behaviour. You do NOT deserve this s~~~ and you do NOT have to put up with it.
Go to police or school director or autority And Tell them before hand. Avoid Her And her boy friend. Get a restraining order. Tell your friends What happened.
She May de using you as decoi to hide something from her boyfriend or just s~~~ test him.
How old you are?
Tell your family also
Watch your back.
Its my opinion.
Dont Ever Ever be alone with her And récord everything
This x10000. Decent chance she’ll do it again. Report the accusations to the authorities up front, make a statement. It’ll look a lot better than if they get one from you after she reports it.
"He didn't marry until now, so he won't ever do it. Think about it, why would a man like him ever marry? It's too late to catch him. " ~some cunt
I know that you might be feeling very scared right now. Listen to the other guys here: do not forget to tell an ADULT (someone older, like parents, teachers, counselor, principal…..it might save your life!).
Next time, always keep your phone camera ready in video mode (make a shortcut in your homescreen so you can bring it up in a second).
Do tell an adult. If you’re uncomfortable with police etc., tell your parents/teachers.
On a side note, if it had been me, I would have completely cut off all contact with the girl; but I would have waited for the right time and place, with the right weapon, to fix up that bully. I did that once to a bullying teacher in my school, and he was a LOT older than me. Though I would not recommend it, because I got arrested for that later.
A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.
I’ve been researching your situation.
This is a reference article from Wikipedia discussing false accusation.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/False_accusationThis is an article discussing legal recourse for false accusation.
http://www.alllaw.com/articles/nolo/personal-injury/legal-recourse-falsely-accused-crime.htmlThis article discusses what to do when falsely accused.
http://www.criminaldefenselawyer.com/resources/criminal-defense/defendants-rights/falsely-accused-a-crime.htmHope some of this information is helpful.
After reading about this, my initial recommendation was incorrect.
According to the above articles, you should never approach police or school authorities without an attorney being present.Good luck.
She has shown you who she is. Follow the advice above and treat her accordingly. No contact. No response to contact. Call block. Discussion block. Explaining block. This crazy bitch is manufacturing drama for an unknown reason. But while we don’t know the reason, we know that it is from a list of reasons ALL of which are pathologic. The drama she manufactures will negatively affect everyone around her.
Use her as a chance to practice recognizing and abandoning crazy drama bitches. With more practice, you’ll be able to see them coming and recognize them for what they are at a greater distance than they can see you and attempt to include you in their drama.
Practice makes perfect so start early and practice often. There will be other crazy bitches that come along in your life…
Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you
Just today, we were at school…
This is nothing more than middle school bulls~~~.
How old are you? You had to sign a statement confirming that you were both a man and over 18 to join here.
Are you over 18?
Did you lie in order to join this forum?
Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.
Just today, we were at school…
This is nothing more than middle school bulls~~~.
How old are you? You had to sign a statement confirming that you were both a man and over 18 to join here.
Are you over 18?
Did you lie in order to join this forum?
Someone p~~~ in your cheerios again billy boy? See a lot of whining coming from you. If you had bothered to actually read the OP you would know he is a senior. It is possible to be 18 in high school.
To OP: Punt the c~~~!
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