growing pains while being a mghow

[bertie_birmanParticipant 12]

anyone else experience it?

part of me feels like it’s cuz i am still emerging from the trauma of blue pill brainwashing, like i am doing something wrong. for instance, a part of me feels like maybe i am just venting out my frustration. but when i think about it, f~~~ it, maybe i am a loser who “can’t get women.” i guess my sexual market was crazy bitches and the girls who hit the wall (these always fancy themselves sophisticated, and i tend to have tastes that are considered so . . . which is retarded, as that’s not how i see it, but whatever). but if that’s all i can get, i don’t want it. i don’t want c~~~ carousel left overs and i don’t want to be with a girl who wants to be with someone more alpha and is settling for me, and i now know crazy girls endanger my life and career. that conclusion makes my skin crawl.

at the end of the day though, i think i look at the above, and that doesn’t define me. it’s not my f~~~ing fault that is the way that it is. defining myself relative to how women see me is what white knights and uncle times seem to do. but at the same time, i can’t shake off this nagging feeling that there’s something “wrong” with me. is this the inner residual blue pill / mangina talking?

[bertie_birmanParticipant 12]

also, i just want to add: this seems to be the only place where we can express ourselves and not be degraded and humiliated. so why the f~~~ are people hating on us so much? i think i’m just a dude who is kinda fed up with the aggregate experience of not simply women, but how this society is configured in a lunatic manner.

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

Hey brother, the problem is not you. Our society is going to hell in a hand basket.  Feminism and the ills it has perpetrated on society is just a symptom of a bigger agenda to destroy our culture.  It’s no surprise that you feel and think the way you do.  You have been programmed to think in the blue pill paradigm.  Deprogramming is a process and takes time. It will be a bumpy ride along the way. It will be one step forward and two steps back at times. You are waking up from a comfortable nightmare and it’s not necessarily pleasant.  Strap your boots on tight and make the best of the ride.  You’re not in this alone!

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

bertie_birman wrote:

i can’t shake off this nagging feeling that there’s something “wrong” with me. is this the inner residual blue pill / mangina talking?

Yep.  That’s the ghost of the gynocentrism you’ve been spoon fed all your life whispering in your brain.  I’ve found the best way to kill it is finding something to replace it.  Something legitimately worthwhile.  Something that actually benefits you.  The ghost of gynocentrism, for all its pleasant empty promises and emptier threats can’t compete with anything delivering real benefits because listening to the ghost of gynocentrism only ever costs you.

There is nothing inherently wrong with you.  Others’ complaints against you are only their desire for you to benefit them and have nothing to do with you.  The only standards you ever need judge yourself against are your own.  So go find something that you think justifies you and ignore what other people think.  Accomplish something you think is worth accomplishing.

bertie_birman wrote:

this seems to be the only place where we can express ourselves and not be degraded and humiliated.

Degradation and humiliation come from within.  Sure they can try to degrade you.  They can try to humiliate you.  They can try to shame you.  But if you don’t feel humiliated or degraded or ashamed it only means they have failed.  They can’t do any of that to you if you don’t care, and that makes you damn powerful.  And they know that.  F~~~ ’em.

so why the f~~~ are people hating on us so much?

Because they want things from you, and they aren’t getting them.  They’re like angry spoiled children throwing a tantrum in the supermarket when they don’t get the super frosted sugar cereal they want.  Their friends all get the cereal.  They’ve gotten the cereal in the past.  They’ve come to expect the cereal.  They believe they deserve the cereal.  They believe they have a right to that cereal.  And you aren’t giving it to them.  So they are angry and upset and disappointed.  And the last thing they want is for more cereal providers to hear about your refusal because they know if enough stop buying the cereal it will stop being sold entirely and they’ll never have any of that delicious sugary goodness ever again.  Or they’ll have to pay for it themselves.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

What I couldn’t recommend more is to find something you really like, any kind of hobby, whatever it is, and set goals about it. You know, like a sport, learning how to play an instrument, anything really. Once you’ll find something you really enjoy doing, most women (I’d even say people in general) start to appear less important,and you’ll gain confidence because you’ll know you have something to live for. The world is filled with wonderful things most people don’t delve into, it’s a shame there aren’t more people passionate about things. I truly think humanity as a whole would benefit from it, it kind of saddens me how so many people just seem to be so happy to stagnate where they are.

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Mango Ingaway wrote:

What I couldn’t recommend more is to find something you really like, any kind of hobby, whatever it is, and set goals about it.

Yes! In fact, setting goals and achieving them is excellent for the sanity. As a contrast, never ending tasks have the opposite effect, for example office drone work, assembly line work, dealing with a shrewish woman.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Dans0nParticipant 36]

As the fellow gentlemen alrady said, it’s all part of the programming and everything is absolutely fine with you. There are times in life, when you have to think outside of the box and act accordingly. Even when no one else is seeing it. You’ll never lose if you believe in yourself, there’s always something to win out of it.

Society:

[John DoeParticipant 743]

bertie_birman wrote:

so why the f~~~ are people hating on us so much?

You say this like this is a bad thing.  Stop thinking so negatively, and enjoy it.  Being the “bad guy” gives one a lot of opportunity one could not otherwise get away with.

“A wise man gets more from his enemies than a fool from his friends.”

 

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