Greetings MGTOW

[TNWParticipant 14]

Greetings men of MGTOW.

I have been lurking on the forums for weeks now and read a few posts recently that caused me to take the plunge and register.
I have waited a few days to post an intro because I was not sure what I wanted to say or how to say it. I am not sure I fit here 100% as some of my beliefs/thoughts are a little off the beaten path from what I have read here.

I am a Christian and firmly believe in the actual institution of marriage. I also believe a good woman is a very precious thing. However, with that said I am at the point now where I fully understand women have f~~~ed up that great partnership and good women (women who care beyond themselves) are such a rarity that there is no sense in investing emotions and money into looking for it. I understand now that a woman will find the best horse for the race and ride that horse until she thinks she finds a faster one at which point she moves on (whatever damage that causes does not matter).

I am divorced now for several years. I chose VERY poorly and married a cheating lying flaming whore. I made that mistake and I still pay for it and will for years to come. We had a child whom I love dearly so that means I pay a monthly whore fee even though I have more custody at this point.

I could go on forever how much of a bitch and a whore (if there was a stronger word for that I would use it) she is. How bad of a mother she is and how big of a liar she still is. I wasn’t the first divorce and I wasn’t even the last so you can imagine what that looks like.

I did not date for years after the divorce. I chased my X for some time trying to get her back just being hurt and depressed the whole time being a sad and pathetic mess. Then I came upon some intelligence (including photo evidence) of what a gigantic whore she was and is and that all turned to anger. Quite literally she left my bed and jumped in the next one within days (so it was probably going on before she left). When I was ready (after the anger had somewhat subsided) I tried online dating in all sorts of places and found it to be a waste of time and money. Obviously if you message a chick she looks at your pic and moves on. I suspect they get tons of messages from all sorts of desperate wing-nuts so they talk to only the best looking. Why do they want a good looking dude? Flashier looking trophy to make themselves feel better and to show that off to the other crazy bitches.

Anyways, not being a good looking dude I talked to few women and only really dated one. That ended after a few months and it did not bother me that it did. It was at that point I had a moment of clarity. I just did not give a s~~~. I rather be by myself and not deal with crap. I rather feel the occasional pangs of loneliness than deal with daily crap or have my heart pulled through my anus again. Not to mention I see so many men running after chicks like little lost puppy dogs either for sex or “love” making fools of themselves and allowing themselves to be ruled. I used to be that way but I now find that pathetic and I will NEVER give away my power to anyone again.

So where am I with it all now? Well I don’t date or plan to. I am not very attractive and I do not have enough cash to offset that (sounds whiny I know but it’s just the blunt truth). And honestly, with that said… I REFUSE to settle for the chick that would settle for me. So again, not worth it and I am past caring about it.

I concentrate on being the best parent I can for my little one which is a full time job as I have to constantly offset the negative that comes from my X in that situation. I work on my relationship with God and I have one primary hobby I dink with a lot.

You might think that this whole thing deciding to be alone is depressing. For a time, it was. But I have put A LOT of thought into it and decided it’s the most logical path and I am a peace with it. And at this point it’s quite liberating. Why? Cause I don’t give a f~~~.

--Trust No Whores--

[RedRojasParticipant 559]

The Bible says that a virtuous woman is valued “far above rubies” I think it’s Old Testament somewhere. I wasted 15 years of my life searching for a virtuous woman, never found one. Now I realized how much time I wasted chasing Unicorns and that I got much better things to do with my time.

I’d get a dog if I were you, and some people here are saying get a Fleshlight. Haven’t bought one yet, but I’d take there word for it.

Welcome Brother

Consistency is victory - Ultra Magnus

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Welcome. Nobody fits 100% that’s why it’s your own way. You are far from the only Christian, and many of us have little ones. As for your looks, Spanish have a saying amongst women:

El hombre es como el oso, mas feo, mas hermoso

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[MecklotParticipant 608]

It’s truly sad that stories like yours are the norm nowadays. Husband and wife marry. Wife turns into a bitch and a whore. Wife extracts time and financial resources from marriage to divorce. Husband is left powerless due to the gynocentric family courts. Husband now lives in near poverty. It’s just sickening that I described over ninety percent of men’s divorce experiences.

But I’m glad you managed to see the light. Welcome to the forums, brother. You sound like you’d fit right in.

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

Welcome, brother.

You’ve found a good place to put your feet up and find your bearings for the next phase of your life.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home brother.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[The Manipulated ManParticipant 1856]

Hello TNW,

Appreciate every word of your Introduction. I can relate to everything you have said and I have experienced much of it myself.

TNW wrote:

I am not sure I fit here 100% as some of my beliefs/thoughts are a little off the beaten path from what I have read here.

If you were to write a post about where you are on your spiritual path in the Philosophy section of the Forums, you may be pleasantly surprised with MGTOWs replies.

Let me reassure you that the truth, no matter how ugly it is, will only bring you into a more honest closer relationship with our creator. MGTOW is the perfect place for those who can handle the truth.

My faith is still strong in spite of all of the evil which has been revealed. And I was never forced to see more than I could handle.

Your statements about your ex-wife were just like the ones I made about mine except your words and insight are more profound. In fact, many of us writing on MGTOW have had similar experiences.

TNW wrote:

…and firmly believe in the actual institution of marriage.

I hope that you are flexible enough to examine more MGTOW wisdom when you are ready down the road which may “transform” your belief into something new.

About a month ago, I discovered some more interesting MGTOW information on what had happened to change the actual Institution of Marriage into the abomination it is today. Alas, I forgot the source and exact details.

It was a story about what life was like for a man with a family over a hundred and fifty years ago. In the rare case when a wife chose to be a Whore, she was free to leave. However, the husband kept HIS children, HIS house, and HIS hard earned savings. The Whore got nothing, as it should be.

In our heavily Gynocentric indoctrinated modern society, it may seem to even the strictest Patriarch that the story mentioned above was “too hard on Women.”

But we have forgotten about Woman’s Nature. Men have also forgotten about Women’s more advanced abilities to Manipulate, hide the truth, and flat out lie.

These advanced manipulation abilities combined with their “Pandora’s Box” of Woman’s Nature already gave them too much power well before they took the right to vote.

RedRojas wrote:

I wasted 15 years of my life searching for a virtuous woman, never found one. Now I realized how much time I wasted chasing Unicorns and that I got much better things to do with my time.

Me too!

I have come to believe that there were never any NAWALTs or “Unicorns.” The Old Times had many restrictions on woman’s Nature which made Blue Pill Life barely tolerable.

An honest investigation of the “Good Old Days” will reveal a Fool’s Paradise and the birthplace of the belief in “Unicorns” or NAWALTs.

The best we can hope for now is a “White Tiger” which ultimately ends up in a mauling like the Siegfried and Roy situation.
AWALT.

What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, TNW
We’ve all been there.

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Welcome to the machine, TNW. Glad to have you with us.

RedRojas wrote:

The Bible says that a virtuous woman is valued “far above rubies” I think it’s Old Testament somewhere.

Note my custom signature.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome! I’m glad you found us.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[TNWParticipant 14]

Thanks so very much for the warm welcome. It is much appreciated. It seems I have indeed found a good place to be.

I have learned a lot from the MGTOW forums and videos in the last few weeks. It made me feel like I was not a crazy person for thinking the way I do. I am sure there is plenty for me to learn from you guys. And hopefully I can contribute as well so others can avoid the same mistakes.

Thanks again and I hope everyone has a great morning.

--Trust No Whores--

[RoyDalParticipant]

Welcome!

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 42]

Hi TNW, I came to this thread fishing for tuna and read this:

TNW wrote:

I am a Christian and firmly believe in the actual institution of marriage.

I read your intro and you fit right in, not that fitting in here is hard to do.

I would like to take this opportunity as another believer to tear your sentience apart. The word “actual” means action in motion during any given time-frame, past, present, and future.

The “actual” institution of marriage has been thoroughly distorted for more than 150 years when men “actually” lost ownership of their children with the only remnant being the sir-name attached to the child like a license plate.

Then came the 1970s’ when men “actually” lost all control over the family when no fault divorce laws freeing women to “actually” do whatever the f~~~ they wanted too, including abortion on demand and affirmative action to enforce their new found privilege, forever bonding women to the hive and men to obscurity as a disposable utility.

You need to “actually” wake the f~~~ up and get that blue
Cinderella smog out of your nostrils!

Otherwise you could be seeing one of these in your near future:

[joetechParticipant]

Welcome to MGTOW. You’ll find everything here.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[TNWParticipant 14]

Anonymous wrote:

I would like to take this opportunity as another believer to tear your sentience apart.

Well my apologies. I did not properly convey my intentions/thoughts on that one. To be more clear I was referring to the original intent and structure of marriage. What we have now is an abomination to the Lord. Between the laws on the books now and the way modern women are it really does not reflect what God intended. Add to that the nonchalant attitude both men and women have towards it and there is no reason left to engage in it. For the type of man that would actually care about the person they are with and fully believe in the institution (as I did) it is like playing Russian Roulette with 3 rounds in the gun. You will lose and you will lose big.

That was what I meant to convey about that.

--Trust No Whores--

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

TNW wrote:

it is like playing Russian Roulette with 3 rounds in the gun.

You should make that your quote/footer
“Marriage is like playing Russian Roulette with 3 rounds in the gun”
very catchy.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 42]

TNW wrote:

That was what I meant to convey about that.

I’m just trying to convey there’s 6 rounds in the gun, no chamber is empty, and holowpoints to boot!

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

TNW wrote:

does not reflect what God intended.

I can’t speak for god, but from what I’ve read there are way more Redpill warnings in the bible than pro marriage references.

VERY first story goes like this
Adam don’t take the apple. Her hypergamy wants the bigger better deal she is already monkey branching over to that there snake.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

FrostByte wrote:

I can’t speak for god, but from what I’ve read there are way more Redpill warnings in the bible than pro marriage references.

VERY first story goes like this
Adam don’t take the apple. Her hypergamy wants the bigger better deal she is already monkey branching over to that there snake.

It’s all in the interpretation, isn’t it? One way to see it is oh the poor woman, she got tricked or seduced by the snake. The other is that she is incapable of loyalty. Sadly I don’t remember hearing the latter in church. Church is a business and at least around here most of the “clients” are women, so they get a very good treatment.

TNW wrote:

How bad of a mother she is

Good point. I’ve never married and never had kids. But I’ve had a few girlfriends I thought at the time I got along with well. While in love, it was hard for me to think clearly and the self-preservation instinct was heavily suppressed while around them. Yet one hypothetical test they’ve all failed was that I could not imagine any of them as a (good) mother of my children. This has saved my skin a few times, since just for this reason I got out of relationships that felt good but were really bad for me, I just didn’t see it.

Welcome. I think you fit in just fine.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[TNWParticipant 14]

xlrsnbrg wrote:

While in love, it was hard for me to think clearly and the self-preservation instinct was heavily suppressed while around them. Yet one hypothetical test they’ve all failed was that I could not imagine any of them as a (good) mother of my children.

That is really a wise thing to do. I wish I would have done that. In reality for me a lot of it was my fault why? If you watch someone put their hand in a mouse trap even after people warned them that would hurt, its hard to totally blame the mouse trap.

But so yea in my case I have to parent double-time always offsetting the negatives of the horrible mother effect. And when its a woman who does things like drags whatever dudes (some even married) they are chasing around their kids or rather spend more time with those dudes then their kids, its a pretty hard situation. In fact my anger is swelling talking about so I will stop here.

--Trust No Whores--

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