Greetings Gentlemen,

[Vajra VarahaParticipant 1284]

Welcome Chris!
Married MGTOW here.
I keep my vows for me, not her. That’s the kind of man I want to be, a man of his word, even if it brought me pain, it destroyed my delusions which I give thanks for. Wish I wasn’t married. But right now living with the dragon is good daily practice for my redpill. And keeping her bulls~~~ in line is a discipline. Will I leave someday? Maybe when I see no more value or growth in staying. If you have no issues divorcing, or no need to define yourself by the vows you took, go for it and beat a hasty exit knowing you saved your future. Keep the faith brother!

[Chris BurnettParticipant 122]

Indeed, I am in the same boat. I keep my vows for me, not her. Honesty and loyalty are indeed the virtues of MEN. If she slips up, there are no take backsies here, I ain’t hearing it. I look forward to re-embracing my solitude. Keeping her bulls~~~ in line is indeed a discipline. Patience WILL be tested! Narcissism is a personality disorder. It is very common in women, usually in mild to moderate doses. This is something that society knows, yet does nothing about. In fact, it seems that society rewards this kind of behavior from them. Look at the sentencing disparities between men and women for the same crime. Should this marriage end, it’s not gonna be on me. That way it’ll be easier for me to go on about life with a clear conscience.

I like math, see: the cost of raising a child > child support payment$ = A bitch getting hit in the face with a reality brick!!

[BlackValeParticipant 79]

I was once prepping for teotwawki, now, I find myself prepping for divorce, even though the wife doesn’t give me signs or a reason to really. (the truth is, do they ever?)

From what I have experienced from women, They only deal with you when you have something that they want. When you have fulfilled your purpose or they find a better deal. They draw away from you slowly if they think you will still be of use in the future, but if not then they will abruptly end it.

A good perspective I keep is that men are to jobs as women are to relationships. Its just business to them and they hold no one’s feelings in mind in any social situation unless it helps them in some way. This goes even for their own children. They only put up with them because of hormones or to fulfill their biological needs. They are nothing beyond their basic psychology now that I think about it.

For those of you who are on the edge trying to decide on marriage, let me lend you my experience. If I knew then what I know now, I’d still be single by choice. MGTOW saves lives.

I have never been married, but I have never met a married man who has either told me to stay single or that they wouldn’t do it again. This goes even for the “happily married” men. A co-worker once told me that the only reason he is still married is because his wife is old fashioned.

Thanks for sharing your experience.

[Anonymous 12]

Welcome Chris.

I accept that you stick to what you said when you married.
However, at least personally i think, what is higher/more important than those vows, is the self preservation aspect of your life.

If you are indeed prepping for your survival of the Divorce, i would offer to stroll through the the “marriage&divorce” section.
Though there is no “manual” for divorce, just like there is no plan to win a war – there is solid advice in there, alertness, attitudes, some practical tips and tricks.

You sound like a decent guy, and i look forward to hear more of your overall life experience.
Even of the DUUUUMB s~~~ you pulled.
welcome!

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