Greetings from Southern Africa- How i stumbled upon MGTOW

[Jah ShonksParticipant 44]

Greetings My fellow Mgtows, i have been a lurker for a long time now, however i felt the need to introduce myself to you all so i can share some of my small wisdoms in the future.

I am a male in my 20’s & I woke up to the true nature of women while i was in college. The extreme contrast between the rich and the poor within my country revealed to me the shocking lengths at which women will go to for money. Imagine living in a country whose average household income is less than $500 a month, in a college town full of illegal precious minerals miners.

Needless to say.. for us poor college male students, college was rough, these illegal miners were mostly uneducated drop outs, however they had enough money to drive around in the latest porshe and range rovers, and were capable of blowing thousands of dollars in one night at a club, only to wake up the next morning knowing they could go out and risk their lives digging out thousands $$.. more worth of Gold or diamonds.

I witnessed so many of my fellow colleagues getting their hearts broken by their girlfriends on campus. I myself had gotten my heartbroken as well, but was still looking for that special UNICORN… that all changed though. One night while getting ready to go for a night out for some drinks, just before we left campus, my friend told me she had just kissed her girlfriend goodnight and tucked her in bed. Only to find her hours later screaming in pleasure while bent over the hood of a brand new porshe behind a nearby club in the city… My heart sank as i watched my friend standing next to me drop to his knees in tears… he held on to my leg as he cried uncontrollably while i watched his girlfriend, and the other guy get off the hood, get into the car and drive off into the night…

Gentleman… i have to admit, tears rolled down my eyes as i watched my friend crying… seeing another man get his heartbroken is not a good experience, for me that was the breaking point… the following day as i lay in bed reminiscing about what had happened the previous night, i found myself googling, something to the effect of “what is wrong with women?” and that is how i stumbled upon THIS SITE. As i browsed through the site and related to the men on the forums… i felt like i had stepped into another alternate dimension of reality….IT ALL MADE SENSE… THANK YOU ALL!

P.S. My friend dropped out of college the following semester, and i never saw or heard from him again.

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome mate.enjoy

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[Anonymous 42]

Jah Shonks wrote:

Imagine living in a country whose average household income is less than $500 a month

Been there here done that. Third world conditions are springing up here in America thanks to the new maniacal order of things…

Welcome to MGTOW jah, here in the U.S.A. heart breaking is an everyday event for these modern women, they’ve turned cold and sadistic toward men and everything manly.

I was once pure of heart and loyal to women but slowly eroded away over time as I became more and more demoralized by each and everyone of them to the point my soul and sanity couldn’t take it anymore, I’ve been with married women after I snapped and said f~~~ it! Anything goes! it’s been 20 years since I abandoned all hopes for women and their modern day hypergamous insanity. I will not touch them ever again. MGTOW is the only FIRE ESCAPE in a world hell bent on destruction.

Again, welcome to MGTOW, I enjoyed reading your introduction…

[Anonymous 25]

Welcome. Going global (mgtow that is)

[Solo MAN’S WisdomParticipant]

Welcome Jah. Sadly, that’s an all to common story. I will be visiting your beautiful country in the near future.

When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

[Anonymous 0]

Welcome home, Jah
You will find many stories similar to that on this site. Very well written post. Your college education is not in vain. I look forward to your future posts.

[sonofthedestroyerParticipant 318]

AWALT jah! All across the world. I am quite familiar with Southern Africa as I have been several times. Heading out there again next month. Mainly as a tourist photographer on safari (my passion in life). I live in the UK but my land of origin is South Asia. And I get attention from women over there only because of my British nationality. They see it as an easy opportunity to climb up the ladder. But I don’t take the bait. Your friends heartbreak story is common in my community. My women act moral in public and in front of their families but they are mostly cheaters who cover their tracks very well. The women in my own family are cold blooded creatures who see men as nothing but walking wallets. Not a shred of real love, affection, respect or appreciation. Women in my family were a huge role in me going MGTOW

[Jah ShonksParticipant 44]

Thank you all for the warm welcome, i feel quite at home, M52 thanks for those kind words,and to the above poster (sonofthedestroyer). AWALT is an important life changing fundamental truth I learnt. Unfortunately so many men in my community are in a deep slumber with regards to the awareness of the true nature of women.

One of the greatest disadvantages towards African men especially in my country has to do with cultural traditions. Our cultural teachings that we learn growing up, forces men into a life of servitude disguised as being “responsible”. Particularly the use of totem poles, as an indication of your “tribal identity”. People of a similar totem pole though they may have never met before, are considered to be related. Therefore you end up having an extended family well beyond your immediate family bloodline, and society shames men into using their hard earned resources to support memmbers (especially WOMEN) of that particular tribe… Needless to say women take full advantage of this… and men walk around with their heads held high in pride because they are BEING “RESPONSIBLE”…. it’s sickening….

[HitmanParticipant]

Welcome brother!

[chirParticipant]

Gratz on tearing off the blinders society placed on you. Stings like hell when you rip them off but your vision gets better.

You are young and college educated so you are in a decent position and I recommend traveling if you can.

Other thing to take note of is if you start to become successful you will attract flies. Big ones… They smell money at 500 yards. They will use every bit of their SMV to trap you and legally tie you down. Can’t have any free range males wandering around with money. That money belongs to them.

You can play the field, just remember that these flies don’t take rejection easily. (Its a waste of their precious time because their SMV is so limited) They will s~~~-post you on all social media, scream rape or assault, and then cry up a storm to their friends, your friends and your family. Best thing to do is warn them you may lose all your money. Then they will monkey-branch to another prospect.

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion, it is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed, the hands acquire shaking, the shaking becomes a warning; it is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

[sonofthedestroyerParticipant 318]

Ah yes one of my tour guides from the Shin tribe in Zimbabwe was telling us about animal totems as we were driving through Zambia. We don’t have that kind of thing in our culture but servitude towards women is considered an essential duty in our culture. The women traditionally behaved themselves for fear of consequences. Now thanks to feminism they are showing their true colours. Adultery and divorce rates are going up each year in my community.

[sonofthedestroyerParticipant 318]

Was meant to say shona and not shin sorry

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Welcome Brother.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

Jah Shonks wrote:

Our cultural teachings that we learn growing up, forces men into a life of servitude disguised as being “responsible”.

Welcome. Nigerian here, reporting in. What you said above is all too common. Sex-based servitude disguised as self-serving responsibility. Traditional African marriage in a nutshell.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[Aleph MaleParticipant 214]

Welcome sir, there’s no such thing as a “single” woman.

Behind every miserable man there is a very happy woman.

[AttonParticipant]

Welcome to the site.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 1]

Welcome, enjoy your freedom of mind.

[Anonymous 1]

Welcome Jah !

Congratulations on having your eyes opened! It’s sometimes hard to accept, but once you can see clearly, it’s a great relief.

Cheers,
H

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