Greetings from Ohio Valley

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  • #485602
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    Esteban
    Esteban
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    Hello to all my MGTOW brothers. I would like to offer my introduction. I am 50, divorced for 9 years from my first and only marriage. Six months ago, split from an eight year relations~~~ that almost destroyed me mentally.

    Since I can remember, I had been the poster boy for the blue pill, mangina guide book. Programed from School, Books, TV and family on how to treat a lady. For years, I chased that nonexistent shadow of… If I can just get that promotion (more money), provide constant “loving” reassurance, bigger house, nicer car, awesome vacation, etc, then she will be content and happy. Not knowing that content and happy are two things that cannot exist in women’s self-entitled nature.

    Summer of 1992, driving on a rural Indiana road, I was proposed to by my now ex-wife, “I’m pregnant”. This was only after about 6 months of dating. In my blue pill mentality, I did what I had been programmed to do, “that’s awesome, lets get married”. However, I distinctly remember a faint thought of, “I am completely F~~~ed”. Fast forward, two more kids and all her typical bitching, non-house cleaning, money spending and cheating. 16 years later came the, 6 months’ separation, then Divorce. I must admit, the Divorce was basically painless as we both just wanted out and agreed first time around on what to split. Of course, she was already seeing another guy so that made it a little easier for me. Although, I was screwed in the end, giving up half of my retirement and paying a s~~~ load of child support.
    Now to the main reason of becoming MGTOW. During the separation from the Ex, I met that girl, you know the soul mate, the girl of your dreams, the one that would be forever. Little did I know what I was in for… I can only refer to her now as the Bitch from hell. Constant jealousy, I’m the best one moment, biggest piece of s~~~ the next and allowed her to separate me from all my friends and family. I thought these types of bitches only existed on TV or in the movies, this can be real, this must be scripted. I could seriously go on and on and on about her f~~~ed up BPD personality as most of us could but I will spare you all the things you already know about her.

    One day, after many years of constant emotional abuse, I was researching why I was in such a depression. Then the moment came of my epiphany, I discovered MGTOW. After reading many articles and watching videos, I uncovered the truth. All this time, it wasn’t me. A huge weight was instantly lifted and I was exposed to the most important three letters of my life NFG!!! So, six months ago, I began my rebirth as a Man Going His Own Way. Within this short amount of time, I have gained my confidence back, I am more financially secure than I can last remember, and renewing connections with old friends and family. I am currently pursuing old and new life goals with the self-assurance I have not felt in a long, long time.

    I joined MGTOW and have lurked in the back row from quite some time. Thought it was about time to stand up and say hello to everyone. I chose my avatar of the character Esteban Vihaio as he knew what the women in his life were good for. I cannot thank you all enough. Your shared stories, insights and knowledge have literally saved another Man. I now know I am not alone! The Man in me that had been isolated in the bulls~~~ social cocoon is now finally found freedom.

    A feminist asked me how I view lesbian relationships... Apparently "in HD" was not the right answer.

    #485610
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    Anonymous
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    welcome brother. I thought I was alone, and it was all my fault…nope, women are programmed at the factory to just completely lose their s~~~ just before the warranty runs out…hits the wall.

    perhaps we were married to the same woman? my c~~~ exhibited all the same behaviors as yours, jealous, rage, violence, irrational bulls~~~.

    pull up a chair, hang out a while

    #485611
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    Awakened
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    NFG Changes Everything !!

    Welcome !!

    In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

    #485613
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    Anonymous
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    Welcome to the Art of NFG

    thanks for sharing your story. good to hear your focusing on yourself and your own goals

    #485615
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    Welcome, Esteban.

    I recommend the following book:

    https://www.amazon.com/Subtle-Art-Not-Giving-Counterintuitive-ebook/dp/B019MMUA8S/ref=pd_rhf_gw_p_img_1?_encoding=UTF8&psc=1&refRID=V5HH4EEG67ZN60YRC5AZ

    When women lead, destruction is the destination. -- Me.

    #485644
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    Anonymous
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    Warm welcome Esteban.

    True happiness awaits you.

    #485657
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    Anonymous
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    Welcome Esteban, pussy beggars in the eyes of women look like little poodles that can be made to do tricks, like jump through hoops for treats.

    As soon as they’re board the cute little poodle gets a kick, that’s just one of the facts about female nature (unless you treat them like s~~~). Then it really doesn’t matter anyway because in your mind your the one that made them throw-away, tossed to the winds of discern, indifferent to any concerns that otherwise may be used against you. “poof” they’re ghosted and on their own free to reap the rewards of whatever poor decision they choose to make and not be held accountable anyway.

    They’re completely spoiled, without discipline, and out of control!

    The fools think a real man is some puppy that does tricks!

    The wall is a much lonelier place for modern women than it is for modern men, we’ve been conditioned to be alone and suppress our feelings all our lives, conditioned to squelch our desires, and to bow down beneath and serve a women and endure whatever injustice they can throw at us. GAME OVER.

    There’s a new game in town, their racket is over and ending in dismal failure. MGTOW is the name of the winning game.

    The dog pound has no complaints, they cant’s keep cats on the shelf for more than five minutes!

    We’re witnessing the crazy cat lady over population explosion!

    #485664
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    MarketWatcher
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    , I was screwed in the end, giving up half of my retirement and paying a s~~~ load of child support.

    Like many of the other men here. Glad you got off the plantation. A big Welcome from Cinci brother!

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    Anonymous
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    Welcome Esteban!!! You are in the right place. Please make yourself at home! By the way where in Ohio is the Ohio Valley?

    #485672
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    MACHO
    MACHO
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    I met that girl, you know the soul mate, the girl of your dreams, the one that would be forever. Little did I know what I was in for… I can only refer to her now as the Bitch from hell

    Sorry I was a little busy, great intro Esteban, enjoy the forums. 🍺

    You must own a better Crystal ball than I
    #485715
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    Joetech
    joetech
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    Welcome to the forums. When I read that you’d met your soulmate after your divorce it reminded me of my “soulmate” that I met a few years after my second divorce. Yeah, she ripped out my soul and tried to mate with it. Welcome to the forums.

    "Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

    #485718
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    John Woods 13
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    perhaps we were married to the same woman?

    We were. Because AWALT.
    Welcome Esteban!

    The answer is NO. “I could but I won’t”. Memini murum!

    #485727
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    BlacqueJacqueShellacque
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    Welcome Esteban! I have never been married but have had the “soulmate” experience too. It blows when it ends but it needs to be seen as an opportunity to excel.

    Looks to me like you’re winning.

    #485739
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    MarketWatcher
    MarketWatcher
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    where in Ohio is the Ohio Valley?

    Down by the river. /no not in a van/

    The Ohio River Valley. Basically the entirety of the Kentucky-Ohio state line.

    #485760
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    Anonymous
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    Welcome brother, young MGTOW te salutant.

    #485776
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    Esteban
    Esteban
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    Thank you all for the very warm welcome! You have made feel like a long lost brother that has found his way home.

    Down by the river. /no not in a van/

    Market~~~cher is correct. I, being just on the South side of the River… Also not in a van! (great SNL reference)

    Again, with the help from you all, I feel as though I have my life in order. I have my “compass in hand” and again have that sense of control over my life and know where I am going. I look forward to sharing my thoughts and experiences as well as continuing to learn from you all!

    A feminist asked me how I view lesbian relationships... Apparently "in HD" was not the right answer.

    #485807
    MarketWatcher
    MarketWatcher
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    Oh no, I got a N. KY brother here. 🙂

    #485840
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    Blade
    blade
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    Welcome bro . Seen ya avatar a bit when you have been lurking . Good to see you on here and a warm welcome

    THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

    #485956
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    Nexus974
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    Welcome from a fellow 50 something Buckeye.

    #485968
    AB
    AB
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    If I can just get that promotion (more money), provide constant “loving” reassurance, bigger house, nicer car, awesome vacation, etc, then she will be content and happy.

    ‘Destination Addiction’ is a killer – you have to learn to be happy in the present, not attach your happiness to a future goal. Which leads me on to…

    Within this short amount of time, I have gained my confidence back, I am more financially secure than I can last remember, and renewing connections with old friends and family. I am currently pursuing old and new life goals with the self-assurance I have not felt in a long, long time.

    I am so happy to read this. Your life is yours to enjoy, to find fulfillment and contentedness in your own faculties. A warm formal welcome into the light, may you live long and prosper as a MGHOW!

    No-one's yet explained to me exactly what's so great // About slaving fifty years away on something that you hate // About meekly shuffling down the path of mediocrity // Well if that's your road then take it, but it's not the road for me.

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