Greetings from Czech republic

[ButchiParticipant 88]

Hello Gentlemen,

first of all, I believe it would be polite to introduce myself shortly. I am 30 yrs old, living in Prague, Czech republic, working in a car industry as an IT manager, enthusiastic fisherman which I consider more lifestyle thing than a hobby. I am sorry for my english skill (which is far away from being perfect), but should be enough to deliver the message. I found MGTOW on a different forum and to be honest, it was really surprising for me since I never thought there are other men like me. I went through many topics here on the forum with my mouth wide open, because it feels like someone managed to describe my life completely. That is why I will be completely honest, knowing it might be a little bit dangerous since we are on the internet. F**k it.

Ever since I was 15 years old, I dreamed about having a woman in my life. Except a few affairs I had 3 relations~~~s. First one dumped me mercilessly at the age of 19 after sponsoring her for a whole week in Prague (she was not sure, if she wanted to stay with me, so she let the week decide – obviously without me knowing this fact). It was one of the first red pill moments, but I was too young, naive and full of hormones to understand it. No need to say, I was completely destroyed. It took me about 10 months to get myself together and start working on myself again. Unfortunately, there was no lesson learned so I continued looking for another one, which I met 2 years later. There were many obvious hints about this being a highway to hell, but I ignored them as I thought that that was the way everything was supposed to work. I almost gave up fishing, lost many friends from high school because she did not like them.. All I heard was me being lazy, not doing enough for her etc. Sex was allowed about once per month with something like predefined rules. I even moved with her together, but finally I came to an idea there was something wrong and that I expected more from my life (like true love and such BS). Still 24 years old, I did not have enough inner strength to end it, always thinking about I do not want to hurt her after 5 years, simply ingoring my own needs and goals. Eventually, a coincidence showed me the way, yet still not the right one. I met someone else, who dumped me after two months, cheating on me with her current husband, but it served its purpose. In the meantime, because of a lot of stress and pure unhappiness, I started suffering from an anxiety disorder, so I had to start taking pills and visiting a therapist. I decided to stay single as long as possible, in order to get myself finally together and stop f*cking up my life. It was one hell of a year, filled up with fishing, going to pub with friends, working on my career, playing computer games, basically doing whatever I wanted without being controlled, yelled at.

It felt so good I lost all my caution and got caught by the last one. At start, she looked like THE one. I ignored my gut and self-preservation instinct, eventually moving with her together. Well, I got what I deserved. Sort of a living hell. Nothing was good enough for this snowflake. She wanted me to pay for almost everything, bitching about me not buying her expensive purses and other stuff like that. I even found her a job at the company I worked for those days. Sex was terrible of course, as i was not allowed to do this, that and that. The final moment came when she told me she would never be with me if I was not on such a high position at work (Sales manager). Last 3 months of this 2 years relations~~~, I planned my escape, saved money, dumped her, recommended her to go see a shrink and moved to my own place, where I also live ATM. I call it my men cave (fishing stuff all over the place, refrigerator full of beer, meat etc). No women outside family allowed under any circumstances.

The last sexually driven free of charge interaction with a woman took place 6 months ago during a business trip, helping my friends company with sales. I tried to perform some steps in order to pump and dump her, which worked pretty fine until the moment she started crying and asking why does it always have to end like this, accusing me of making a bet with my friend. This was apparently a s~~~ test (not knowing this term back those days) which I most probably failed answering something like hey, this is not a marriage proposal, stop being so dramatic. I retreated back to my hotel room, opened a bottle of beer and watched TV. Guess who knocked on the door wearing nothing but underwear. The problem was I was too tired with this BS and lost my interest after her emotional drama, so I did nothing and after the hamster in her head started running again, she left. NO MORE STUPID GAMES following the rules written by shallow and simple creatures, whose only advantage is an extra hole.

It has been almost two years when I finally pulled my head out of my butt and started thinking like a man. I would call this last one my red pill moment. Recalled the memories of a single life, starting worshipping freedom above all. Moving on with career, currently earning more than 92% employees in the country, doing whatever I want without anyone destroying these precious outcomes of my work and focus. Buying expensive fishing gear, a boat, spending holiday meditating in our family hut without anyone bitching there is no electricity etc. I came to a peace of mind thanks to living with eyes open, looking at everything realistically, founding out many interesting facts described on this page. I simply became fed up with this f*cked up culture where man´s life purpose is to fullfill the needs of a woman. The evidence is everywhere around us. No need to talk about dating sites. I performed some tests in the field, which confirmed AWALT(more about this later, maybe). My problem is that I am still not ready for a full monk mode – this will hopefully come later.

Ever since then, when the need occurs, I pay for a hooker. It is not that expensive, if you consider a fact that the only thing it costs you is money and you get exactly what you pay for. Some might say there should be this chemical-inside-the-brain process (love) involved, but if it means spending money for a useless expensive stuff, being miserable all the time and then getting laid in predefined conditions, who the hell does that voluntarily? I saw my two uncles getting divorce raped, because they had a need for younger woman but did not want to solve it like I did. This influenced me a lot. Almost everyone around me is either married or has a long-term girlfriend. Many of them are not satisfied, but refuse to do anything about it. Some of them even envy me my freedom. I feel sorry for them, but thats all I can do about it. It was their decision. In my opinion, except intimate things, everything can be done better with men. Starting with a simple conversation, ending with e.g. 2 week trip into the nature.

Maybe I am not 100% MGTOW in your eyes, as I have to admit my weakness giving everyone a chance to prove themselves being worthy my time, but in general I am done with women, watching my borders cautiously, planning my future without them. I would really love to cut them off completely, but I am living in a society and have to work somehow within it (working level etc).
However, there are still many threats on the way like social pressure. I am dealing with them easily, but it gets annoying – like mosquito in your bedroom. Men are still being judged by others using only one measure, which is their capability to obtain a pussy. I am a decent person and cannot treat other human beings like sh*t for no reason. I rather do not treat them at all. If someone is dumb, I just do not waste time wih that person. Because of this, I am really tired explaining my steps to others (knowing that 70% of the people are really stupid), being very often marked as weird, bitter, asocial, rude and crude. I simply stopped giving a f*ck.

Is it really IT?

I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

[MgrwmacParticipant 154]

Welcome brother, don’t waste a second worrying about opinions you can’t change.

Be strong and true to yourself.

[Anonymous 42]

You’re not alone! Welcome to the stampede!

[ButchiParticipant 88]

Mgrwmac wrote:

Welcome brother, don’t waste a second worrying about opinions you can’t change.

Be strong and true to yourself.

Anonymous wrote:

You’re not alone! Welcome to the stampede!

Thanks borthers for a warm welcome. I hope I can find some good advices from more experienced ones, offering my point of view or maybe help to others as well!

I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Butchi wrote:

Because of this, I am really tired explaining my steps to others (knowing that 70% of the people are really stupid), being very often marked as weird, bitter, asocial, rude and crude. I simply stopped giving a f*ck.

Welcome. Someone has to be the smartest. I really like how you describe mgtow realization.

Don’t worry about your English writing style. The very small imperfections in verb tense actually helps drive home your frustrations.

I kept waiting for the part where she is pregnant and you are a father. Trapped!

This is where you survived. At my old age I now see that with modern technology all boys should opt for a vasectomy. It should be a sweet 16 birthday gift.

Anyway, good luck and looking forward to your unique views.

Peace brothers

[OldBillParticipant]

Butchi wrote:

I am sorry for my english skill (which is far away from being perfect)

Your English is perfectly fine, Butchi. Don’t worry about it for a second.

Don’t worry about explaining yourself and your actions to the people around, especially the women around you. Your life is your own to live. You need only justify your life to one person: Yourself.

Welcome to the forum and thanks for sharing your experiences.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[DorkShitParticipant 4353]

Looks like you used an actual pic of yourself.

We always advise against doing that.

This forum is open to public, etc.

Peace brothers

[UntamedParticipant]

Thank you for a most complete intro, Butche. You dodged several huge bullets early on with one hoe only wanting sex once a month ( you know Chad wasn’t restricted to one a month ) and another dictating what sex should be and how much you’re allowed to have…
I’m tempted to ask where the hell y’all meet these hoes but I can’t because All Weemins Are Like That!
I’m glad you found a just balance in your life between responsibilities and fishing, it’s our responsibility to make sure we go fishing at least 3 times a week.
Everytime I read an intro I’m stunned to read how a brother got played by such or such a hoe in the exact same way I got played… I swear it looks like the bitches use all the tricks from the same manual: How to F~~~up a Man in Less Time it Takes to Say it; Practical everyday lessons in Misandry.
Glad you decided to go C~~~-Free, bro.
Welcome to mgtow.com.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[ButchiParticipant 88]

DorkShit wrote:

Welcome. Someone has to be the smartest. I really like how you describe mgtow realization.

Don’t worry about your English writing style. The very small imperfections in verb tense actually helps drive home your frustrations.

I kept waiting for the part where she is pregnant and you are a father. Trapped!

This is where you survived. At my old age I now see that with modern technology all boys should opt for a vasectomy. It should be a sweet 16 birthday gift.

Anyway, good luck and looking forward to your unique views.

Thank you very much!
I am looking at this that I was as dumb as lucky, not willing to repeat this dance with death anymore. The hooker strategy should cover this, but one can never be too cautious, right? Considering I am in the risk age..
Thanks for the advice with the profile picture, although this page is not very known in CZ, I will rather change it.. Last thing I would want is being persecuted for my opinion. The freedom of speech is very relative these days..

I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

[ButchiParticipant 88]

OldBill wrote:

Butchi wrote:

I am sorry for my english skill (which is far away from being perfect)

Your English is perfectly fine, Butchi. Don’t worry about it for a second.

Don’t worry about explaining yourself and your actions to the people around, especially the women around you. Your life is your own to live. You need only justify your life to one person: Yourself.

Welcome to the forum and thanks for sharing your experiences.

Thank you very much..
It is really hard living in society, where everything is pussy oriented, even the way of living itself. Sometimes I feel really tired of fighting this s*it, but I see it as the right way, having an option to actually change something, or do something great in my life..

I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

[ButchiParticipant 88]

Untamed wrote:

Thank you for a most complete intro, Butche. You dodged several huge bullets early on with one hoe only wanting sex once a month ( you know Chad wasn’t restricted to one a month ) and another dictating what sex should be and how much you’re allowed to have…
I’m tempted to ask where the hell y’all meet these hoes but I can’t because All Weemins Are Like That!
I’m glad you found a just balance in your life between responsibilities and fishing, it’s our responsibility to make sure we go fishing at least 3 times a week.
Everytime I read an intro I’m stunned to read how a brother got played by such or such a hoe in the exact same way I got played… I swear it looks like the bitches use all the tricks from the same manual: How to F~~~up a Man in Less Time it Takes to Say it; Practical everyday lessons in Misandry.
Glad you decided to go C~~~-Free, bro.
Welcome to mgtow.com.

I am still not sure, if it was Chad, or she was simply frigid. But, who cars? The result was the same, I was strongly dissatisfied and no one could be surprised I decided to get the hell out…
I have been on my own since I was 19 yrs old, my parents did not have enough money those days and we could not afford almost anything extra. This has become my motor to actually achieve something in my life, so I do not have to worry about money..
TBH, I feel it the same way, just to see that they keep using those old tricks, like we, the men, were too dumb to process experience. I see this page as very educational for the younger ones, but there is still this problem that the transferred experience does not always do the trick. Many think it cannot happen to them and find out the hard way. Hopefully with at least some bullets dodged. I just find great that the real men are trying to change this twisted social dogma.

I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

[OldBillParticipant]

Butchi wrote:

The result was the same, I was strongly dissatisfied and no one could be surprised I decided to get the hell out…

You’re not alone in experiencing that, Butchi.

I’m in my mid-50s. The last I had sex it was with a women almost half my age. Throughout it all I was bored more than anything else. Thankfully, I was wearing a condom and was able to pretend I climaxed.

You get to a point in life where the act often isn’t worth the effort.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[UntamedParticipant]

Butchi wrote:

to see that they keep using those old tricks, like we, the men, were too dumb to process experience.

One half of the weemins think Men are too stupid to figure out they’re being played, they’re right in regard to White-Knights.
The other half think Men are too weak to do anything about being played. They’re right in regard to Menginas.
What the Femtard hive-mind cannot conceive of is a Man who neither needs or wants them around. MGTOW doesn’t compute in C~~~ Mind.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[ButchiParticipant 88]

OldBill wrote:

Butchi wrote:

The result was the same, I was strongly dissatisfied and no one could be surprised I decided to get the hell out…

You’re not alone in experiencing that, Butchi.

I’m in my mid-50s. The last I had sex it was with a women almost half my age. Throughout it all I was bored more than anything else. Thankfully, I was wearing a condom and was able to pretend I climaxed.

You get to a point in life where the act often isn’t worth the effort.

Thanks for sharing your experience.
I already found out that it is better to do it myself than with some random mattress from a club or other horrible place which I hate. I am not that kind of person that has an inner need to act like a trained monkey in front of pussy to get laid. I consider it hummiliating, waste of time and energy because it depends on the pussy carrier exclusively.

It is good to hear that man can evolve to such a high level, when he does not need it at all, sounds very positive.

I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Welcome Butchi. Thanks for sharing your story.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[ButchiParticipant 88]

Untamed wrote:

Butchi wrote:

to see that they keep using those old tricks, like we, the men, were too dumb to process experience.

One half of the weemins think Men are too stupid to figure out they’re being played, they’re right in regard to White-Knights.
The other half think Men are too weak to do anything about being played. They’re right in regard to Menginas.
What the Femtard hive-mind cannot conceive of is a Man who neither needs or wants them around. MGTOW doesn’t compute in C~~~ Mind.

And yet manage to get played by Chad easily. Pathetic. Delusional.
I follow the quote. Only a dead fish follow the stream, which perfectly matches the MGTOW philosophy.
Obviously, I am doing this for myself, but I think it also brings an enterntaining side effect in form of p*ssed off b*tches, who have no power over us.

I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

[Anonymous 3]

Great intro. Thank you.
One thing I cannot understand is how totally different women are at the end of a relationship. It took me a long time to get over losing my wife, but she just turned around & got remarried in the blink of an eye. They can throw away a man & replace him just like shoes.
You are in s great position to continue your MGTOW journey.
I am trying for monk but I am too invested in a particular aspect of the community to b able to do it. I am sort of a urban hermit, but I have to deal with women, so I have developed s strategy of subtle disregard to what they say or do & my home is my refuge. I am far from perfect & don’t pretend to b, but I embrace MGTOW lifestyle in a way that suits me just fine & I am sure ( from your intro) you will too.
No emotional commitment. NFG & I come & go as I please.
Your in the right place & among your own here.
Stick with the winners.
Stick with MGTOW.

[GregB0Participant]

Welcome Butchi and thank you so much for sharing your journey to MGTOW.

You are MGTOW, there is no single definition nor litmus test for membership, only an awareness that there is a better life available when You take control. Sounds like you have everything in hand and are ready to define yourself.

I look forward to hearing more about Czech culture, served with Czech soldiers in the early 2000’s. Great people!

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

[ButchiParticipant 88]

MoreSky wrote:

Welcome Butchi. Thanks for sharing your story.

Thank you very much!

I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

[ButchiParticipant 88]

Anonymous wrote:

Great intro. Thank you.
One thing I cannot understand is how totally different women are at the end of a relationship. It took me a long time to get over losing my wife, but she just turned around & got remarried in the blink of an eye. They can throw away a man & replace him just like shoes.
You are in s great position to continue your MGTOW journey.
I am trying for monk but I am too invested in a particular aspect of the community to b able to do it. I am sort of a urban hermit, but I have to deal with women, so I have developed s strategy of subtle disregard to what they say or do & my home is my refuge. I am far from perfect & don’t pretend to b, but I embrace MGTOW lifestyle in a way that suits me just fine & I am sure ( from your intro) you will too.
No emotional commitment. NFG & I come & go as I please.
Your in the right place & among your own here.
Stick with the winners.
Stick with MGTOW.

Thank you very much for your kind words!
That is the thing that bothers me somehow, it is like they have some kind of a switch inside that allows them to do that. This treacherous nature is simply disguting and no man should suffer for that. Wise words with a personal approach to MGTOW, really appreciated. Emotional commitment is the border none of us should cross, it just makes us weak against their stupid games. They should see that we have class but never let them get power over us. That is my understanding of MGTOW. No more White knight stuff, they are not worth it anymore.

I just don't trust anything that bleeds for five days and doesn't die.

[Author]

Posts