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[Frederick326Participant 4]

Greetings. I’ve been red pill since 2011. I’m 45. I guess I have always been MGTOW though… at least with regard to society in general. Just naturally have never cared about fitting in, whether it was in school or at work or anywhere. However, due to all the illusions I lived under for most of my life while in The Matrix, I tried damned hard to sacrifice myself to women when I was young. I got married and for 12 years (until 2011) I thought I had simply gotten very unlucky in my choice of a wife. I’m sure I needn’t elaborate why. Then I started comparing notes with other men online and realized I had actually been very lucky. It could have been far, far worse. I am grateful daily that the foolish young man I was didn’t attach himself to one of those monsters. Mine was bad enough. She was Chinese, hardworking, great cook, great housekeeper, excellent with money.  She was just hell to live with is all.  Well, that’s over now.  I again got lucky. We separated amicably and are raising our kids in a sort of even partnership.

But my marital experience is just the tip of the iceberg. My experiences with women throughout my life confused the hell out of me while I was in the Matrix. But it all makes perfect sense. I’ll never live with a woman again. Or go out of my way for them. A year-and-a-half has passed since my wife and I split and I haven’t dated. The thought of it would turn my stomach. Literally. I think I’m getting over that now. I might indulge in women again now. But, if I do, it won’t involve anything remotely like traditional courtship.

I just bought a sailboat. My dream is once my kids are out of high school to sell my house, buy a 40 ft boat and live on it until I’m too old take care of it

[TyberiusParticipant 25]

That boat sure sounds nice. Like the end of Shawshank Redemption. Welcome.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Welcome Frederick.

It could have been far, far worse.

I think men are being much too kind and generous when they say that. As men, we know the meaning of (and see real value in) being content. Women chase “happy” and complain when they are not….. but men are actually grateful for not being destroyed and having their lives turned upside down. When women are “not haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaapy”, they are miserable. But When a man is content, happiness is sure to follow.

Enjoy MGTOW, Man.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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