Greetings!

[toolforgrowthParticipant 5]

This is my first post here. Came to MGTOW all on my own without even knowing that it was a real movement about two years ago. When I learned that there are indeed many other men out there who feel the way I do, it only reinforced the decisions I’ve made.

I’m also glad to find a place online I can come to and speak my mind. If there’s one thing I’ve learned, standard relationship forums don’t take kindly to MGTOW men. Feminist sensibilities run the show there, and far too many of the men are blue pillers. I’ve encountered a few other men like me, but when I attempt to engage, the moderators shut it down. So instead, I’ll simply PM them the link to this website so they, like me and all the other men here, can have a safe place to come.

I have the typical story. Ex wife had an affair, divorce ensued, wherein I basically got fisted in the ass by the gynocentric divorce system. I’ve had to fight for every scrap of time I could get with my daughter, and thankfully it’s now 50/50. Not legally per the judgment, but my daughter said she wanted to spend just as much time with me as she did with her mom, and I pressed the issue with the ex, and she capitulated.

I have a girlfriend now after being single for about two years. Thankfully, my GF is one of those rare gems. She knows exactly what I went through, so she completely understands why I never want to get married again, why I will never co-mingle finances, and why I expect her to take care of herself and her children without any financial help from me. She wants to stand on her own two feet and has never wanted to get married. Lucky, right?

My life is now in perfect order. My career has moved forward leaps and bounds, I have a hell of a lot more money (it’s much easier to have cash when you’re not subsidizing a female’s spending habits), my relationship with my daughter has never been stronger, and I actually met a decent woman. Like, what the actual f~~~?? How did this happen?

MGTOW, baby. These are my priorities and here are my boundaries. Take it or leave it.

If you have any questions, feel free to ask. I’m glad to be a new member and I’m sure this will be a place where I can come to vent without being labeled a misogynist, chauvinist, or any other “ist” that victim card-playing feminists (dammit, there’s another one) like to use. Can’t a guy be critical of female flaws without hating them or wanting to subjugate them?

Apparently not.

But we know better.

[Anonymous 42]

toolforgrowth wrote:

without being labeled a misogynist, chauvinist,

Are you kidding, we wear those labels with honor and distinction, just ask ChauvinistPig. 

Your pristine and perfect GF? give it time, you’ll see…. Welcome to MGTOW enjoy the show….

[TheBardParticipant 974]

Glad to hear things worked out for you and you got to see your daughter. There are those rare decent women out there and consider yourself lucky to have found one lol.

[DeepInThoughtParticipant 2710]

toolforgrowth wrote:

I have a girlfriend now after being single for about two years. Thankfully, my GF is one of those rare gems. She knows exactly what I went through, so she completely understands why I never want to get married again, why I will never co-mingle finances, and why I expect her to take care of herself and her children without any financial help from me. She wants to stand on her own two feet and has never wanted to get married. Lucky, right?

How long have you been with this girl now?

[Smitty the Great OneParticipant 1535]

About your new GF, if she won’t break to heel, kick her to the curb.

Life is too long to play by someone elses rules....

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