Got stood up, I'm done.

[IAmJacksBBCParticipant 47]

Got f~~~ing stood up. Looked like boo boo the fool the whole time just standing there. F~~~ this s~~~, f~~~ dating, and f~~~ the whole nine yards of it.

[MonkParticipant 16985]

She got a better offer. As far as she was concerned you were obsolete before you even hit the showroom.

[Anonymous 12]

I got to the point where all first meetings were during my lunch break and within a 3 block radius of where I work.

It limited the amount of women I could meet as it was during the day but at least when they failed to turn up it wasn’t like I went out of my way.

I also found that women would just agree to meet but in all likelihood forgot about it instantly.

[Anonymous 42]

Just s~~~ on them for the toilets they are! They don’t deserve to be taken seriously!

Laugh it off for the joke they are!

[MGTOW KnightParticipant 7477]

IAmJacksBBC wrote:

Got f~~~ing stood up.

Yeah been there too, and on Valentine’s Day!

Being a s~~~ty person isn’t limited to genitalia.

I know it seems s~~~ty now, but consider it a favor.

That c~~~ would most likely divorce rape your ass anyway.

This is a blessing. You just don’t know it yet.

Fuck bitches... literally and metaphorically

[Anonymous 18]

She is a bitch.

Most of them are made of the same lot.

GYOW. Focus on yourself, the c~~~s smell success, but remember the way they made you feel when you didn’t have the money.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

IAmJacksBBC wrote:

Got f~~~ing stood up. Looked like boo boo the fool the whole time just standing there. F~~~ this s~~~, f~~~ dating, and f~~~ the whole nine yards of it.

There is a great reason not to be angry about this. In fact, in today’s climate, the female flake rate is 75% at least (on a first date). You should have EXPECTED her not to show thereby reducing your frustration.

To OWN the situation here’s what I would do…

Knowing the integrity of today’s western bitch who has no respect for a man’s time and attention….. make an overture about your unwillingness to tolerate any flakey behavior. Be direct and upfront about it.

“So you’re definitely gong to be there, right? Because I don’t tolerate flakes“.

She will agree with you and DENY that she is the sort.
You force her to stick to her word – upfront.

“OMG YES!!! I”M NOT LIKE THAT!! OF COURSE I WILL BE THERE!!” etc.

… because they are all f~~~ing snowflakes.

NOW, when she doesn’t show, she has already turned herself into a zero-integrity-having piece of s~~~ – all by herself – that you never need to speak to again.

If she makes an excuse, make sure there is complete Radio Silence from you. Never contact again. No matter how much she blows up your phone with excuses and apologies, she is dead to you. And she knows it. Best part is , you need to do NOTHING.

SHE has turned herself into “the loser”.

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Also . . . she doesn’t actually know that you showed up and waited for her either!!. You’re not responding to her excuses or putting up with her crap, so in her mind, you could have been the one who didn’t show and flaked on HER too.

She flaked on you to think she is in a position to “reject” you, but she doesn’t actually know that it worked. you could have totally forgotten about the date yourself. See?

ONE chance. Per chick. Per lifetime. No exceptions.

If she hammers your phone or email, that’s the ONLY message she should ever get back from you.

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One of the most basic things I expect from every person I know is #1. Respect my time and property. They don’t need to respect ME, I’ll earn that myself over time, but throw my time in the trash, and I have no interest in that kind of person in my life.

You can make this a #1 rule for yourself because it really is asking NOTHING from other people. It’s a most basic thing. If she won’t respect your time, eject.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 43]

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

Probably the first s~~~ test she pulled on you.
You were, at best, a tentative back-up plan.
If any woman actually shows up on time for a first date, or even if she shows up at all, you really should be surprised. Maybe not impressed, but at least surprised, because it’s a normal s~~~ test tactic to stand you up and see how you deal with it.
She makes it YOUR problem.
Maybe you should apologize for being disappointed in her. LOL.
KMs post put it all together

[Anonymous 0]

Get back at her by telling her you’re planning a fantastic evening – dinner at a high end restaurant, followed by tickets to her favourite band. Really good seats in VIP section. Make her get in her car and drive far or public transit for a couple of hours.

Dangle the carrot. Make her want to go.

And then don’t show up. Don’t text her. Ghost her. Cut her from you life.

She’ll probably blow up your phone. Make her regret for standing you up.

[WA4SWJParticipant 366]

Remember, you are the one who has value. She has none. KM is right – walk away and don’t accept any excuses.

Ed

[Pedal, run, rowParticipant]

Don’t worry, if things don’t pan out, she will be back.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

IAmJacksBBC wrote:

Got f~~~ing stood up.

So delete her from your contact list, never contact her again, and get on with your life.

She’s done.

And if she ever contacts you (and she will), answer with: “I’m sorry, but who are you? You must have the wrong number.”

One chance, per chick, per lifetime. NO EXCEPTIONS.

[KaidoParticipant 2395]

Flaking is a woman’s common game. She must of found someone else. Sorry bro.

What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.

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