Good day brothers, here is my intro

[The Other GuyParticipant 21]

Good day Gentlemen,

I am grateful that I found MGTOW and discovered that I am not alone as I felt like I was for a long time. I was always strong about my manhood and what a true man should be like (unlike what is portrayed in the media and what is expected by the society). Like most of you out there, I am one of those who had to go through a certain chain of events to truly understand the red pill concept. Here are some of it:

• Being alienated in conversations because of standing up for myself as a man:
Every time I was around groups where there were bunch of women, topic often came to men vs women and therefore leading to debates where I was bombarded with bunch of 3rd wave insecure feminists. As a person who is proud of my gender and believed in true equality, I’ve always felt like I was being alienated simply because I stood up for myself and have always tried to argue to defend myself that men gain less than women by getting into a committed relationship. The sad thing is that not only most women are now the products of the 3rd wave feminism, but also lots of men are too. Every time I looked at social media pages, I see memes and posts that always directed to men that men needs to fit into a certain calibre to “deserve” a woman and to be the ideal “Gentleman”. This drove me nuts and lead me to start searching for groups/pages for men’s rights. Hoping that there is something out there, people out there like me who seek the same thing. I then came across this page and watched some of the videos and was relieved that I am not alone.

• Being successful before relationship:
As a young and single successor at the time, I started climbing the corporate ladder swiftly. I had so much money I didn’t know what to do with. Bought myself a nice car, went out every weekend and was so happy and free. Trained martial arts at multiple clubs in multiple disciplines simply because I could afford it. Until I did the mistake of committing to someone. I was expected to commit because this is the “social norm” right? Family pressure such as “your sister and brother got married, now it’s your turn”.

• After relationship:
My life started going downhill after this commitment. I was expected to buy an expensive ring, pay for an expensive wedding blah blah. All that crap because “it is the most special day for a woman”. Her family wanted everything their way. Despite how much money I had, I ran out of it quickly, believe me! So, I had to borrow some because the time was running out. Now I am in debt because of it. Her and her family constantly tried to take control of me and even one time her mother turned around to her (in front of me) and said: “you need to get your man under control”. I smiled at them both and said: “good luck!”. Ever since I was frowned upon simply because I stood up for myself. Throughout the whole process I never let anyone step on me and every time, I was portrayed as the “bad guy” or “bad partner” for doing so.

• Marriage going down after 1 month:
Why did I get married to her even though I was aware of things I said above? Well, the same excuse most had before making this mistake… I thought she was “different” because I’ve known her for over 15 years as a friend. But she wasn’t different… Our honeymoon was a disaster thanks to her insecurities and jealousy that cause lots of arguments. Then 1 month later into our marriage I found a long email from her to her ex telling him how much she still loves him and that he is her true love and always will be. That was pretty much the end of it. My love towards her started fading everyday very quickly and eventually I walked out of there before it was too late. Because it was “my fault” that I felt suspicious about her and checked her tablet (which I got her) and found the email because I was “spying” on her. Didn’t take me long to realise this was the best decision I made. Now I am getting back onto my feet, paying off my debts and focusing on my career. Hoping that I will reach my full potential again and be fully on my feet again in a year time. I started doing things I love again such as gym, Brazilian jiujitsu and of course video games simply because I have the time, freedom and enough funds to afford them. When I was married, playing a video game for more than 30 minutes would get me into arguments. I had to pay for all the bills because “all her friend’s husbands paid for everything”. I am glad that this miserable marriage ended early before it was too late and didn’t cause too much damage to me.

• What’s next?
Next is to get back onto my feet as quick as possible. I will try to educate men and introduce them to this page, so they can take the red pill. I hope that MGTOW will grow so big one day that women will realise what they are losing and how corrupt they have become because of feminism to the point the corrupt law system changes to be truly equal towards men, the ignored gender.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Welcome home .

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[ghostParticipant]

You are not alone, Beemer. We have all been through similar circumstances. Great introduction and welcome aboard, brother.

[SH3LLZParticipant 5569]

Welcome to freedom Bro!

#ICETHEMOUT
#MANOUT

#ICETHEMOUT!!! #MANOUT!!! #HIDEYOURWEALTH #VAGINAISWORTHLESS

[Wanderer77Participant 34]

welcome brother and thank you for sharing your story. im glad you got out of that marriage before you went further even more and had a kid with her. the outcome wouldve been bad, and unfair for the child as well as yourself.

i know where youre coming from seeing all the cuckery on social media. we have to get on our knees and beg to get f~~~ed over permanently and smile. asking for a 2 way street, gets the “its not always about you” BS reasoning.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

Welcome. I have felt and experienced much the same. With time and a little red pill ingestion you,ll see it for what it was and the healing can start.

I,m 2.5 years here and my awareness grows more each day.

[AkhilleusParticipant 2486]

Welcome bro

Aloha means family you don't leave family behind. Who will be the next Draconarius for MGTOW? MGTOW = brothers = acceptance = belonging

[TuneoutParticipant]

Welcome brother & I hope the divorce won’t be too hard on you – save all that evidence you found just in case it gets dirty – by the sounds of her it will.

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Anonymous 42]

Great intro!

Did you have any kids? (child support).

Were you divorce raped? Future earnings? Pension?

How’d you make out in the end? Is it over?

[Freedom Not SlaveryParticipant 508]

As soon as your money started taking a serious hit you should have bailed the f~~~ out like your life depended on it, f~~~ her, f~~~ her family, and f~~~ the people in your family telling you this is what you were “suppose to do like your brother and sister”.

People call me selfish, mainly people who hate that I am not drowning in debt, pay all my bills on time(or ahead of time), have extra fun money(I invest half and play with half), and am an owner not a renter. My car was bought brand new, paid half at the dealer, paid the rest when it was delivered to my home.

A woman or blue pill men want to see you suffer, they want you to be in the same s~~~ty mess they are, make similar bad choices, and have a stressful life.

Shun these people, drive them back into their plantations for they are only looking for new slaves.

Be happy and free, they call it selfish I call it doing whats best for me.

[Anonymous 43]

welcome brother

[mystoryParticipant 370]

Greetings, and thanks for the intro.

Tuneout wrote:

save all that evidence you found just in case it gets dirty – by the sounds of her it will.

This is not to be taken too lightly.
They rarely bow out gracefully. Try not to let the ex live in your head. Remember that she was never yours, it was just your turn.
Oh and The Wall is sweet enough as far as revenge goes

I don't need a legacy.. I don't need a monument.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

The Other Guy wrote:

Then 1 month later into our marriage

Better sooner than later in this case
Welcome!
Mix yourself a drink. The vadka is in the freezer

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[HitmanParticipant]

welcome.
glad you found your way here.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

I don’t drink Soo you can have my beer.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

mystory wrote:

Remember that she was never yours, it was just your turn.

Couldn’t agree more.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[IcebiteParticipant 86]

Welcome. If you haven’t done so already, divorce the bitch post haste, before she suddenly get pregnant.

[AttonParticipant]

and how corrupt they have become because of feminism to the point the corrupt law system changes to be truly equal towards men, the ignored gender.

Feminism is a simple abusers lobby, the women folk are the abusers. They are pretty much the problem when it comes down to it. Equality is a lie just take one look at the equal rights amendment.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 38]

Welcome home brother, may you long remain debt and c~~~ free!

[GargamelSpectator 29101]

Welcome Beemer man,

you found the right place.

I admire your fast and smart awakening. And your fast decision to bail out.

I also had c~~~s “growing on me” with their set of expectations and I stopped them dead in their tracks.

“Is she worth all that???”

… Seeing the fire in her eves and the twinkles she gives to her “old” male friends and chads?

Definitely not!

Sometimes you don’t even need to spy on her, just go out with her and watch her eyes. And then watch her eyes – and her bored look – when you want her to focus on what you say…

Then you see that you are of the least importance to her.

And get up and leave.

In my “test relations~~~s” I always said “NO” to foolish materialistic demands to test her love.

When she then caused a scene, I just said: “See, you don’t love me, it’s all about stuff and not about love. We better separate this now, as the cat’s out of the bag…”

I hope all men on this earth will soon learn the strength that lies in saying “NO”!

In July of 2018, this honey pot forum was sold out to an unidentified NPC sock puppet and troll organization. Most independent thinkers and writers migrated to other MGTOW forums as a result of the never-ending infighting and deliberate trouble starting caused by members who were given "carte blanche" by the admin to do whatever they want. Before my departure, I only left a few thousand cat pics here to comfort and ridicule the feminist owners who now run this place. Their background agenda is to make MGTOW look like a club of losers the public eye. And during the course of 2019, they actually managed to destroy almost all other MGTOW venues as well. Here is the truth about "theindependentman.org" aka "TIM" which was created as an extended workbench to further divide the community. When you register, they install a spyware Zombie cookie on your browser that does all kinds of things the user does not know of: http://www.filedropper.com/essay-on-the-removal-of-malware-cookies-used-by-tim

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