Gone Girl — The Case for Marriage Being Hell, By a Female Author

[Smacktalk73Participant 296]

The movie “Gone Girl” is fantastic.  No spoilers here, but I can tell you that what starts out feeling like the usual “Creepy Guy Kills Poor Abused Wife” does a complete 180 by the end, and cuts women absolutely no slack whatsoever.   No victim pandering, either.  It does a great job of avoiding the idea that there are “good” men and “good” women out there who can actually have a good relationship, and takes on the conflicts of interest between males and females head-on.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Separate living arrangements, separate finances. This in itself will reduce the stress put on a relationship a thousand-fold. Living on a constant basis with any person, male or female, can lead to hostility and a growing annoyance for their personal quirks that are neither cute nor tolerable.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[DarthWParticipant 70]

“Separate living arrangements, separate finances.”  –  I certainly agree there.  In my experience though, most women want a committed “roomie”, so they have someone to try to sucker into paying the majority of the bills.  No thanks!

When I used to think serious relationships were worth something, and also was stupidly dating single mothers, wow how the single mothers gave off every vibe that I would be expected to pay most everything – even for their kids by another man – without question…and that I should also be delighted at the opportunity.  Part of the reason I started on the MGTOW path was that in “doing the math” about a relationship all I could see was me putting a bunch financially into the mix and at high risk while she would get all the benefits and give little.  Talk about growing tension and resentment growing while living together.

[GrefParticipant 203]

This movie was f~~~ing amazing.

Spoil alert:

It show’d the true nature of a woman’s dark inner psychology. It showed how women are master manipulators. And the Desi guy, her ex from high school, the white knight who had a fierce oneitis for her. She murdered him, because he was madly in love with her, he would have never cheated on her or left her. Women hate men who love them unconditionally and treat them perfectly. But who does she really love? Her husband Nick, the guy who cheats on her, is physically aggressive with her, and wants to leave her.

Women are f~~~ed up, this is exactly in line with every experience I’ve had. If you love a woman unconditionally and treat her perfectly she will hate you for it. And the quickest way to make a woman chase you is to tell her to f~~~ off.

[url url=http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2d6337/i_was_divorce_raped_dont_be_me] I'm paying her 25% of my salary over the next eight years. I had to pay my lawyer, her lawyer, 50% of all my retirement funds and give her another few thousand dollars to make her go away. It cost me $20 to get married and will cost me over $220,000 to get divorced. [/url]

[Smacktalk73Participant 296]

Gref, you actually pointed out something I really hadn’t paid as much attention to — it is pretty funny that she basically always wanted what she couldn’t have.  To be fair to her, the f~~~ed-up-ness was traced back beyond just her own messed up mind.  By the end, I was wondering — was her parent’s relationship the same f~~~ed-up male/female control struggle?  It was pretty obvious her mom was a total bitch, and that both parents lived in a fantasy world of “Amazing Amy.”

But the best part of the movie for me was how basically ALL the women were in more control than they acknowledged, but also playing victim at every turn, and ALL the males were manipulated to hell by female imagery.   Remember the girly “friend” at the camp who robbed Amy by ordering her idiot boyfriend?   She started out all sympathetic and sad and “oh, I guess we like the same kind of men” with Amy when she saw Amy’s bruises, but then turned out to be in total control of her man, and ruthlessly able to plan an armed robbery.

There were no “strong” men, and there really were no “innocent” women — the closest you got was the sister, but it was pretty obvious she was just defending her family/livelihood, and backed in a corner.   She certainly wasn’t a disinterested nurturer — Nick p~~~ed her off like crazy, and she constantly was mad at him for just being a horndog who wanted to f~~~ pretty girls.

The pregnant bitch neighbor was a hilarious addition — she was so demanding and arrogant, even as a stupid, manipulated idiot.

[BiG_WeaselParticipant 116]

I watched this Saturday night, after reading this thread.  I was totally blown away by how good this movie was.  The character assassination the female TV talking head tried to do on him is exactly the same venomous talk you hear from feminazis all over the media.

You know one thing they missed? The old man who lives across the street was sitting on his porch the whole time.  He called Affleck to come get his cat, and I’d wager he saw Amy drive away just fine.  That should’ve been the first thing the cops had done.  Would’ve solved the case within minutes.

 

[MgtowWaveParticipant 4352]

As a man whos been married and been divorced i have to say just dont do it.Just say No.Relations between the sexes are F~~~ED.As StarDusk has pointed out the processes  going on in the brain during attraction ,bonding,love and orgasm is very similar to drug use,abuse and  addiction.

Ignore the hype.Love does not “make the world go round” and  “sexuality is all we need ” is a  ship load of bulls~~~.All of it is a ship load of bulls~~~ with a whole lot of  slight of hand  and <span class=”st”>corporate and cultural interests behind it.
</span>

When you are sitting at a table eating and you learn that the food and drink is poisoned its time to step away from the table,stick your finger down your throat and purge whats in your stomach AND tell everyone else whos at the table.No matter how good the food looks or tastes, no matter how pretty she is or isnt ,no matter what shes promised .

Until men realize that marriage, love,sex and even associating with women is a mine field, divorce rates are not going to change.Cases like the Duke LaCross case and #IStandWithJackie are going to continue unabated.

Maybe some day society ,culture and maybe science will find a better way.But until then MGTOW

frankly my dear i don't give a damn

[Author]

Posts